Husband and wife have paid of house,purchased in marriage.They take a loan from private investor,both sign the loan,in case of divorce what happens with this loan?In state of Florida.Wife signs the loan with husband for first mortgage on the house,in case of divorce she still has to pay it?
Wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend...it matters not since you are an official ';co-guarantor';. You are both equally indebted until full payment is received Florida or anywhere.Wife signs the loan with husband for first mortgage on the house,in case of divorce she still has to pay it?
To the best of my knowledge, the First signature on the loan is responsible for payment. The other person is only responsible if that person doesn't pay.
The wife and husband own the house together. They're both responsible for the loan.
Yes If you signed you are also responsible for that money even after your divorce.PS: Stop trying to be slick and leave the man in debt.
I would hope it is at least 2 bedrooms so if it happens they can both reside in the house.
both atr responsible
they are both responsible for the loan.
she still has to pay it in case of divorce
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
How can I convince my husband to not get a circumcision?
My husband has a very tight foreskin (phimosis) that only retracts while soft and never while erect. He thinks that sex would be better if he were circumcised because the head would be exposed. Is there really a difference in the feeling of sex when cut vs. uncut? I like the skin, but I have no real facts to convince him... HELP PLEASE!!How can I convince my husband to not get a circumcision?
Your husband can easily have his phimosis treated without circumcision, and it will definitely benefit him if he does.
The first of things he can try is stretching exercises, the first link I gave at the bottom will give you a page on how to go about doing that. Stretching exercises with the use of a steroidal cream applied topically to his penis could possibly fix his phimosis problem altogether and would be best if so.
The second of things he can try is extending his foreskin. This technique is the same as what restoring the foreskin is to men who have been circumcised. Mainly what is done is your husband wears a restoring device, over time of wearing it, a few months for your husband, his foreskin will grow new cells and become longer. Sometimes a tight foreskin only needs a little bit more skin to become loose enough to slide properly up and down the shaft of the penis. The second link provided will be on how to extend the foreskin on the page it is a bit further down; however this step will be a difficult task for your husband if he cannot even retract the foreskin while flaccid.
If stretching and extending do not work, or if stretching has not worked and his phimosis is too tight to attempt extending, the the third option is a dorsal slit. Links 3, 4, and 5 that are provided are about that. Mainly what is done is a small slit is made vertically into his foreskin to loosen it and afterward it can glide properly, there is no failure in that, it will work no matter what, and what's better is that he does not have to lose his whole foreskin to do it, actually he won't lose any of his foreskin from it at all.
There's a wonderful site out there which has a presentation about how sex is better for women and men if the man is intact. It contains 10 reasons why, each reason having various pictures and video clips showing why and how it is better. However I unfortunately can't find it at all, I visited it a few days ago, but my browser wipes its history after every session. Hopefully someone will know what I'm talking about because it was such a good argument why intact sex is best and beneficial.
And finally the last link is an overview of what can be done to help him without involving circumcision.
EDIT: I found the link I mentioned earlier in this comment about how sex with an intact/uncircumcised penis is more beneficial to the vagina and both partners. It is NOW the last link I have provided, on the page there is the ';Top 10 Ways Circumcised Sex Harms Women';. Click on the #1 and have your husband read it with you, go all the way through to 10. I think this will be an eye-opener for him as well as yourself. And hopefully should be enough evidence to have him at least considering a preptuioplasty, if not getting a circumcision. Good luck and hopefully everything I've posted will help your husband see that there's still options to try before taking the ultimate and irreversible step of circumcision.How can I convince my husband to not get a circumcision?
I was more than glad to help, I hope your husband sees now that he has plenty more options available to him. And eventhough I don't know you or him, I want anyone to be able to enjoy themselves as much as possible. Best of luck to the both of you.
Yes there is a difference. A Major difference. Circumcised guys are a lot less sensitive then uncircumcised.
He doesn't have to get a circumcision. Tell him to get fully hard and pull the foreskin back as far as he can without pain and hold it there for 5+ minutes. And do that 3+ times a day.
If the skin doesn't start stretching after 3 weeks then tellhim to go to the doctor and ask the doctor for steroid creams to help the skin relax and stretch.
Now he has to be careful because a lot of doctors these days will tell him anything just to get him circumcised. He has to stand his ground and tell the doctor he isn't going to get circumcised untill he tries the steroid cream.
The head is sapposed to be exsposed. But if he fixes the phismosis his head will be exsposed.
The head is always exsposed it doesn't matter if you are circumcised or not.
Once he fixes the problem his skin will retract when he gets hard and he will have a fullyexsposed head and he wil still have all the wonderfu pleasures of having a foreskin.
Just tell him to work on fixing the phismosis for now. If after it's fixed he still wants to get circumcised then so be it.
But I thinkhe would be happier just fixing that phimosis. His head will still be exsposed even tho he isn't circumcised.
-Connor
You just said it yourself. Your husband has phimosis. Thats not good and its not healthy. Besides that he is not enjoying sex to the fullest because he cant retract his foreskin during sex. Its his penis, not yours. I think you are being a bit selfish here. Circumcision wont affect you either way but not having a foreskin in the way will definitely let him enjoy sex better. You are right by the way. You dont have any valid facts to convince him not to get circumcised. he has a medical problem and he should take care of it. You will also have less yeast infections and urinary tract infections yourself.
you can get all the information you need here.
http://www.penisdoctor.com/
http://www.circumcisioncenter.com/
http://www.aboutcirc.com/
http://www.medicirc.org/
http://www.circumcisioninfo.com/index_ho鈥?/a>
http://www.circinfo.net/
http://www.circinfo.com/
http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/2754鈥?/a>
I was circumcised at 18 and would do it again in a heartbeat! I can assure you circumcision enhances the sexual experience, the foreskin only gets in the way. Right now he is basically masturbating inside you. When he gets circumcised the direct contact between the gland and the vaginal wall will drive both of you crazy! There is no downside to being circumcised, only a lifetime of benefits!
This page shows normal retraction of the foreskin:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/鈥?/a>
Phimosis is caused by damage to the penis. Certain methods of masturbation that put too much pressure on the penis are the primary cause of damage (note this is different from saying that masturbation is bad per se - don't mistake me for a religious nutter). So he probably damaged it growing up. It hasn't had chance to repair because he has persisted in putting too much pressure on the penis and using it every day.
How do some masturbation habits damage the penis?
The answer is: by applying too much pressure. There are 3 main arteries in the penis. The one most often damaged and the one that leads to phimosis most is called the corpus spongiosum. It runs along the underside of the penis. It should stick out.
Look at this diagram:
http://www.med.umn.edu/anatomy/6150/CD/N鈥?/a>
Because the arteries do not fill with blood it means that the glans attached to the corpus spongiosum cannot be pushed through the skin.
Examples of damaging masturbation habits include thrusting against the mattress and also pushing down on your penis while sitting at the computer watching porn. I'd be interested to know if you do any of these.
The correct way to masturbate is by applying no pressure. Just lightly grip the shaft and move the skin up and down.
Can it be cured?
Yes. All it needs is rest and time to repair. The body will repair it if it isn't being used or constantly getting re-damaged every time you masturbate incorrectly. This usually takes a week to a month depending on the damage done. Once you resume masturbating - remember no pressure - just move the skin up and down.
You do not want to get a circumcision because a) there is no need if you follow the above advice and give it chance to repair and b) it is damaging to the penis's sensitivity and function..
Why is circumcision bad?
First understand how important the foreskin is. The foreskin contains nerves. These are specialized nerves found nowhere else in the penis.
Without the foreskin, you cannot masturbate properly. Intact men masturbate by moving the foreskin up and down, like so:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/鈥?/a>
As the skin moves up and down, the nerves on the underside of the foreskin are stimulated.
Further damage is done because the foreskin is a protective layer of the penis. With the foreskin gone, the glans is exposed. Firstly it dies out. Secondly, it rubs on clothes; this causes the glans skin to become toughened. Both these things further reduce sensitivity. This page gives a good illustration of the damage done:
http://www.noharmm.org/IDcirc.htm
Circumcision obviously affects sex. Women and men enjoy sex more when the man has a foreskin. This page lists the ten reasons why:
http://www.sexasnatureintendedit.com/10F鈥?/a>
One physician noted that after stopping the bad masturbation habits his patients phimosis were cured and he never saw them again:
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/ph鈥?/a>
Well, from experience, I don't think it makes much difference in the bedroom. The man I've been with for two year was recently circumsiced and he said he felt no significant difference after the opperation. I didn't feel a difference either. I do however think it is a personal decision and I hope you would support him in his choice. No worries though, it won't effect your sex life either way =P
Andy has the goods. He can use a topical cream and stretching exercises .. if he can retract his foreskin while flaccid.. he hasn't far to go and also tell him that a foreskin provides you with a more comfortable ride if things get a little dry... as the foreskin's natural action of gliding backwards and forwards across his glans also impacts on what you feel in certain situations, like those times when your natural lubrication is not what it normally is... anal sex especially less aggressive... foreskin provides some give in tight situations... You might not be dry now.. at your young tender age.. but give it a few years and you will know that you aren't always going to be wet on demand.
His phimosis is not severe, since he can retract while soft.
He probably just needs to do some stretching exercises, ideally in the bath/shower, every day for a few weeks. Follow the instructions on this website:
http://www.geocities.com/restoremaine/ti鈥?/a>
This website also has some more general advice:
http://www.norm-uk.org/circumcision_alte鈥?/a>
Tell him to try an over the counter steroid cream for a few months and practise stretching it daily, before going for something like surgery.
Cutting it off is bad enough, but cutting it off as an adult means he'll be in for at least a month of agony plus any risks of complications.
It will be very painful!
It's easier for babier, but once you are an adult and fully grown man, it will be a tougher process. Tell him no. Maybe he should talk to a doctor about it, there might be other options.
Circumcisions are fine, but it;s not necessary.
uncircumcised men get more pleasure as well as woman.
when i was a baby i got circumcised and i wish i had the choice that he does to get circumcised or not but just tell him to read more on that subject and that u would prefer him to get get it
i think its better that he doesnt. if it would be better, then men would be born without that part. my dad had it when he was a baby and he is really mad about it. tell him that most men hate it.
I thought it was only possible to get circumcised while still a baby! Wouldn't that hurt something awful for your husband!!??
Tell him that uncircumcised men get more pleasure out of sex.
find pictures of infections from the surgery.
Tell him you won't have sex with him if he gets it!
I had it done 90 days ago %26amp; wished I'd had it done years ago!
Eeww just let him
omg ew
thats dumb tell him no
If your husband's foreskin is not retracting with an erection, then he IS missing out, the head of the penis is where a lot of the nerves are and where he will get pleasure. His is not getting exposed during sex, the foreskin is covering it.
