Thursday, July 29, 2010

What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?

We are taking out Pit Bull to a certified trainer. The trainer is HOT! Blonde, nice bod, works out, perfect everything. The dog hasn't progressed at all. We are paying over 1100 only because he can't stop drooling over her. I told him I don't want the dog going back. While we were at the last meeting he said he would go to the next meeting by himself! OMG what do I do?What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
leave himWhat signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
Grow up and take control.





We can't help you with your husband...if he's stepping out - you need to talk to him.





Good luck
Train the dog yourself. Also, no matter how much money you spend on dog training, it will not work unless it is practiced daily with dog. The more practice the dog gets the better it is able to learn what is expected.
Chill! If she is a hot blond, What would she want with a married man whose dog is not a good advertisement for her teaching? I agree about changing trainers. There is no reason why you should not be seeing results. How long have you been going? There are many ways to train a dog. Some work better than others. It seems to me $1100. is excessive. especially with no results. How long have you been taking him to the trainer? Not all systems work.
Grow a spine and stop acting like you need other people's advice on how to handle your marriage.





Call the trainer, tell her you are dropping the session as your dog is not progressing. Find another trainer and actually continue the training at home - lack of progress in the dog means neither you or your husband are keeping up with what you have learned.





As for hubby - that's up to you.
sounds like it's time to raise alittle hell towards the ole hubby! he's enjoying his training sessions too much! it's me or the dog trainer, baby. if he pics the dog trainer, sorry, you and your pitbull will be ok. just let that be a lesson to you. next time you pic out a dog trainer, make sure he's to your liking!!!!!
uh this sounds like something that should be under relationships:S only thing I can really say is gain confidence take control and uh train the dog yourself.
I think your problem isn't with your dog! I think you posted your question in the wrong category! Good Luck looks like you need it!!
Confront him about it..If he's into the dog trainer and he's not doing anything with her..w/e..you know just let it go..you can tell yourself all day that he's the love of your life and that you NEVER look at another guy..I used to tell myself the same thing..but the honest to God truth is that we all (even if we love some1 with all of our heart and soul) look at some1 else from time to time and fantasize. As long as he's not doing anything..let it go..but if the dog doesn't progress in a week or w/e..tell him that yall need to find some1 else to train your dog cause that woman obviously doesn't know what she's doing..lol..BUT..I just wanna give you a piece of advice if you're worried about him cheating..If a man is going to cheat on you..he's gonna do it..it doesn't matter what you say or do..that's just the bottom line..I hope this helped!! Take care!!
She sounds like a genious to me. She IS a trainer. She trains MEN... to give her lots of money for the pure pleasure of just looking at her. For all you know she has never successfully trained a dog in her life. Beautiful women can get away with murder.


Your husband is buying a very expensive lapdance for your dog. and he gets to watch.


Pull the plug.
the dog wont progress unless you keep training it at home. practise what you learn at training


if you don't trust your husband that's a different problem altogether
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I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?

The date is Sat. 10/27/07 and I really need hall places, bar rentals, etc. We would like to have it around he Worcester, MA area.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Worcester, MA?


I was gonna say the Brassrail in Toronto.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Massachusetts is nortorious for the witch burning trials back in the 1600's, so I'm sure that there are lots of locations that would make for a spooky party theme. You might want to look up historical places that are also easily rented for an evening of supernatural fun. Plan a paranormal scavanger hunt starting at another location and ending up at your party location. Get lots of dry ice to make ';fog';. Create your own haunted house, invite a local celebrity psychic to do tours or plan a tour of a local cemetary. Depending on your budget, set up ';booths'; where you have a fortune teller, a tarot reader, an aura interpreter and someone that can tell good ghost stories. If you're on a tight budget, rent a location that has a past, look up the history and have everyone come in costume that honors that place's previous owners etc. And, serve lots of good food!
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rent one of those old spooky mansions.

Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?

She also doesn't like other men but doesn't mind other woman.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
Because cats are evil. I recommend getting a dog.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
that's really funny!! my husband would agree with the best answer!

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Did you socialize your cat when she was a kitten. If not that would explain why she only likes you and your husband. I have a cat that hides when ever when have company. When she was a baby we were anti-social, so she doesn't like people coming over. I would suggest buying cat treats, then have your most patient friend sit down and try to coax your kitty to take the treat. After she is comfortable with this friend have other try to give her treats. Pretty soon she will associate company with treats, and she will love it when you have guests.
My muted calico is so shy that altho I'vehad her since August 2000, my best friend has seen her only twice--once thru a window, %26amp; once down a hall from about 20 feet away. She hides whenever there is someone else in the house %26amp; only shows herself to her ';brother'; %26amp; me.
Because she is a cat. Cats just act strange sometimes, I know mine does.
calico cats are like this i find,and they sulk lots to
calico cats are generally man or woman oriented not both. And they ussually have alot of attitude.
I have a Calico and she is a bit flaky, but lovable. She is skittish around other people, but entirely comfortable with me and my spouse. She is very mouthy too and wants things done her way. When our alarm clock goes off, she gets on our dresser and starts throwing things off of it or rips up the rug to wake us up to feed her. She also like to challenge the dogs by getting really close and staring at them. They freak out and she walks away with triumph. Maybe it's just the breed.

