How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?

Ladies or getleman can answer, be nice.How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
Poor and happy, all the way!!





Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? Even if you're rich, you're still UNHAPPY?!?! Yeah, no thanks! That would be asinine!How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
RICH but unhappy in bed but who cares about that when i can go shopping any time i want. I can make my own self happy in bed with the best toys money can buy. Being poor but happy in bed doesn't last because after awhile you will start arguing over money and slowly but surely the once happiness in bed turns into bitterness.
Honestly, I would rather be with a rich man and unhappy in bed.


I'll explain; I could teach a man tricks to make me happy in bed and still shop, own real estate, be an entrepenuer, feed the hungry or do what ever makes me happy. Not to say that I needed him to have money at all...





I would not want to be poor and forget about all the bills and existing problems only when we are having incredible sex. After the sex how are we going to eat? Better yet how are we going to wash our asses when the hot water gets cut off because we are soo poor.





The rich guy that treated the woman bad still paid child support after the relationship was over. In the end she was able to move on and be happy with someone new and still had income from the last rich guy that treated her like crap. Child Support isn't cheap. That money came in handy.





Thats the bad thinking that society puts on females, ';money can't buy you happiness'; It can't buy happiness literaly but, it can allow you to expand ideas and other ventures. Thats another story...
Since money is only an energy that is attracted when we feel good then is evident that i would rather be happy first and love.


the EQUATION goes:





BE DO HAVE.





about being poor and rich, there are people out there that they are SO RICH that they ONLY one thing they got is money.
Poor but happy. My 1st husband made good money but he ended up cheating and treating me like crap. We took nice vacations, etc. but I divorced him and lived off of $8.00 an hour.


I ended up falling in love with a poor man. He had huge child support payments but as long as we were together it didn't matter. By the way, my 'poor' husband's kids are now over 18, we own our business and are doing quite well. So give me a poor man who makes me happy in (and out of) bed, anytime.
I would say in love and be poor the less I had the happier I was you learn to appreciate each other and the things in life that you take for granted
HOW ABOUT happy period. It is not anyone elses job to ';make'; you anything. It is YOUR responsibility to make YOURSELF happy.
Poor and happy.
poor and happy
The first of course. I make good money soo poor is not an option for me
Both! But love trumps money, in my book anyway.

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I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?

I have been living with a controlling husband for 6 years. I am 50 years old and always stayed at home. He has 3 incomes including his retirement annuity, VA disability and he has gone back to work out of retirement. I have an opportunity to finally leave him but have no money. We do have a joint bank account; should I take the $4,000 that is in there when I leave?I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?
If you take the money you had better make sure he can't find you.


Just start calling the police whenever he gets abusive.


Build up evidence and then divorce him. Get a good lawyer and make sure you get alimony.


If you take the 4K you will have to hide from him pretty much forever.


If you get things documented then divorce him and then take his money you should be OK.I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?
You're entitled to half of EVERYTHING! Make sure you get copies of ALL the important papers like insurance policies, the account numbers to everything including his retirement and bank accounts, papers on the house, extra set of keys to the house and cars, you need to protect yourself and yes, you can take the money in the account! Take everything you want with you when you go, so he can't say you abandoned it all! Plan first, then leave! Good Luck!
Hi, if you have a joint bank account then go ahead and take it all out, then leave..


Take your $4,oooo you have been putting up with to much to long, and now it's time for you to be happy.


Plan where your going get your things out that you want then hit the bank last.


You deserve this screw him!


Verbally abused is just as bad as getting hit.


Good luck to you, now go and be happy:)
Take whatever you can and get out with your safety in tact. It will be hard, and probably involve you getting a job and a place to live, but I imagine it is ultimately worth it in the long run. Then let the lawyers dwell on the rest of the details.





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If your husband has three incomes - he seems to be fine financially. But you dont seem to be. If your going to leave you could go to your parents, your family and friends. I think you need to think about your happiness. Take the money.
You area courageous woman. It's never too late to start over. Don't let fear and doubt take over. This book will help you be strong and plan through this process: Too Good To Leave, Too Bad to Stay. (I speak from experience)





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http://www.advicemagnet.com/help-abused-women.html
take what ever your need. the lawyers will divide up the rest. it is best to have money in hand now, than to try and get it later.
We are in the same boat, with the exception I have a job.


I am sure you have built him up to where he is now. GO FOR IT!
Take what you need to get yourself up and running and leave the rest. Get yourself a job and get out of there.
Take the opportunity and go. And take the $4,000. You'll need it to get wherever you're destination is.
that will get you to the corner. good plan.
Sure...