(The argument that ';sex feels better for an uncircumcised man'; does not apply here, because the reason that uncircumcised men get more pleasure out of sex is that the foreskin protects the head of the penis, keeps it soft and sensitive, BUT then it retracts with an erection, and exposes the sensitive head. In this case, the foreskin is not retracting and is actually hindering the sexual experience.)
The most sensitive part of the penis is the underside of the head.
One of the main arguments against circumcision is that this area is now exposed, gets rubbed against his clothing, and thus because of the constant (albeit minor) stimulation, becomes less sensitive.
However, if while erect this sensitive underside is not being exposed, then he is not getting very much stimulation during sex. What small degree of sensitivity he will loose, will greatly be made up for by the sensitivity that he will gain, I suspect.
So to pull some figures out of thin air, to get an idea of the ballpark I am talking about, suppose that guys who are uncircumcised and don't have phismosis, get sexual gratification that we'll rate at say 100. Circumcised guys, because of the reduced sensitivity, get maybe 80. He's getting maybe 30 now, at best. Getting circumcised, in his case, will increase his pleasure by more than double, almost tripple what it is now!
You get pleasure when he pushes in. He gets pleasure when he pulls out, because the underside of the head is making the most contact then and is the part being rubbed. In his case, because of the foreskin, it's not getting rubbed - the only stimulation he is getting is from squeezing action that pushes hard enough to compress the foreskin enough that it pushes on the underside of the penis.
You and he have to weigh the additional pleasure that you feel having him uncircumcised vs. the additional pleasure he feels being circumcised. Now you can't know for sure how it compares until you actually have it done (and then it's too late to have it undone), but I seriously doubt your additional pleasure at having him uncircumcised is anywhere close to the additional pleasure that he will get by being circumcised. I'm sure that, in the end, you'll enjoy it more if he's enjoying it more because he will react differently as he gets more pleasure. If your pleasure decreases at all, it will be very slight. His, on the other hand, will increase greatly.
no difference and just tell him you like it how he is but it is his body and in the end it is his decision
answer mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Your husband can easily have his phimosis treated without circumcision, and it will definitely benefit him if he does.
The first of things he can try is stretching exercises, the first link I gave at the bottom will give you a page on how to go about doing that. Stretching exercises with the use of a steroidal cream applied topically to his penis could possibly fix his phimosis problem altogether and would be best if so.
The second of things he can try is extending his foreskin. This technique is the same as what restoring the foreskin is to men who have been circumcised. Mainly what is done is your husband wears a restoring device, over time of wearing it, a few months for your husband, his foreskin will grow new cells and become longer. Sometimes a tight foreskin only needs a little bit more skin to become loose enough to slide properly up and down the shaft of the penis. The second link provided will be on how to extend the foreskin on the page it is a bit further down; however this step will be a difficult task for your husband if he cannot even retract the foreskin while flaccid.
If stretching and extending do not work, or if stretching has not worked and his phimosis is too tight to attempt extending, the the third option is a dorsal slit. Links 3, 4, and 5 that are provided are about that. Mainly what is done is a small slit is made vertically into his foreskin to loosen it and afterward it can glide properly, there is no failure in that, it will work no matter what, and what's better is that he does not have to lose his whole foreskin to do it, actually he won't lose any of his foreskin from it at all.
There's a wonderful site out there which has a presentation about how sex is better for women and men if the man is intact. It contains 10 reasons why, each reason having various pictures and video clips showing why and how it is better. However I unfortunately can't find it at all, I visited it a few days ago, but my browser wipes its history after every session. Hopefully someone will know what I'm talking about because it was such a good argument why intact sex is best and beneficial.
And finally the last link is an overview of what can be done to help him without involving circumcision.
EDIT: I found the link I mentioned earlier in this comment about how sex with an intact/uncircumcised penis is more beneficial to the vagina and both partners. It is NOW the last link I have provided, on the page there is the ';Top 10 Ways Circumcised Sex Harms Women';. Click on the #1 and have your husband read it with you, go all the way through to 10. I think this will be an eye-opener for him as well as yourself. And hopefully should be enough evidence to have him at least considering a preptuioplasty, if not getting a circumcision. Good luck and hopefully everything I've posted will help your husband see that there's still options to try before taking the ultimate and irreversible step of circumcision.How can I convince my husband to not get a circumcision?
I was more than glad to help, I hope your husband sees now that he has plenty more options available to him. And eventhough I don't know you or him, I want anyone to be able to enjoy themselves as much as possible. Best of luck to the both of you.
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Yes there is a difference. A Major difference. Circumcised guys are a lot less sensitive then uncircumcised.
He doesn't have to get a circumcision. Tell him to get fully hard and pull the foreskin back as far as he can without pain and hold it there for 5+ minutes. And do that 3+ times a day.
If the skin doesn't start stretching after 3 weeks then tellhim to go to the doctor and ask the doctor for steroid creams to help the skin relax and stretch.
Now he has to be careful because a lot of doctors these days will tell him anything just to get him circumcised. He has to stand his ground and tell the doctor he isn't going to get circumcised untill he tries the steroid cream.
The head is sapposed to be exsposed. But if he fixes the phismosis his head will be exsposed.
The head is always exsposed it doesn't matter if you are circumcised or not.
Once he fixes the problem his skin will retract when he gets hard and he will have a fullyexsposed head and he wil still have all the wonderfu pleasures of having a foreskin.
Just tell him to work on fixing the phismosis for now. If after it's fixed he still wants to get circumcised then so be it.
But I thinkhe would be happier just fixing that phimosis. His head will still be exsposed even tho he isn't circumcised.
-Connor
You just said it yourself. Your husband has phimosis. Thats not good and its not healthy. Besides that he is not enjoying sex to the fullest because he cant retract his foreskin during sex. Its his penis, not yours. I think you are being a bit selfish here. Circumcision wont affect you either way but not having a foreskin in the way will definitely let him enjoy sex better. You are right by the way. You dont have any valid facts to convince him not to get circumcised. he has a medical problem and he should take care of it. You will also have less yeast infections and urinary tract infections yourself.
you can get all the information you need here.
http://www.penisdoctor.com/
http://www.circumcisioncenter.com/
http://www.aboutcirc.com/
http://www.medicirc.org/
http://www.circumcisioninfo.com/index_ho鈥?/a>
http://www.circinfo.net/
http://www.circinfo.com/
http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/2754鈥?/a>
I was circumcised at 18 and would do it again in a heartbeat! I can assure you circumcision enhances the sexual experience, the foreskin only gets in the way. Right now he is basically masturbating inside you. When he gets circumcised the direct contact between the gland and the vaginal wall will drive both of you crazy! There is no downside to being circumcised, only a lifetime of benefits!
This page shows normal retraction of the foreskin:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/鈥?/a>
Phimosis is caused by damage to the penis. Certain methods of masturbation that put too much pressure on the penis are the primary cause of damage (note this is different from saying that masturbation is bad per se - don't mistake me for a religious nutter). So he probably damaged it growing up. It hasn't had chance to repair because he has persisted in putting too much pressure on the penis and using it every day.
How do some masturbation habits damage the penis?
The answer is: by applying too much pressure. There are 3 main arteries in the penis. The one most often damaged and the one that leads to phimosis most is called the corpus spongiosum. It runs along the underside of the penis. It should stick out.
Look at this diagram:
http://www.med.umn.edu/anatomy/6150/CD/N鈥?/a>
Because the arteries do not fill with blood it means that the glans attached to the corpus spongiosum cannot be pushed through the skin.
Examples of damaging masturbation habits include thrusting against the mattress and also pushing down on your penis while sitting at the computer watching porn. I'd be interested to know if you do any of these.
The correct way to masturbate is by applying no pressure. Just lightly grip the shaft and move the skin up and down.
Can it be cured?
Yes. All it needs is rest and time to repair. The body will repair it if it isn't being used or constantly getting re-damaged every time you masturbate incorrectly. This usually takes a week to a month depending on the damage done. Once you resume masturbating - remember no pressure - just move the skin up and down.
You do not want to get a circumcision because a) there is no need if you follow the above advice and give it chance to repair and b) it is damaging to the penis's sensitivity and function..
Why is circumcision bad?
First understand how important the foreskin is. The foreskin contains nerves. These are specialized nerves found nowhere else in the penis.
Without the foreskin, you cannot masturbate properly. Intact men masturbate by moving the foreskin up and down, like so:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/鈥?/a>
As the skin moves up and down, the nerves on the underside of the foreskin are stimulated.
Further damage is done because the foreskin is a protective layer of the penis. With the foreskin gone, the glans is exposed. Firstly it dies out. Secondly, it rubs on clothes; this causes the glans skin to become toughened. Both these things further reduce sensitivity. This page gives a good illustration of the damage done:
http://www.noharmm.org/IDcirc.htm
Circumcision obviously affects sex. Women and men enjoy sex more when the man has a foreskin. This page lists the ten reasons why:
http://www.sexasnatureintendedit.com/10F鈥?/a>
One physician noted that after stopping the bad masturbation habits his patients phimosis were cured and he never saw them again:
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/ph鈥?/a>
Well, from experience, I don't think it makes much difference in the bedroom. The man I've been with for two year was recently circumsiced and he said he felt no significant difference after the opperation. I didn't feel a difference either. I do however think it is a personal decision and I hope you would support him in his choice. No worries though, it won't effect your sex life either way =P
Andy has the goods. He can use a topical cream and stretching exercises .. if he can retract his foreskin while flaccid.. he hasn't far to go and also tell him that a foreskin provides you with a more comfortable ride if things get a little dry... as the foreskin's natural action of gliding backwards and forwards across his glans also impacts on what you feel in certain situations, like those times when your natural lubrication is not what it normally is... anal sex especially less aggressive... foreskin provides some give in tight situations... You might not be dry now.. at your young tender age.. but give it a few years and you will know that you aren't always going to be wet on demand.
His phimosis is not severe, since he can retract while soft.
He probably just needs to do some stretching exercises, ideally in the bath/shower, every day for a few weeks. Follow the instructions on this website:
http://www.geocities.com/restoremaine/ti鈥?/a>
This website also has some more general advice:
http://www.norm-uk.org/circumcision_alte鈥?/a>
Tell him to try an over the counter steroid cream for a few months and practise stretching it daily, before going for something like surgery.
Cutting it off is bad enough, but cutting it off as an adult means he'll be in for at least a month of agony plus any risks of complications.
It will be very painful!
It's easier for babier, but once you are an adult and fully grown man, it will be a tougher process. Tell him no. Maybe he should talk to a doctor about it, there might be other options.