What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?

How many keystroke should a good piano have? What is a good height for a yamaha piano? What should we be looking out for in a piano? At the moment we have yamaha in mind and my husband thinks it is easier to sell out later because of the brand's name. We have 3 girls age 14, 13 and 7years old that would like to play piano.


We can't afford an expansive one, we are looking at $2000-$2500 AUS$.What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Sure, Yamaha is fine. It's not the only good one available, shop a bit. But you really should look at the want ads or CraigsList and even check piano stores for a used model. You should be able to find one that's ';good as new'; and you'll save money. But before you go shopping ask yourself why your husband wants the Yamaha 鈥?you say because the brand name will be easy to sell in future. Yet you say you have three girls who want to play. Sounds like maybe he has less faith in the longevity of their interests than you do. Who is it that really wants them to play piano?? I find it odd that all three kids would have a burning desire to play piano ... but I've been wrong before. All I'm really saying is that you give us some clues that this expensive purchase may not be a real solid decision. Time to evaluate more than the cost of 88 keys on a box, eh?What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Well a used piano is probabbly smart, there are several brands though that are good check out these


Schimmel -


Petrof


Kawai


Sauter


ect.


But maybe your kids would like to play with headphones on or when you sleep or anything, maybe turn the volume down and things... so! there is a possibility of a digital Piano! because digital pianos dont have to be tuned and are execellent for begginers.


Yamha makes them


and KAwai makes them The Kawai CA series are a good choice and the Yamha CLP 370 and up is also worth a look, check them out and if you dont like the idea of digital piano try to look for used pianos
I would only add the higher the upright, the better the tone quality (longer strings, less crossover on the frame), the less often it goes out of tune, the higher the resale value.





If you are buying second hand from an independent seller, it is well worth the additional expense to have an independently chosen technician look at it and give you his assessment.





Best, Petr B.
Don't just go for yamaha because they're the top brand, a used piano is probably smarter, a yamaha upright is about 1000 pounds in england, I bought my used chalen piano for much cheaper and it's great, for 300 pounds :)
surely yamaha is the best as u're a beginner, and at ur price. and there's a vast range of them, just go to the shop and ask for them
an upright piano would be nice.... I suggest that you go to their store %26amp; see if some of their pianos suit your taste %26amp; your budget...





^_^ good luck^_^

How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?

Ladies or getleman can answer, be nice.How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
Poor and happy, all the way!!





Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? Even if you're rich, you're still UNHAPPY?!?! Yeah, no thanks! That would be asinine!How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
RICH but unhappy in bed but who cares about that when i can go shopping any time i want. I can make my own self happy in bed with the best toys money can buy. Being poor but happy in bed doesn't last because after awhile you will start arguing over money and slowly but surely the once happiness in bed turns into bitterness.
Honestly, I would rather be with a rich man and unhappy in bed.


I'll explain; I could teach a man tricks to make me happy in bed and still shop, own real estate, be an entrepenuer, feed the hungry or do what ever makes me happy. Not to say that I needed him to have money at all...





I would not want to be poor and forget about all the bills and existing problems only when we are having incredible sex. After the sex how are we going to eat? Better yet how are we going to wash our asses when the hot water gets cut off because we are soo poor.





The rich guy that treated the woman bad still paid child support after the relationship was over. In the end she was able to move on and be happy with someone new and still had income from the last rich guy that treated her like crap. Child Support isn't cheap. That money came in handy.





Thats the bad thinking that society puts on females, ';money can't buy you happiness'; It can't buy happiness literaly but, it can allow you to expand ideas and other ventures. Thats another story...
Since money is only an energy that is attracted when we feel good then is evident that i would rather be happy first and love.


the EQUATION goes:





BE DO HAVE.





about being poor and rich, there are people out there that they are SO RICH that they ONLY one thing they got is money.
Poor but happy. My 1st husband made good money but he ended up cheating and treating me like crap. We took nice vacations, etc. but I divorced him and lived off of $8.00 an hour.