But 4,000 won't get you that far now... will it.
wait until there is alot more!! and make him pay spousal support.
You've only been married 6yrs? How in the world would you think it's fair to get any money from him at all? You've never taken care of any of his children, so you should've been working at the time that he met you. The most fair thing would be for you to leave but to leave with nothing more than you came into the relationship with. He worked for his retirement annuity. He earned his VA disability by serving in the military. All of that he earned before he even met you, even if he's been getting the payments since having met you.





I think you should leave the money in the bank, pack your bags, leave, and go back to doing whatever you were doing before you met. You having no money is your fault. It shouldn't become his problem because you no longer want to be in the relationship. Even in an abusive situation, right is right and fair is fair. You can say, well he shouldn't have been verbally abusive but it can also be said that at 50, you should've had a source of income a long time ago. Your children, if there are any, wouldn't be so young where you couldn't have worked.

Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?

I would prefer not to file with him, but I want to make sure I do things right.Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?
You don't have to file a joint return, and wouldn't even if you hadn't separated. You can file as married filing separately.





If you lived apart for ALL of the time since June 30, and you have a child of yours living with you, you might be able to file as head of household.Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?
even when you were married, you can file separately. So you should be able to file separately.
You always have the choice of filing jointly or separately. Let him know what you are doing to avoid problems with you both taking the same deductions.
No, you do not have to file with your husband. You would file as married filing seperately. The main restriction is if you file and itemize your deductions, your husband must itemize also. If one files and uses the standard deduction, the other must file using the standard deduction.
In order to file married but seperate - you would have had to lived apart for 6 months or more. Thats what my accountant told me.

Why does a husband who left his wife all of a sudden comes back when she starts dating someone else?

It could happen whether they are still in contact or haven't been in contact for a while...why?





I've done some searching on Yahoo! Answers and I find this happens a lot. Husband leaves wife and kids for OW, then wife starts dating someone else...and then husband suddenly shows up wanting to work things out...the husband most of the time doesn't even know the wife was dating someone else.





Any thoughts?Why does a husband who left his wife all of a sudden comes back when she starts dating someone else?
I think when the wife starts dating someone else,the husband realises that he will have no more authority over her, and guys generally don't want to lose power.They think the wife is their property and don't want to give it to someone else...and when they say that they didn't even know that wife was dating someone...that's a lie.They don't want to admit the real reason behind it so they pretend to have come for working things out only out of love and realisation..well that's what I think....Hope it helps.Why does a husband who left his wife all of a sudden comes back when she starts dating someone else?
Because a man is like a dog with a bone. He might not want it anymore, but he damn well doesnt want some other dog to have it either..





Its about jealousy and possession.. men consider their wife to the be theirs until they are divorced (and some even after that!). They can sow their wild oats all over town, but the little mrs must be loyal, just in case he should want to come back to her. So when the wife gets a new guy, the husband will come back and do his best to chase away the other guy and then convince the wife to get back together, and the minute the other guy is long gone.. so is the husband.. until next time.
Because most of the time, the guy always wants what he can't have. If that's not the case, then I'd say it's because it didn't work out for whatever with the other wife %26amp; he knows what he's got on reserve. Damn bastards.
Men ALWAYS want what they cannot have. And even if he never finds out that his wife is seeing someone else her attitude has changed and that attracts him back to her because she is ignoring him.
Because the grass always looks greener on the other side; when they get there, however, the old grass looks much better.
Because they are jealous and unhappy!! Usually people that leave their spouses for selfish reasons never find happiness in their relationships!
He just wants to FALL BACK on somebody, on security, that's it, maybe, if things dont work out with OW
Yes! it's a control issue! No one wants the other person to be a step ahead or left behind! If he feels you with someone else he just wants you back because you moved on!
He wasn't over her in the first place.

What is the dumbest question or comment your wife (or husband) has made to you during a game?

My favorites were during an NBA game, ';The coach is yelling at him, do you think he's crying?';


During an NFL game, the score is 20-10 at halftime ';You can turn it off. The white team is going to win 40-20 anyway.';What is the dumbest question or comment your wife (or husband) has made to you during a game?
One time my g/f (at that time) asked me (while I was drinking a beer) having sex with her while the game was on,,,,she asked me if that's all men think about is sex, beer, and football?? Ummm,,,,YES !!!What is the dumbest question or comment your wife (or husband) has made to you during a game?
well I'm not married but my sister tells me all the time that she only pulls for the team that has the best name.





for example: she would pull for the panthers over the browns becasue she likes the name panthers better than the name browns





I tell her all the time that that has nothing to do with if they are better
Lol that's funny





the best thing is when ur mom walks in and hears a name or part of a name and freaks and says the wrong name and goes on and on about a great baseball player and ur watching football, it happens A lot my moms getting old
';You watching football, honey?'; Duhhhh!!!!!
My wife actually wanted me to have sex during an OU game. I nearly strangled that dumb beotch!
';So which one is Barry Bonds?';


During an NFL game