Circumcisions are fine, but it;s not necessary.
uncircumcised men get more pleasure as well as woman.
when i was a baby i got circumcised and i wish i had the choice that he does to get circumcised or not but just tell him to read more on that subject and that u would prefer him to get get it
i think its better that he doesnt. if it would be better, then men would be born without that part. my dad had it when he was a baby and he is really mad about it. tell him that most men hate it.
I thought it was only possible to get circumcised while still a baby! Wouldn't that hurt something awful for your husband!!??
Tell him that uncircumcised men get more pleasure out of sex.
find pictures of infections from the surgery.
Tell him you won't have sex with him if he gets it!
I had it done 90 days ago %26amp; wished I'd had it done years ago!
Eeww just let him
omg ew
thats dumb tell him no
If your husband's foreskin is not retracting with an erection, then he IS missing out, the head of the penis is where a lot of the nerves are and where he will get pleasure. His is not getting exposed during sex, the foreskin is covering it.
(The argument that ';sex feels better for an uncircumcised man'; does not apply here, because the reason that uncircumcised men get more pleasure out of sex is that the foreskin protects the head of the penis, keeps it soft and sensitive, BUT then it retracts with an erection, and exposes the sensitive head. In this case, the foreskin is not retracting and is actually hindering the sexual experience.)
The most sensitive part of the penis is the underside of the head.
One of the main arguments against circumcision is that this area is now exposed, gets rubbed against his clothing, and thus because of the constant (albeit minor) stimulation, becomes less sensitive.
However, if while erect this sensitive underside is not being exposed, then he is not getting very much stimulation during sex. What small degree of sensitivity he will loose, will greatly be made up for by the sensitivity that he will gain, I suspect.
So to pull some figures out of thin air, to get an idea of the ballpark I am talking about, suppose that guys who are uncircumcised and don't have phismosis, get sexual gratification that we'll rate at say 100. Circumcised guys, because of the reduced sensitivity, get maybe 80. He's getting maybe 30 now, at best. Getting circumcised, in his case, will increase his pleasure by more than double, almost tripple what it is now!
You get pleasure when he pushes in. He gets pleasure when he pulls out, because the underside of the head is making the most contact then and is the part being rubbed. In his case, because of the foreskin, it's not getting rubbed - the only stimulation he is getting is from squeezing action that pushes hard enough to compress the foreskin enough that it pushes on the underside of the penis.
You and he have to weigh the additional pleasure that you feel having him uncircumcised vs. the additional pleasure he feels being circumcised. Now you can't know for sure how it compares until you actually have it done (and then it's too late to have it undone), but I seriously doubt your additional pleasure at having him uncircumcised is anywhere close to the additional pleasure that he will get by being circumcised. I'm sure that, in the end, you'll enjoy it more if he's enjoying it more because he will react differently as he gets more pleasure. If your pleasure decreases at all, it will be very slight. His, on the other hand, will increase greatly.
no difference and just tell him you like it how he is but it is his body and in the end it is his decision
answer mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Does anyone ever hope their husband works overtime?
It's so quiet and peaceful, I can watch what I want on TV or turn it off and listen to music and read. Is it selfish to enjoy him not being home?Does anyone ever hope their husband works overtime?
As long as you enjoy spending some time with him, not at all! I love being home alone sometimes.Does anyone ever hope their husband works overtime?
YES!! I love my husband (we are now separated ;-C) but he worked many nights, overnights and although I missed him and loved to see him back at home, I relished many things about the lifestyle: eating a simple instead of elaborate meal, spreading across the bed or sleeping in the living room on the comfy couch, having a dance party or something like that. Sometimes I'd even fling my clothes across the room just for the heck of it. Okay it was a little too much fun for me maybe!
I like it when my husband work OT b/c we are poor. But I also like spending time with him, and we do it. I also work OT time..I wouldn't expect it from him if it is something that I wouldn't do.
OHh yea i agree, it is a little selfish but well worth it when he comes home, every relationship needs a 16 hr break once in awhile.
Even though I do enjoy my alone time, I wish he didn't have to work as much as he does.
i hate it when my husband works, never mind over-time. although the money is nice...........
If you need more money or just want alone time. It's not a bad thing. Your not the only one.
NO I DONT
yea i did but later found out he had an affair and baby
As long as you enjoy spending some time with him, not at all! I love being home alone sometimes.Does anyone ever hope their husband works overtime?
YES!! I love my husband (we are now separated ;-C) but he worked many nights, overnights and although I missed him and loved to see him back at home, I relished many things about the lifestyle: eating a simple instead of elaborate meal, spreading across the bed or sleeping in the living room on the comfy couch, having a dance party or something like that. Sometimes I'd even fling my clothes across the room just for the heck of it. Okay it was a little too much fun for me maybe!
I like it when my husband work OT b/c we are poor. But I also like spending time with him, and we do it. I also work OT time..I wouldn't expect it from him if it is something that I wouldn't do.
OHh yea i agree, it is a little selfish but well worth it when he comes home, every relationship needs a 16 hr break once in awhile.
Even though I do enjoy my alone time, I wish he didn't have to work as much as he does.
i hate it when my husband works, never mind over-time. although the money is nice...........
If you need more money or just want alone time. It's not a bad thing. Your not the only one.
NO I DONT
yea i did but later found out he had an affair and baby
How can i help my husband, he smokes up daily and loss intrest in me and sex! plz help?
we have been married for 2 years and have a baby that's almost 18months old, we barley have sex, when i try to discuss it things get more cold and worse. i just done feel loved anymore in any way, is it him or the pot?How can i help my husband, he smokes up daily and loss intrest in me and sex! plz help?
He's smoking pot every day and you have a child together?
Yeah, you need to leave him....Why would you pick him to begin with??How can i help my husband, he smokes up daily and loss intrest in me and sex! plz help?
it's him, you did nothing wrong, he's a pot head,and yes pot could be stopping him from having sex, to much pot can cloud your brain and mess your body up, try to get him to slow down and if he don't leave his sorry a** because all he is going to do is make your life miserable,you don't deserve that, you can do better,I hope things work out for you, good luck
Pot can lead to a low sex drive because it lowers blood sugar. Men with diabetes have the same problem, both sexually and physically with the low blood sugar.
I would look for a way to get out of the relationship. He sounds like a big selfish child. You have one to look after, you don't need to take care of a grown male adult.
I have a child, and my husband smokes too but not around her.
He loves to have sex while he's high. makes no difference. they only last longer, thats the only change ive seen unless theyre losers and they get stuck.
if you met him that way,, then you now its not the pot.
its something else...im sorry you deserve better, if theres no communication at all then nothing will work, im having problems too.
men are very stupid, hes just probably doing something else, whether its another drug or another girl.
It is him. I think he may be using more than Pot. It is time to tell him to get clean or get your baby away from him. If he is smoking with the baby in the house, you will be charged with child endangerment. You have to do what it takes to protect your child.
You need to talk to him about it and he needs to quit smoking pot what if your child grow up and want to smoke it then what daddy did it.
Try counseling
He shouldn't be smoking pot around your child, it should be taken away from him, get rid of him, he sounds like a loser
try to creat a new way of sex . be more sweet and wear nice clothescostume mask hot makeup
He's smoking pot every day and you have a child together?
Yeah, you need to leave him....Why would you pick him to begin with??How can i help my husband, he smokes up daily and loss intrest in me and sex! plz help?
it's him, you did nothing wrong, he's a pot head,and yes pot could be stopping him from having sex, to much pot can cloud your brain and mess your body up, try to get him to slow down and if he don't leave his sorry a** because all he is going to do is make your life miserable,you don't deserve that, you can do better,I hope things work out for you, good luck
Pot can lead to a low sex drive because it lowers blood sugar. Men with diabetes have the same problem, both sexually and physically with the low blood sugar.
I would look for a way to get out of the relationship. He sounds like a big selfish child. You have one to look after, you don't need to take care of a grown male adult.
I have a child, and my husband smokes too but not around her.
He loves to have sex while he's high. makes no difference. they only last longer, thats the only change ive seen unless theyre losers and they get stuck.
if you met him that way,, then you now its not the pot.
its something else...im sorry you deserve better, if theres no communication at all then nothing will work, im having problems too.
men are very stupid, hes just probably doing something else, whether its another drug or another girl.
It is him. I think he may be using more than Pot. It is time to tell him to get clean or get your baby away from him. If he is smoking with the baby in the house, you will be charged with child endangerment. You have to do what it takes to protect your child.
You need to talk to him about it and he needs to quit smoking pot what if your child grow up and want to smoke it then what daddy did it.
Try counseling
He shouldn't be smoking pot around your child, it should be taken away from him, get rid of him, he sounds like a loser
try to creat a new way of sex . be more sweet and wear nice clothes
Can I go with my husband to Korea if he is stationed there?
My future husband is at AIT right now and has been told by many people that he is probably going to South Korea and I've been told that I cannot go with him. Is this true?Can I go with my husband to Korea if he is stationed there?
Depends on his rank and how long he will be there for.Can I go with my husband to Korea if he is stationed there?
It will depend on what base he is assigned to in Korea, some are allowing dependents to come but that means the orders go from 1 year unaccompanied to 3 years accompanied. he needs to go, report in and put in the request to have the orders amended to accompanied if it is allowed. You will then have to do a EFMP screening (medical/dental) to make sure you have do not have conditions that cannot be handled there on base clinics. If approved then you will be allowed to go, you will be limited to what you can bring with you and all the remainder of HHG will go into storage along with your vehicle.
my husband was stationed at Kunsan afb and I went over there to visit him and I toured parts of seoul in which I know there is an army base there (youngson garrison) and that base had families there. Army is different than air force so I don't know if you could or not. I know in the air force if the tour is unaccompanied, then you cant be with them. Also if you are able to its very hard to do an A LOT of paperwork and you have to be married in order for that to ever happen.
NWIP is correct.
Most tours to South Korea are unaccompanied one year tours. But there is a 2-3 year incentive that will allow any rank to go with dependents. You will get payed (I believe and extra $300 a month) to do this and there are DOD schools for children to attend. Talk to you Military Personell flight and they can point you in the correct direction. This is a new program and some do not know about it. But it is possible.
if he gets accompanied orders you can. Korea is granting more accompanied orders overall, but by no means is it guaranteed that he will A even GO and B that he can bring you.
You should be able to. I've heard of entire families following the head-of-household, and my mom's first husband was low-rank, sent to Germany, where she could've gone.
Probably not, you couldn't when I was there and I keep hearing dependents are still not allowed there.
i don't know why unless things have changed. my mom and i went with my dad and my brother was born there!
Depends on his rank and how long he will be there for.Can I go with my husband to Korea if he is stationed there?