I ended up falling in love with a poor man. He had huge child support payments but as long as we were together it didn't matter. By the way, my 'poor' husband's kids are now over 18, we own our business and are doing quite well. So give me a poor man who makes me happy in (and out of) bed, anytime.
I would say in love and be poor the less I had the happier I was you learn to appreciate each other and the things in life that you take for granted
HOW ABOUT happy period. It is not anyone elses job to ';make'; you anything. It is YOUR responsibility to make YOURSELF happy.
Poor and happy.
poor and happy
The first of course. I make good money soo poor is not an option for me
Both! But love trumps money, in my book anyway.
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  • I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?

    I have been living with a controlling husband for 6 years. I am 50 years old and always stayed at home. He has 3 incomes including his retirement annuity, VA disability and he has gone back to work out of retirement. I have an opportunity to finally leave him but have no money. We do have a joint bank account; should I take the $4,000 that is in there when I leave?I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?
    If you take the money you had better make sure he can't find you.


    Just start calling the police whenever he gets abusive.


    Build up evidence and then divorce him. Get a good lawyer and make sure you get alimony.


    If you take the 4K you will have to hide from him pretty much forever.


    If you get things documented then divorce him and then take his money you should be OK.I have been living with a controlling and verbally abusive husband for 6 years.?
    You're entitled to half of EVERYTHING! Make sure you get copies of ALL the important papers like insurance policies, the account numbers to everything including his retirement and bank accounts, papers on the house, extra set of keys to the house and cars, you need to protect yourself and yes, you can take the money in the account! Take everything you want with you when you go, so he can't say you abandoned it all! Plan first, then leave! Good Luck!
    Hi, if you have a joint bank account then go ahead and take it all out, then leave..


    Take your $4,oooo you have been putting up with to much to long, and now it's time for you to be happy.


    Plan where your going get your things out that you want then hit the bank last.


    You deserve this screw him!


    Verbally abused is just as bad as getting hit.


    Good luck to you, now go and be happy:)
    Take whatever you can and get out with your safety in tact. It will be hard, and probably involve you getting a job and a place to live, but I imagine it is ultimately worth it in the long run. Then let the lawyers dwell on the rest of the details.





    **** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED***
    If your husband has three incomes - he seems to be fine financially. But you dont seem to be. If your going to leave you could go to your parents, your family and friends. I think you need to think about your happiness. Take the money.
    You area courageous woman. It's never too late to start over. Don't let fear and doubt take over. This book will help you be strong and plan through this process: Too Good To Leave, Too Bad to Stay. (I speak from experience)





    You can find more information here:


    http://www.advicemagnet.com/help-abused-women.html
    take what ever your need. the lawyers will divide up the rest. it is best to have money in hand now, than to try and get it later.
    We are in the same boat, with the exception I have a job.


    I am sure you have built him up to where he is now. GO FOR IT!
    Take what you need to get yourself up and running and leave the rest. Get yourself a job and get out of there.
    Take the opportunity and go. And take the $4,000. You'll need it to get wherever you're destination is.
    that will get you to the corner. good plan.
    Sure...





    But 4,000 won't get you that far now... will it.
    wait until there is alot more!! and make him pay spousal support.
    You've only been married 6yrs? How in the world would you think it's fair to get any money from him at all? You've never taken care of any of his children, so you should've been working at the time that he met you. The most fair thing would be for you to leave but to leave with nothing more than you came into the relationship with. He worked for his retirement annuity. He earned his VA disability by serving in the military. All of that he earned before he even met you, even if he's been getting the payments since having met you.





    I think you should leave the money in the bank, pack your bags, leave, and go back to doing whatever you were doing before you met. You having no money is your fault. It shouldn't become his problem because you no longer want to be in the relationship. Even in an abusive situation, right is right and fair is fair. You can say, well he shouldn't have been verbally abusive but it can also be said that at 50, you should've had a source of income a long time ago. Your children, if there are any, wouldn't be so young where you couldn't have worked.

    Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?

    I would prefer not to file with him, but I want to make sure I do things right.Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?
    You don't have to file a joint return, and wouldn't even if you hadn't separated. You can file as married filing separately.





    If you lived apart for ALL of the time since June 30, and you have a child of yours living with you, you might be able to file as head of household.Do I have to file my 2007 Taxes w my husband if we separated this year?
    even when you were married, you can file separately. So you should be able to file separately.
    You always have the choice of filing jointly or separately. Let him know what you are doing to avoid problems with you both taking the same deductions.
    No, you do not have to file with your husband. You would file as married filing seperately. The main restriction is if you file and itemize your deductions, your husband must itemize also. If one files and uses the standard deduction, the other must file using the standard deduction.
    In order to file married but seperate - you would have had to lived apart for 6 months or more. Thats what my accountant told me.