It will depend on what base he is assigned to in Korea, some are allowing dependents to come but that means the orders go from 1 year unaccompanied to 3 years accompanied. he needs to go, report in and put in the request to have the orders amended to accompanied if it is allowed. You will then have to do a EFMP screening (medical/dental) to make sure you have do not have conditions that cannot be handled there on base clinics. If approved then you will be allowed to go, you will be limited to what you can bring with you and all the remainder of HHG will go into storage along with your vehicle.
my husband was stationed at Kunsan afb and I went over there to visit him and I toured parts of seoul in which I know there is an army base there (youngson garrison) and that base had families there. Army is different than air force so I don't know if you could or not. I know in the air force if the tour is unaccompanied, then you cant be with them. Also if you are able to its very hard to do an A LOT of paperwork and you have to be married in order for that to ever happen.
NWIP is correct.
Most tours to South Korea are unaccompanied one year tours. But there is a 2-3 year incentive that will allow any rank to go with dependents. You will get payed (I believe and extra $300 a month) to do this and there are DOD schools for children to attend. Talk to you Military Personell flight and they can point you in the correct direction. This is a new program and some do not know about it. But it is possible.
if he gets accompanied orders you can. Korea is granting more accompanied orders overall, but by no means is it guaranteed that he will A even GO and B that he can bring you.
You should be able to. I've heard of entire families following the head-of-household, and my mom's first husband was low-rank, sent to Germany, where she could've gone.
Probably not, you couldn't when I was there and I keep hearing dependents are still not allowed there.
i don't know why unless things have changed. my mom and i went with my dad and my brother was born there!
My mother and my ex husband went to walmart in an ice storm and never came back. Can I only hope?
that they ran off and got married?????
Hallelujiah! He finally found someone!
POLL: should we throw rice, birdseed, condoms or tomatoes?My mother and my ex husband went to walmart in an ice storm and never came back. Can I only hope?
i'll keep my fingers crossed for you.My mother and my ex husband went to walmart in an ice storm and never came back. Can I only hope?
They have eloped, and are off on their honeymoon, after they come back, they are going to live with you.
BTW, he called, and told me that your Mother is better at sex than you ever were.
Yes, you can only hope.
Condoms - Extra small??
Great for them!Call jerry Springer
Fire hose... totally.
Lucky you. Now you are free to come to the coast and start our affair.
Don't throw condoms. We will need them
throw all of the above!
It's a dream come true!
Just make sure they still send money!
Hallelujiah! He finally found someone!
POLL: should we throw rice, birdseed, condoms or tomatoes?My mother and my ex husband went to walmart in an ice storm and never came back. Can I only hope?
i'll keep my fingers crossed for you.My mother and my ex husband went to walmart in an ice storm and never came back. Can I only hope?
They have eloped, and are off on their honeymoon, after they come back, they are going to live with you.
BTW, he called, and told me that your Mother is better at sex than you ever were.
Yes, you can only hope.
Condoms - Extra small??
Great for them!Call jerry Springer
Fire hose... totally.
Lucky you. Now you are free to come to the coast and start our affair.
Don't throw condoms. We will need them
throw all of the above!
It's a dream come true!
Just make sure they still send money!
How do I turn my husband into Donald Trump?
..For Halloween, I mean! i am making him dress up this year for a party and after lots of resistance this is the only thing he will agree to. I have the wig. How do I accessorize him to make him look like The Donald?How do I turn my husband into Donald Trump?
You have to dress like his wife and paste monopoly money all over a suit for himHow do I turn my husband into Donald Trump?
You get him a good looking tux and a wallet full of fake cash since you know Donald has Lots of money i dont know just guessing.
get a blonde wig and do a really bad comb over....LOL
Dark Suit, The wig styled like the Donald and things like a blackberry and fake money to fling about. Attitude and how it is presented is a big part. Have fun with it.
Go and get a light blond comb-over. Nice suit and teach him to say ';Your Fired';. Even if he doesnt look like Donald T. He can be a sexy version of him.
Keep wads of fake money pouring out of his pockets. Oh, and if you want a realistic effect, have him suck on a lemon for about half an hour LOL.
You should dress him in a dark suit (look at the thrift shop or good will) with a stripped tie with red in it (a power tie) and have him keep his hand in front of his belly all night like the Donald does. Oh and make him do that funny lip pout this he does too.
Sweetheart, thats the LAST thing you'd EVER want him to be.
He has NO scruples %26amp; is ruthless in buisness. What you NEED is to be gratefull you even HAVE a husband. Last Sun. paper posted
a new statistic that marrieds are now a MINORITY. Learn
to be grateful for your blessings %26amp; STOP wanting what you
CANNOT have. P.S You'll live longer %26amp; Happier too!!
He will need a Dark Blue suit with a Red Tie. Tell him to say,';You're Fired'; a lot.
Give him a billion dollars and you will have him as Don Trump.
Get 2 blowup dolls so he can carry one on each arm
Get him a nice suit and bad toupee....
don't forget a bad toupee.
just beat him with a ugly stick that will help
you have got to get him the hair. the donald is not the donald without the hair.
a black suit with red tiee and nice red scarf thingy for the pocket
perfectt on the hairr thats your main thing
get him to keep his cheeks sucked in for a sour/mean effect
ohh oh an at the partyy get him to use a fake bill (monolopy money) as tissuse to llk wipe ur hands or somethin HAHA
You have to dress like his wife and paste monopoly money all over a suit for himHow do I turn my husband into Donald Trump?
You get him a good looking tux and a wallet full of fake cash since you know Donald has Lots of money i dont know just guessing.
get a blonde wig and do a really bad comb over....LOL
Dark Suit, The wig styled like the Donald and things like a blackberry and fake money to fling about. Attitude and how it is presented is a big part. Have fun with it.
Go and get a light blond comb-over. Nice suit and teach him to say ';Your Fired';. Even if he doesnt look like Donald T. He can be a sexy version of him.
Keep wads of fake money pouring out of his pockets. Oh, and if you want a realistic effect, have him suck on a lemon for about half an hour LOL.
You should dress him in a dark suit (look at the thrift shop or good will) with a stripped tie with red in it (a power tie) and have him keep his hand in front of his belly all night like the Donald does. Oh and make him do that funny lip pout this he does too.
Sweetheart, thats the LAST thing you'd EVER want him to be.
He has NO scruples %26amp; is ruthless in buisness. What you NEED is to be gratefull you even HAVE a husband. Last Sun. paper posted
a new statistic that marrieds are now a MINORITY. Learn
to be grateful for your blessings %26amp; STOP wanting what you
CANNOT have. P.S You'll live longer %26amp; Happier too!!
He will need a Dark Blue suit with a Red Tie. Tell him to say,';You're Fired'; a lot.
Give him a billion dollars and you will have him as Don Trump.
Get 2 blowup dolls so he can carry one on each arm
Get him a nice suit and bad toupee....
don't forget a bad toupee.
just beat him with a ugly stick that will help
you have got to get him the hair. the donald is not the donald without the hair.
a black suit with red tiee and nice red scarf thingy for the pocket
perfectt on the hairr thats your main thing
get him to keep his cheeks sucked in for a sour/mean effect
ohh oh an at the partyy get him to use a fake bill (monolopy money) as tissuse to llk wipe ur hands or somethin HAHA
Is it normal for my husband to be lactating?
I mean, I swear there's something coming out of his... you know whats, but I don't think men are supposed to do that, cause they don't get pregnant.Is it normal for my husband to be lactating?
I would think it wasnt okay for a guy to be lactating.Is it normal for my husband to be lactating?
No, it's not. He should see his doctor asap. I had a friend who had this and the doctor found out the cause: a brain tumor. Your husband may or may not have a brain tumor, but it would be good to find out and soon.
Eww, ppl really want to kill the messenger.
most prob a pituitary tumor...may not be cancer,but,see MD soon.........ps,is he by chance taking drug Verapamil...
Enjoy it, it'll give you a break. It's still milk, right? Just see how the baby likes it.
He needs to go get checked out. Men can get breast cancer too.
Maybe reading this may help
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_lactat鈥?/a>
breast cancer is very prevelant in men as well.. this is one of the symptoms... he needs to get to the doc
no . . . DEFINITELY not normal. Have it checked out.
uum yah thats wierd he should see a doctor about that
Tell him to get his testosterone levels tested. Men do have functional mammary glands but they are not used. The lack of testosterone could cause the female hormones to take over and cause the lactation.
Unless you are pregnant and he is experiencing false pregnancy. It can and does happen a lot. Some men even grow breasts.
Check it out?
He needs to go get that checked ASAP... its a sign of male breast cancer. I know that sounds funny but I'm not kidding.
Male lactaction is not common, but it is very possible. Some men lactate when their partners are pregnant or breastfeeding, or whenever they are going through their mid-life change.
In any case, his hormones are out of balance and he should see his doctor. This happened to my uncle and it turned out he had a tumor in his breast that had to be removed.
I've heard that this is technically possible, but I've never heard of an actual case. I don't think it's normal. I'd have him see a doc.
yeah... that's not normal. He needs to get checked out.
I would think it wasnt okay for a guy to be lactating.Is it normal for my husband to be lactating?
No, it's not. He should see his doctor asap. I had a friend who had this and the doctor found out the cause: a brain tumor. Your husband may or may not have a brain tumor, but it would be good to find out and soon.
Eww, ppl really want to kill the messenger.
most prob a pituitary tumor...may not be cancer,but,see MD soon.........ps,is he by chance taking drug Verapamil...
Enjoy it, it'll give you a break. It's still milk, right? Just see how the baby likes it.
He needs to go get checked out. Men can get breast cancer too.
Maybe reading this may help
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_lactat鈥?/a>
breast cancer is very prevelant in men as well.. this is one of the symptoms... he needs to get to the doc
no . . . DEFINITELY not normal. Have it checked out.
uum yah thats wierd he should see a doctor about that
Tell him to get his testosterone levels tested. Men do have functional mammary glands but they are not used. The lack of testosterone could cause the female hormones to take over and cause the lactation.
Unless you are pregnant and he is experiencing false pregnancy. It can and does happen a lot. Some men even grow breasts.
Check it out?
He needs to go get that checked ASAP... its a sign of male breast cancer. I know that sounds funny but I'm not kidding.
Male lactaction is not common, but it is very possible. Some men lactate when their partners are pregnant or breastfeeding, or whenever they are going through their mid-life change.
In any case, his hormones are out of balance and he should see his doctor. This happened to my uncle and it turned out he had a tumor in his breast that had to be removed.
I've heard that this is technically possible, but I've never heard of an actual case. I don't think it's normal. I'd have him see a doc.
yeah... that's not normal. He needs to get checked out.
Can I live with my husband after legal separation or divorce.?
I am planning to file a legal separation with my husband but I want to know we can still live in the same apartment as a room ate. we have two kids and we can't move to another place. Please help.Can I live with my husband after legal separation or divorce.?
No legally you can't that is why you have the word separation.I don't understand why you would want to anyway?Is it a money thing?You can't get child support and still live with him.You can't get anything except more married.Good luck.(strange question) Can I live with my husband after legal separation or divorce.?
It depends. If your state has a requirements that you must be legally separated, or just separated in general, before you can divorce then no you cannot live together. Some states clearly say that you cannot be cohabitating, if you do then you will not be able to file for divorce.
If your state does not have this requirements, then I guess you could. Although, I'm wondering why you would want to. Why not just stay married?
First of all, in most states there is not really much difference between a ';legal separation and a divorce. A legal separation is just as much work and costs just as much as a divorce.
Secondly...are you serious with this question? Are you honestly asking CAN you live with him still? Like is it legal? WTF kind of question is that....you can live wherever and whomever you want. You could invite all your ex's to live with you as well and nobody can ever tell you they cant live there. Do you live in communist China?
Maybe you are asking if you SHOULD live with him.
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These people above me do not know what they are talking about. Living apart and being SEPARATED are two completely different things. Being legally separated means division of assets, etc, it has nothing to do with where or whit whom you live. God people, quit acting like you know answers that you obviously dont
unless he is abusive, do not file for separation. be nice and hang in there until the kids afre older, do not show them a hostile home we are in a recession.
No you have to live apart for a separation (hence the name) You can file for DIVORCE however and still live with him.
Been there, done that, have the scars to remember it by. I would highly advise against it.
Yes, but why? Move in with your parents.
Yes, but why would you want to? It's not worth the emotional trauma.
No legally you can't that is why you have the word separation.I don't understand why you would want to anyway?Is it a money thing?You can't get child support and still live with him.You can't get anything except more married.Good luck.(strange question) Can I live with my husband after legal separation or divorce.?
It depends. If your state has a requirements that you must be legally separated, or just separated in general, before you can divorce then no you cannot live together. Some states clearly say that you cannot be cohabitating, if you do then you will not be able to file for divorce.
If your state does not have this requirements, then I guess you could. Although, I'm wondering why you would want to. Why not just stay married?
First of all, in most states there is not really much difference between a ';legal separation and a divorce. A legal separation is just as much work and costs just as much as a divorce.
Secondly...are you serious with this question? Are you honestly asking CAN you live with him still? Like is it legal? WTF kind of question is that....you can live wherever and whomever you want. You could invite all your ex's to live with you as well and nobody can ever tell you they cant live there. Do you live in communist China?
Maybe you are asking if you SHOULD live with him.
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These people above me do not know what they are talking about. Living apart and being SEPARATED are two completely different things. Being legally separated means division of assets, etc, it has nothing to do with where or whit whom you live. God people, quit acting like you know answers that you obviously dont
unless he is abusive, do not file for separation. be nice and hang in there until the kids afre older, do not show them a hostile home we are in a recession.
No you have to live apart for a separation (hence the name) You can file for DIVORCE however and still live with him.
Been there, done that, have the scars to remember it by. I would highly advise against it.
Yes, but why? Move in with your parents.
Yes, but why would you want to? It's not worth the emotional trauma.
Why does the wife look good for other people but not her husband?
Why is it that the wife will look pretty for other people but never her own husband? What's the deal with that?Why does the wife look good for other people but not her husband?
She's used to him and doesn't feel the need.Why does the wife look good for other people but not her husband?
Don't you think that you should ask ';her?';
Maybe her husband does not look good to her anymore!!!
HE KNOWS THE REAL DEAL !
feels like you don't need to be impressed. It's something that goes wrong in relationships. She should always want to look good to him. And vice versa
if you see her when she gets dressed, and when she comes home, how could that not also be for you???? maybe she's getting pretty for herself??? ever think of that? we actually do like doing things for ourselves, ya know.
Cataracts?
Maybe He don't Make Her Feel Like She Is Wanted or Gives Her a Reason, Besides if he loves her what does it matter whether she is dressed up or not???
she thinks the husband has seen her at her worst and still loves her so she doesnt feel the need to. she needs to get her act together and realize that you should always look good for her man...and herself.
I look hot all the time. You only live once. Too bad your wife is a douche, maybe she wants somebody else's sausage? Sounds like she's tired of the homestyle links you got.
if he don't ever notice why bother
i would assume that she doesnt feel the need to impress him anymore, and when she goes out to me other people she doesnt have that comfortable feeling
She's got the husband so doesn't need to go to the work for him. He should be grateful to have her at home with him.
If you don't believe that, just ask her.
Depends on how you treat her...maybe she doesn't feel you deserve it.
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Let me add this...I can spend 3 hours getting ready or 5 minutes and my husband won't even notice or make a comment...he hardly even noticed that I quit wearing my contacts for 2 weeks and that I had been wearing glasses...so think about it that way...if the husband doesn't notice, it really loses it's value and makes the wife feel like it's pointless. Compliment your wife when she looks good and you'll see her looking good more often.
Most times I'd say she isn't taking HIM for granted, but that it is the other way around.
I am a married woman so I know. There are times that women get complacent. Especially once you've already seen her at her worse. She feels as if it's okay to walk around with a scarf on her head and jogging pants. Tell her that she has a nice body and you would love to see her in something sexy every now and then. My husband had to tell me before and when I did what he asked, sparks flew. Just tell her how you feel.
I dress to kill for my husband and he loves that I still look good so don't mind showing me off. I don't know about all the others.
I think it's kind of like the husband being pleasant to other people (like coworkers) and not his wife. What's the deal with that??
%26lt;--------dresses nicely every day
Maybe if you would tell her how pretty she was, she would not have to get dressed up to hear it from other people. DUH! My shinny ball has spoken.
'Cos he doesn't bother looking good for her anymore?
She's taking him for granted.
He probably does the same.
If you want her to get dressed up for you, give her a reason to - take her out for a night on the town.
her husband is the only person she feels she can be herself around without being judged. which is the way it should be
I don't think it needs to be this way. I am trying to look good for my husband just as much I am trying to look good for others, even more!
But as a woman, I can tell you that the opinion of others who don't know us is really important for us, it assures us we look good and sexy...a woman needs to hear and see it from time to time...so we try to look our best outside as well.
I assume that there are some women who just lost the touch in their marriage and they feel so secure and used to, so they neglect their appearance. It should not be this way!
I suppose you have the this problem,otherwise you would not ask it here...so I suggest you buy your wife some nice lingerie and maybe some nice clothes from time to time, like s small hint you know...she will get it eventually.
Also you can say to her that you read a question like yours somewhere, and ask her for her opinion, then tell her yours...she will get it and might change.
I do it with my husband and it works like magic.try it. Good luck.
I am on bed rest right now so no one sees me but my husband, Even though I am pregnant and miserable I still put on make up and curl my hair after my shower just for my husband,. Not all wives let themselves go.
I am one of those guilty wives. My husband has asked me that same question. Me personally, I don't do it to piss him off, its just that most of the time, I have no time to put on makeup, because I gotta make sure the kids are ready. And you know times is tuff for everyone, so there's barely any money to get good clothes. But when he asks me I dress up as sexy as I can for him! Most of the time We dress up for others because We don't want them to know that there is a problem in the household. Or that I can really look beautiful if I try. And to get attention. (Not in a bad way) But if it really bothers you, talk to her about it like my husband does with me. It works!
guess her husband must be kind of a joke.
Maybe she's given up trying to look good for him, because he stopped noticing her a long time ago.
I know I've deliberately put together HIDEOUS outfits and garish makeup just to test if my SO was paying attention, then asking him ';how do I look'; and of course he glanced at me and said I looked fine - just like I thought he would. Obviously when he was looking at me he didn't actually SEE me, SEE what I was wearing, SEE what I was doing. Quite simply, I've become invisible to him. I am ';too familiar';.
When we go out, I dress up. I like the positive feedback I get from other men... God knows I haven't seen it from him in ages...
An Excellent question.
Its like '; Until get the thing, Its so Great Once got it, its nothing';.
'; The Jasmine in another garden always smells more beautiful than in our garden';
Its something like the above..........
Personally, I have slipped and done the same thing. But as everyone else has said he also stopped noticing me. I used to feel like his queen and the most beutiful woman in the world around him and after about 2 years no more. The only time he ever says anything about what Im wearing is if Im going to a bar. I have gone out with him in the same exact outfit that he commented on last. And he said ';why do you always look good when you aren't with me?';. When it was the exact same outfit I was wearing when I went out with him last, he just didn't notice it until he wasn't attending. So I have tried to pick it up lately. Look good for him all the time, still dont notice it unless Im going out without him. But Im still doing it because I like the feedback I get from everyone. Whether he notices it or not, I do look nice 98% of the time when we go out and I try to keep the nice stuff on for a while when I get home, but sometimes you just want to wear a pair of sweats and a tee-shirt around your own house and I dont see nothing wrong with that either.costume mask hot makeup
She's used to him and doesn't feel the need.Why does the wife look good for other people but not her husband?
Don't you think that you should ask ';her?';
Maybe her husband does not look good to her anymore!!!
HE KNOWS THE REAL DEAL !
feels like you don't need to be impressed. It's something that goes wrong in relationships. She should always want to look good to him. And vice versa
if you see her when she gets dressed, and when she comes home, how could that not also be for you???? maybe she's getting pretty for herself??? ever think of that? we actually do like doing things for ourselves, ya know.
Cataracts?
Maybe He don't Make Her Feel Like She Is Wanted or Gives Her a Reason, Besides if he loves her what does it matter whether she is dressed up or not???
she thinks the husband has seen her at her worst and still loves her so she doesnt feel the need to. she needs to get her act together and realize that you should always look good for her man...and herself.
I look hot all the time. You only live once. Too bad your wife is a douche, maybe she wants somebody else's sausage? Sounds like she's tired of the homestyle links you got.
if he don't ever notice why bother
i would assume that she doesnt feel the need to impress him anymore, and when she goes out to me other people she doesnt have that comfortable feeling
She's got the husband so doesn't need to go to the work for him. He should be grateful to have her at home with him.
If you don't believe that, just ask her.
Depends on how you treat her...maybe she doesn't feel you deserve it.
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Let me add this...I can spend 3 hours getting ready or 5 minutes and my husband won't even notice or make a comment...he hardly even noticed that I quit wearing my contacts for 2 weeks and that I had been wearing glasses...so think about it that way...if the husband doesn't notice, it really loses it's value and makes the wife feel like it's pointless. Compliment your wife when she looks good and you'll see her looking good more often.
Most times I'd say she isn't taking HIM for granted, but that it is the other way around.
I am a married woman so I know. There are times that women get complacent. Especially once you've already seen her at her worse. She feels as if it's okay to walk around with a scarf on her head and jogging pants. Tell her that she has a nice body and you would love to see her in something sexy every now and then. My husband had to tell me before and when I did what he asked, sparks flew. Just tell her how you feel.
I dress to kill for my husband and he loves that I still look good so don't mind showing me off. I don't know about all the others.
I think it's kind of like the husband being pleasant to other people (like coworkers) and not his wife. What's the deal with that??
%26lt;--------dresses nicely every day
Maybe if you would tell her how pretty she was, she would not have to get dressed up to hear it from other people. DUH! My shinny ball has spoken.
'Cos he doesn't bother looking good for her anymore?
She's taking him for granted.
He probably does the same.
If you want her to get dressed up for you, give her a reason to - take her out for a night on the town.
her husband is the only person she feels she can be herself around without being judged. which is the way it should be
I don't think it needs to be this way. I am trying to look good for my husband just as much I am trying to look good for others, even more!
But as a woman, I can tell you that the opinion of others who don't know us is really important for us, it assures us we look good and sexy...a woman needs to hear and see it from time to time...so we try to look our best outside as well.
I assume that there are some women who just lost the touch in their marriage and they feel so secure and used to, so they neglect their appearance. It should not be this way!
I suppose you have the this problem,otherwise you would not ask it here...so I suggest you buy your wife some nice lingerie and maybe some nice clothes from time to time, like s small hint you know...she will get it eventually.
Also you can say to her that you read a question like yours somewhere, and ask her for her opinion, then tell her yours...she will get it and might change.
I do it with my husband and it works like magic.try it. Good luck.
I am on bed rest right now so no one sees me but my husband, Even though I am pregnant and miserable I still put on make up and curl my hair after my shower just for my husband,. Not all wives let themselves go.
I am one of those guilty wives. My husband has asked me that same question. Me personally, I don't do it to piss him off, its just that most of the time, I have no time to put on makeup, because I gotta make sure the kids are ready. And you know times is tuff for everyone, so there's barely any money to get good clothes. But when he asks me I dress up as sexy as I can for him! Most of the time We dress up for others because We don't want them to know that there is a problem in the household. Or that I can really look beautiful if I try. And to get attention. (Not in a bad way) But if it really bothers you, talk to her about it like my husband does with me. It works!
guess her husband must be kind of a joke.
Maybe she's given up trying to look good for him, because he stopped noticing her a long time ago.
I know I've deliberately put together HIDEOUS outfits and garish makeup just to test if my SO was paying attention, then asking him ';how do I look'; and of course he glanced at me and said I looked fine - just like I thought he would. Obviously when he was looking at me he didn't actually SEE me, SEE what I was wearing, SEE what I was doing. Quite simply, I've become invisible to him. I am ';too familiar';.
When we go out, I dress up. I like the positive feedback I get from other men... God knows I haven't seen it from him in ages...
An Excellent question.
Its like '; Until get the thing, Its so Great Once got it, its nothing';.
'; The Jasmine in another garden always smells more beautiful than in our garden';
Its something like the above..........
Personally, I have slipped and done the same thing. But as everyone else has said he also stopped noticing me. I used to feel like his queen and the most beutiful woman in the world around him and after about 2 years no more. The only time he ever says anything about what Im wearing is if Im going to a bar. I have gone out with him in the same exact outfit that he commented on last. And he said ';why do you always look good when you aren't with me?';. When it was the exact same outfit I was wearing when I went out with him last, he just didn't notice it until he wasn't attending. So I have tried to pick it up lately. Look good for him all the time, still dont notice it unless Im going out without him. But Im still doing it because I like the feedback I get from everyone. Whether he notices it or not, I do look nice 98% of the time when we go out and I try to keep the nice stuff on for a while when I get home, but sometimes you just want to wear a pair of sweats and a tee-shirt around your own house and I dont see nothing wrong with that either.
How do I show my husband that I am not cheating on him nor do I think of anyone else? He means the world tome?
I love him with all my heart and would never hurt him that way.How do I show my husband that I am not cheating on him nor do I think of anyone else? He means the world tome?
Signs of cheatingHow do I show my husband that I am not cheating on him nor do I think of anyone else? He means the world tome?
If you have to constantly prove yourself to him, then the relationship is not worth it.
The best way to show that you are not cheating is to tell him you're not. If you mean the world to him as much as he means to you, he'll believe you with no questions asked.
If he continues to harass you, then tell him you're an adult and are not going to stoop to the level of accounting for your whereabouts every minute in the manner a child has to do for a parent. And that if he doesn't believe you when you tell him the truth, then you're not going to waste time or humiliate yourself trying to convince him otherwise, and that he should make his own decision based on what he believes.
Setting some firm personal boundaries and showing respect for yourself, even to the one you are married to, is really a very important personality trait, and he should respect you for acting like a mature adult. If he doesn't, then he wants a slave, not a wife...and don't be that role unless you really want to be.
If he is insistent upon you cheating on him, when it's obvious you're not - he has insecurity problems that only he can fix. The more you try to defend yourself, the more he'll think you're guilty.
Suggest counselling or if it's really bad and he's abusive - pack his or your bags until he gets some professional help.
There must be more to this story than you have shared or he is just a jealous person with little trust in you. The best thing you can do is be an open book. If he ask you a question you need to have a clear and straight answer. Have sex as often as possible. And tell him often how much you love him....Good luck
Why would your husband think you are cheating? Is he possessive? Does he travel for his job? Maybe he feels that your sex life is not what it used to be. Make it p to him. If you have not given him a reason to feel you are cheating then he shouldn't think that you are.
It's philosophically impossible to prove a negative. You can only prove you ARE. Honest people expect to be believed, and when we are not, we just wait and let time prove it so. Unless you've given him reason, just saying you are not should be enough. If it isn't, HE'S got the problem.
I've found that the men who are the most suspicious for seemingly no reason are the ones who are actually cheating. they don't trust themselves and so don't trust you. and if there's no trust then its a bad relationship.
what you fail to really realize sweetheart is that you have done things that put that thought in the back of my head. you don't want to or avoid walking in my shoes. you are my #1. and again, how have you shown me that i am your #1?
Spend as much time with him as possible.Do everything you can for him.Call him whenever he thinks you might be cheating on him.DONT ignore his calls at all.Dont talk about Any guys eather.Its just simple.
Your husband thinks that you are cheating and the saying goes : where there is a dumpster, there is trash.
Not to sound vulgar but
Rip down his pants and give him a bj. This is mans favorite way of knowing his woman is into him. Actions speak louder than words.
Wake him up with the best ******* he's ever had. Do it everyday and im sure he will forget what you ever fought about. Guys are the not hardest to think for.
This is a question that you will need to ask him and get his opinon. Ours really won't make a difference, but his will.
This is where trust should be.Good luck.
If he doesn't believe you then why try to convince him? Something is wrong with this picture.
Signs of cheatingHow do I show my husband that I am not cheating on him nor do I think of anyone else? He means the world tome?
If you have to constantly prove yourself to him, then the relationship is not worth it.
The best way to show that you are not cheating is to tell him you're not. If you mean the world to him as much as he means to you, he'll believe you with no questions asked.
If he continues to harass you, then tell him you're an adult and are not going to stoop to the level of accounting for your whereabouts every minute in the manner a child has to do for a parent. And that if he doesn't believe you when you tell him the truth, then you're not going to waste time or humiliate yourself trying to convince him otherwise, and that he should make his own decision based on what he believes.
Setting some firm personal boundaries and showing respect for yourself, even to the one you are married to, is really a very important personality trait, and he should respect you for acting like a mature adult. If he doesn't, then he wants a slave, not a wife...and don't be that role unless you really want to be.
If he is insistent upon you cheating on him, when it's obvious you're not - he has insecurity problems that only he can fix. The more you try to defend yourself, the more he'll think you're guilty.
Suggest counselling or if it's really bad and he's abusive - pack his or your bags until he gets some professional help.
There must be more to this story than you have shared or he is just a jealous person with little trust in you. The best thing you can do is be an open book. If he ask you a question you need to have a clear and straight answer. Have sex as often as possible. And tell him often how much you love him....Good luck
Why would your husband think you are cheating? Is he possessive? Does he travel for his job? Maybe he feels that your sex life is not what it used to be. Make it p to him. If you have not given him a reason to feel you are cheating then he shouldn't think that you are.
It's philosophically impossible to prove a negative. You can only prove you ARE. Honest people expect to be believed, and when we are not, we just wait and let time prove it so. Unless you've given him reason, just saying you are not should be enough. If it isn't, HE'S got the problem.
I've found that the men who are the most suspicious for seemingly no reason are the ones who are actually cheating. they don't trust themselves and so don't trust you. and if there's no trust then its a bad relationship.
what you fail to really realize sweetheart is that you have done things that put that thought in the back of my head. you don't want to or avoid walking in my shoes. you are my #1. and again, how have you shown me that i am your #1?
Spend as much time with him as possible.Do everything you can for him.Call him whenever he thinks you might be cheating on him.DONT ignore his calls at all.Dont talk about Any guys eather.Its just simple.
Your husband thinks that you are cheating and the saying goes : where there is a dumpster, there is trash.
Not to sound vulgar but
Rip down his pants and give him a bj. This is mans favorite way of knowing his woman is into him. Actions speak louder than words.
Wake him up with the best ******* he's ever had. Do it everyday and im sure he will forget what you ever fought about. Guys are the not hardest to think for.
This is a question that you will need to ask him and get his opinon. Ours really won't make a difference, but his will.
This is where trust should be.Good luck.
If he doesn't believe you then why try to convince him? Something is wrong with this picture.
This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
He is starting to look more and more angry at me each time she does it eventhough its not my fault. What should I do before this guy attacks me?This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
tell him you have no interest in his wife and ask her not to bother you any more. i think she is just trying to make her husband jealous at your expense. i hate big flirts. if i was her husband and saw this i would get up and leave her where ever she was.This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
Well for starters I would send her the message as clearly as you can. If she makes a flirtatious comment to you, do not smile at her or give her any look to encourage her. In fact if you give her somewhat of a disappointed look and then look away she may get the message. If she touches you in anyway, pull away. Show her in every way possible that you are not interested in her. If the husband sees this, then his anger should turn to his wife and not you.
Tell the lady politely in front of the husband that you are not interested in dealing with her. If you are in a relationship then you need to let the lady know also that you are involved with someone that you don't want to mess up your relationship.
Say something like ';Well, I'm flattered, but you seem to be married to a great guy right here'; or ';I know since you're with a great guy like him that you're just flirting with me';. Especially if you say it lightheartedly, this will boost his ego (he's probably beaten down by the flirting she's done over the years) as well as let her know she's not getting to you and you're not playing her game.
When she does it again, tell her flat out, in front of her husband, that kind of suggestive talk makes you feel uncomfortable. This way she will feel embarrassed and stop and the husband will know you do not agree with it. It may be hard to do, but it is to the point and it will be effective.
Walk away.. Why do you meet those people.. or else confront him.. and tell both of them.. Tell the woman in front of her husband if she is really flirting with you .'' Lady, I have a girlfriend.. please stop flirting with me.. you have a husband.. '' or just if you have to deal with her at all treat her absolutely in a professional way.. by giving her polite replies.. what kind of husband does she have anyhow.. she must want a provokation.. I would not let her have that.. she is the kind of woman who would have enjoyed it 2 centuries ago if you and her husband would have fought a duel over her.. so make it plain that you are not interested without insulting her.. so don't say she is not attractive.. the best thing is to say nothing.. and stay out of their way if you can help it.. ignore them.. both.. if he doesn 't see what his wife is doing.. and blames you.. just stay away.. that is the best way to deal with it..
what a ***** honestly! do what the first answer said.
Lose all contact with the couple for a while. Ignore their calls, don't visit with them, avoid them all together. She will get the picture and the husband will realize that you truly have no interest in his wife.
Stop hanging out with her.
When she flirts with you ignore her and talk to her husband. Don't give her any eye contact anymore.
OOOH! I bet that's a bit wierd!
If you pull her to the side and tell you that you think the way she is behaving in front of her husband is making you uncomfortable and quite honeslty embarrasing to her spouse, I would guarentee that she'd steer clear of you for a while!
Talk to him. What a beeyatch.
Stay away from her. If she heads your way, head the other way.
Ask him right in front of her, I am flattered but is she this friendly with everyone.
tell him you have no interest in his wife and ask her not to bother you any more. i think she is just trying to make her husband jealous at your expense. i hate big flirts. if i was her husband and saw this i would get up and leave her where ever she was.This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
Well for starters I would send her the message as clearly as you can. If she makes a flirtatious comment to you, do not smile at her or give her any look to encourage her. In fact if you give her somewhat of a disappointed look and then look away she may get the message. If she touches you in anyway, pull away. Show her in every way possible that you are not interested in her. If the husband sees this, then his anger should turn to his wife and not you.
Tell the lady politely in front of the husband that you are not interested in dealing with her. If you are in a relationship then you need to let the lady know also that you are involved with someone that you don't want to mess up your relationship.
Say something like ';Well, I'm flattered, but you seem to be married to a great guy right here'; or ';I know since you're with a great guy like him that you're just flirting with me';. Especially if you say it lightheartedly, this will boost his ego (he's probably beaten down by the flirting she's done over the years) as well as let her know she's not getting to you and you're not playing her game.
When she does it again, tell her flat out, in front of her husband, that kind of suggestive talk makes you feel uncomfortable. This way she will feel embarrassed and stop and the husband will know you do not agree with it. It may be hard to do, but it is to the point and it will be effective.
Walk away.. Why do you meet those people.. or else confront him.. and tell both of them.. Tell the woman in front of her husband if she is really flirting with you .'' Lady, I have a girlfriend.. please stop flirting with me.. you have a husband.. '' or just if you have to deal with her at all treat her absolutely in a professional way.. by giving her polite replies.. what kind of husband does she have anyhow.. she must want a provokation.. I would not let her have that.. she is the kind of woman who would have enjoyed it 2 centuries ago if you and her husband would have fought a duel over her.. so make it plain that you are not interested without insulting her.. so don't say she is not attractive.. the best thing is to say nothing.. and stay out of their way if you can help it.. ignore them.. both.. if he doesn 't see what his wife is doing.. and blames you.. just stay away.. that is the best way to deal with it..
what a ***** honestly! do what the first answer said.
Lose all contact with the couple for a while. Ignore their calls, don't visit with them, avoid them all together. She will get the picture and the husband will realize that you truly have no interest in his wife.
Stop hanging out with her.
When she flirts with you ignore her and talk to her husband. Don't give her any eye contact anymore.
OOOH! I bet that's a bit wierd!
If you pull her to the side and tell you that you think the way she is behaving in front of her husband is making you uncomfortable and quite honeslty embarrasing to her spouse, I would guarentee that she'd steer clear of you for a while!
Talk to him. What a beeyatch.
Stay away from her. If she heads your way, head the other way.
Ask him right in front of her, I am flattered but is she this friendly with everyone.
How do I teach my husband manners?
He has burped and farted probably 50 times in the last 2 hours...some of which he leans toward me to do.
Is there hope for him?
He said he stopped using manners when he got married.
Should I punch him in his mouth or hold out sex?How do I teach my husband manners?
Hold out on him lol...Tell him he is so damn disgusting that you can't imagine being intimate with a pig...It would work if my wife said that to me...lol...How do I teach my husband manners?
Welcome to the wonderful world of AL BUNDY!!!! buy a gas mask...That's a good clue for him....
';BLUE EYES HAS LEFT THE THEATRE!!!!!';
You married him..he's ALL yours now.
He sounds like a pig
to each their own
give him back his money gold-digger
i love you honey
Is there hope for him?
He said he stopped using manners when he got married.
Should I punch him in his mouth or hold out sex?How do I teach my husband manners?
Hold out on him lol...Tell him he is so damn disgusting that you can't imagine being intimate with a pig...It would work if my wife said that to me...lol...How do I teach my husband manners?
Welcome to the wonderful world of AL BUNDY!!!! buy a gas mask...That's a good clue for him....
';BLUE EYES HAS LEFT THE THEATRE!!!!!';
You married him..he's ALL yours now.
He sounds like a pig
to each their own
give him back his money gold-digger
i love you honey
Do you think my cousin is rascist? I am hispanic and my husband is black ?
Basically my husband saw a comment on myspace that she sent out to her white husband and it was a watermelon baby bottle with a black baby with big lips and it said ';niggalac';. My husband is outraged! This is not the first time her and her white husband make racist remarks.What do you think? Is she wrong or is my husband over exaggerating? Do you think my cousin is rascist? I am hispanic and my husband is black ?
That's a pretty low blow, especially since she knew you would be able to see the picture. You husband is probably right to be mad, but make sure he doesn't do anything uncivilized; it will just give her an excuse to spread more hate. Tell him to be the bigger person and not to sink to her level. Do you think my cousin is rascist? I am hispanic and my husband is black ?
I'm going to be devil advocate here and suggest that you try not to be so sensitive.
I'm from England and grew up telling Englishman, Scotsman and Irishman jokes.
My Indian friend grew up telling Indian, Pakistani and Shiek jokes.
My black friend grew up telling white jokes.
None of us were trying to be prejudiced, but it could certainly be taken that way in today's political correctness.
Deal with it, and move on..... or does your husband like being a victim?
Very touchy! I understand your husbands frustration with the picture it seems a bit racist. Problem being is that some people dont really think through their decisions. Mention it to your cousin and wait for her reaction. Let her know that it hurt your feelings and wasn't appreciated!
That seems pretty racist to me. Even if it wasn't the first time, it'd still be wrong and very hurtful. I'd say cut off communication unless necessary but it is your personal situation so good luck! ^_^
That's a pretty low blow, especially since she knew you would be able to see the picture. You husband is probably right to be mad, but make sure he doesn't do anything uncivilized; it will just give her an excuse to spread more hate. Tell him to be the bigger person and not to sink to her level. Do you think my cousin is rascist? I am hispanic and my husband is black ?
I'm going to be devil advocate here and suggest that you try not to be so sensitive.
I'm from England and grew up telling Englishman, Scotsman and Irishman jokes.
My Indian friend grew up telling Indian, Pakistani and Shiek jokes.
My black friend grew up telling white jokes.
None of us were trying to be prejudiced, but it could certainly be taken that way in today's political correctness.
Deal with it, and move on..... or does your husband like being a victim?
Very touchy! I understand your husbands frustration with the picture it seems a bit racist. Problem being is that some people dont really think through their decisions. Mention it to your cousin and wait for her reaction. Let her know that it hurt your feelings and wasn't appreciated!
That seems pretty racist to me. Even if it wasn't the first time, it'd still be wrong and very hurtful. I'd say cut off communication unless necessary but it is your personal situation so good luck! ^_^
What should I get my husband for our 2nd anniversary? He is currently deployed to Afghanistan and I am lost. ?
I just sent him a box full of food and goodies plus pics of me and our daughter.What should I get my husband for our 2nd anniversary? He is currently deployed to Afghanistan and I am lost. ?
Will he be in Afghanistan for your anniversary or back home? I think you should do a number of things. You should make him a beautiful scrapbook with pictures of you and him throughout the year, with movie theater stubs (if you still have any), newspaper cartoon clippings, and box wrappers of his favorite foods...just a really artsy, scrap book, with your favorite song, poems, etc...
Then I think you should make him a movie (you can do this on your digital camera, camera phone, video camera, or web cam). Download the movie and send it to him to watch...doesn't have to be naughty can be something for him to watch of you...a dvd.
Then you could send him some of your panties sprayed with perfume... and pictures of you looking beautiful (not naked though)
And, maybe save up some money so that when he gets back after he's seen the family for a couple weeks you guys can take your daughter to stay with the grandparents or they can come visit for a week and then you and him go off on a romantic getaway for like three nights or so...just the two of you. It could even be in your town or the next town...get a hotel room, with strawberries, wine, music, bubble bath, a few candles, rose petals, plush towels, and just wash his back and give him a back rub...you guys could also take a ride in the park horse and cariage if it's offered where you live, and go out to eat and go to the movies...like dating and enjoying each other...bonding together...but he may just want to stay home after being gone for so long...maybe you can do some of that stuff at home...cook his favorite meal, rent a movie, etc...depending on your budget...good luck..you can have a lot of fun with this!!!What should I get my husband for our 2nd anniversary? He is currently deployed to Afghanistan and I am lost. ?
I wouldn't send anything special. My husband and I missed our first anniversary because of a deployment, so we decided to celebrate when he returned. If anything, I'd say send plenty of pics, and just ask him what he wants. Make a video for him. Strip and send the disc in a CD case so no one will know. OR make a sentimental video for him.
Will he be in Afghanistan for your anniversary or back home? I think you should do a number of things. You should make him a beautiful scrapbook with pictures of you and him throughout the year, with movie theater stubs (if you still have any), newspaper cartoon clippings, and box wrappers of his favorite foods...just a really artsy, scrap book, with your favorite song, poems, etc...
Then I think you should make him a movie (you can do this on your digital camera, camera phone, video camera, or web cam). Download the movie and send it to him to watch...doesn't have to be naughty can be something for him to watch of you...a dvd.
Then you could send him some of your panties sprayed with perfume... and pictures of you looking beautiful (not naked though)
And, maybe save up some money so that when he gets back after he's seen the family for a couple weeks you guys can take your daughter to stay with the grandparents or they can come visit for a week and then you and him go off on a romantic getaway for like three nights or so...just the two of you. It could even be in your town or the next town...get a hotel room, with strawberries, wine, music, bubble bath, a few candles, rose petals, plush towels, and just wash his back and give him a back rub...you guys could also take a ride in the park horse and cariage if it's offered where you live, and go out to eat and go to the movies...like dating and enjoying each other...bonding together...but he may just want to stay home after being gone for so long...maybe you can do some of that stuff at home...cook his favorite meal, rent a movie, etc...depending on your budget...good luck..you can have a lot of fun with this!!!What should I get my husband for our 2nd anniversary? He is currently deployed to Afghanistan and I am lost. ?
I wouldn't send anything special. My husband and I missed our first anniversary because of a deployment, so we decided to celebrate when he returned. If anything, I'd say send plenty of pics, and just ask him what he wants. Make a video for him. Strip and send the disc in a CD case so no one will know. OR make a sentimental video for him.
How do I clean the burn on my stainless steel stove? My husband left the burn on the stove. It left the mark.?
The mark look different color than the original look. I would like to remove the burn.
Thanks,
KPHow do I clean the burn on my stainless steel stove? My husband left the burn on the stove. It left the mark.?
IT CAN BE POLISHED OUT WITH SCOTCHBRITE PADS.How do I clean the burn on my stainless steel stove? My husband left the burn on the stove. It left the mark.?
Is it a burn or a discoloration?
Burn may be removed with any oven cleaner or some baking soda/water paste allowed to sit for awhile then wipe off and use some softscrub on a wet sponge.
If it is a discoloration, like colors of the rainbow, cannot be removed. The only thing I have seen to help a bit is a polish called FLITZ...not cheap, but works.
If you have polisher , polished gently .costume mask hot makeup
Thanks,
KPHow do I clean the burn on my stainless steel stove? My husband left the burn on the stove. It left the mark.?
IT CAN BE POLISHED OUT WITH SCOTCHBRITE PADS.How do I clean the burn on my stainless steel stove? My husband left the burn on the stove. It left the mark.?
Is it a burn or a discoloration?
Burn may be removed with any oven cleaner or some baking soda/water paste allowed to sit for awhile then wipe off and use some softscrub on a wet sponge.
If it is a discoloration, like colors of the rainbow, cannot be removed. The only thing I have seen to help a bit is a polish called FLITZ...not cheap, but works.
If you have polisher , polished gently .
What should I buy my husband for his birthday?
Any idea of sex, or anything involving sex is out of the question. that is a package he unwraps pretty often.
He likes sci-fi movie, Magic the Gathering. He reads comics. He LOVES wrestling. in fact he wrestles.
Any suggestions would be nice, but I am working on a 50 buck budget.What should I buy my husband for his birthday?
Does he have Sirius satellite radio? It's the best gift I've ever given my husband. Radio Shack had it on special around Father's Day and it only cost about $50 after the rebates. Of course, it's like $12 a month after that for the subscription, but my husband didn't mind. He loves it.What should I buy my husband for his birthday?
Give him some Sci-Fi movies and a pack of Magic cards.
Buy him a week's worth of silence...take yourself on a cruise.
why don't you get him a gift certificate that way he can by what ever he wants
A threesome
I got just the thing: A Magic 8 Ball: the 70s popular novelty toy today has several versions with even more funnier answers! Maybe some cool comic book themed ties....and some comic book or cartoon themed boxers or sleep bottoms.
Buy him a t-shirt with his favorite wrestler on it.
interesting movie on DVD
The book name '; The Art of Archery'; is good present and stay with him for ever.
Gift card for a massage it might be a little more than $50, but I always get my husband one for b-days etc. he really enjoys it, you could even get one for 1/2 hour massage it shouldn't be more than $50 bucks.
He likes sci-fi movie, Magic the Gathering. He reads comics. He LOVES wrestling. in fact he wrestles.
Any suggestions would be nice, but I am working on a 50 buck budget.What should I buy my husband for his birthday?
Does he have Sirius satellite radio? It's the best gift I've ever given my husband. Radio Shack had it on special around Father's Day and it only cost about $50 after the rebates. Of course, it's like $12 a month after that for the subscription, but my husband didn't mind. He loves it.What should I buy my husband for his birthday?
Give him some Sci-Fi movies and a pack of Magic cards.
Buy him a week's worth of silence...take yourself on a cruise.
why don't you get him a gift certificate that way he can by what ever he wants
A threesome
I got just the thing: A Magic 8 Ball: the 70s popular novelty toy today has several versions with even more funnier answers! Maybe some cool comic book themed ties....and some comic book or cartoon themed boxers or sleep bottoms.
Buy him a t-shirt with his favorite wrestler on it.
interesting movie on DVD
The book name '; The Art of Archery'; is good present and stay with him for ever.
Gift card for a massage it might be a little more than $50, but I always get my husband one for b-days etc. he really enjoys it, you could even get one for 1/2 hour massage it shouldn't be more than $50 bucks.
I want to put a video on youtube, should I tell my husband?
I know it sounds like a stupid question lol. The video isn't a personal video of family pictures or anything, I made a scrapblog of my favourite books and now I turned it into a video and I want to post it on youtube. Should I tell my husband first, or it doesn't really matter? I want to put a video on youtube, should I tell my husband?
you should tell him, out of respectI want to put a video on youtube, should I tell my husband?
OKey, i think you must tell him:)
http://www.video-to-flash.com/video_to_f鈥?/a>
as long as it isnt indecent i dont think it would really mattter but then again I dont know his personality so Id probably say something
PPPPLLLLLEEEEAAASSSSEEEE!
Just post it!
noo its ur decison
answer mine??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
It does not matter if you tell your husband or not he would not care.
You should let him know you're posting it. Don't hide secrets from him, it'll backfire in the long run.
you should tell him, out of respectI want to put a video on youtube, should I tell my husband?
OKey, i think you must tell him:)
http://www.video-to-flash.com/video_to_f鈥?/a>
as long as it isnt indecent i dont think it would really mattter but then again I dont know his personality so Id probably say something
PPPPLLLLLEEEEAAASSSSEEEE!
Just post it!
noo its ur decison
answer mine??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
It does not matter if you tell your husband or not he would not care.
You should let him know you're posting it. Don't hide secrets from him, it'll backfire in the long run.
How should i tell my husband im pregnant?
he is in NYC this week and i just found out im pregnant, and i want to tell him, but i don't know if i should tell him on the phone, or wait until he gets home....but then he will ask why i waited so long to tell him and i don't know....how did you tell your baby daddy you were pregnant?How should i tell my husband im pregnant?
i say buy a cute baby outfit and stick it on the bed the day he gets home... it makes it more personal and its an interesting way to get the emotions flowingHow should i tell my husband im pregnant?
Both times I found out I was pregnant we were out. The first time we were at Burger King and we were getting ready to go out drinking and I thought I would just double check because I had taken so many pregnancy tests in the past that I was sure that I wasn't. It came out positive. Thinking back, I'm really not sure why I had one with me at the time. We really wanted a baby. The second time was on the way home from a California trip. I didn't handle the plane ride very good, so I thought I would grab a test at a Target when we landed. I did it before I left the store. I was so excited that I showed him it was positive as soon as I got into the van. Neither on was very romantic. My husband wishes I would have put some thought into how I would tell him, but I was too excited.
my husband was 300 miles away perm. and I wouldnt have seen him for 2-3 weeks. He was also at work and I was so overwhelmed I told him I needed to talk to him asap in the morning. I was going to tell him via webcam but once I heard his voice I couldnt hold it in so yup it was over the phone. He ended up seeing me that week so he could go to the doctor's appt with me to confirm the pregnancy.
I woke him up out of a dead sleep and shoved the pee stick in his face, and asked very confusedly ';Michael,what does this mean?';
we are only 18 and it was the cutest thing when he sat there with a shocked expression :) (not scared, just shocked) If I was married and we were trying, I would do something really cute and meaningful. Is i t possible to have a cake or balloons delivered to where he is staying, that say ';congratulations, your gonna be a daddy!'; If not, then maybe you could just say, by next fathers day, your gonna be a dad :)
i just called my bf, not as soon as i found out, but a little later, he was at work, and was about to pass out when i told him. lol he was so happy. i couldnt wait to tell him, so i called, but its really up to you, if he asks why you waited so long you can say i wanted to tell you in person...
call and tell him right now! it'll make his day. congratulations!
i say buy a cute baby outfit and stick it on the bed the day he gets home... it makes it more personal and its an interesting way to get the emotions flowingHow should i tell my husband im pregnant?
Both times I found out I was pregnant we were out. The first time we were at Burger King and we were getting ready to go out drinking and I thought I would just double check because I had taken so many pregnancy tests in the past that I was sure that I wasn't. It came out positive. Thinking back, I'm really not sure why I had one with me at the time. We really wanted a baby. The second time was on the way home from a California trip. I didn't handle the plane ride very good, so I thought I would grab a test at a Target when we landed. I did it before I left the store. I was so excited that I showed him it was positive as soon as I got into the van. Neither on was very romantic. My husband wishes I would have put some thought into how I would tell him, but I was too excited.
my husband was 300 miles away perm. and I wouldnt have seen him for 2-3 weeks. He was also at work and I was so overwhelmed I told him I needed to talk to him asap in the morning. I was going to tell him via webcam but once I heard his voice I couldnt hold it in so yup it was over the phone. He ended up seeing me that week so he could go to the doctor's appt with me to confirm the pregnancy.
I woke him up out of a dead sleep and shoved the pee stick in his face, and asked very confusedly ';Michael,what does this mean?';
we are only 18 and it was the cutest thing when he sat there with a shocked expression :) (not scared, just shocked) If I was married and we were trying, I would do something really cute and meaningful. Is i t possible to have a cake or balloons delivered to where he is staying, that say ';congratulations, your gonna be a daddy!'; If not, then maybe you could just say, by next fathers day, your gonna be a dad :)
i just called my bf, not as soon as i found out, but a little later, he was at work, and was about to pass out when i told him. lol he was so happy. i couldnt wait to tell him, so i called, but its really up to you, if he asks why you waited so long you can say i wanted to tell you in person...
call and tell him right now! it'll make his day. congratulations!
How would I go about finding a girl to be with my husband and I at the same time?
Just ask somebody you know know that would like to do that.
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