How long will my husband be in the field for mct?
will my husband be able have free time when he mct?will he call me when he at mct?when he done mct will i and my kids be able to go with him to pcola fl for his mos?how long does it take to get insurance from the marine?how long is mct?sorry for all these question?How long will my husband be in the field for mct?
MCT is 21 days long and he will not usually get free time. As for you and the kids going to FL with him for school, schools are different depending on the time and i know those schools there are usually long. With that being said, they will not allow you to live with him while he is at school. He would be able to come off base and see you on the weekends if you were down there though. Insurance will start on you as soon as he start bootcamp and does his paperwork during the first weekHow long will my husband be in the field for mct?
About 3 weeks. He will have time, but cramming 2 months of training into 3 weeks doesn't really leave much time for ';free time';. When I went through, the MCT Marines trained until the day before they graduated. No, while he's in MOS school, the family won't be able to live with him.
Insurance? As in Tri-Care? As long as you're enrolled in DEERS, you should have coverage.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
When can i received the pension from the death of my husband who were a retired employee of ford?
My husband died in October. after that i did not receive my pension or benefits from ford in canada.When can i received the pension from the death of my husband who were a retired employee of ford?
Ford in Canada must have a phone number for member benefits. Call them and ask.When can i received the pension from the death of my husband who were a retired employee of ford?
You must contact Ford in Canada for this information. It could be that there is some paperwork to be filed before you can receive these benefits.
I don't know your circumstances, but I'd act swiftly on this; even if it meant hiring an attorney. If the car manufacutrers go belly up (file bankruptcy) you could lose your money
Ford in Canada must have a phone number for member benefits. Call them and ask.When can i received the pension from the death of my husband who were a retired employee of ford?
You must contact Ford in Canada for this information. It could be that there is some paperwork to be filed before you can receive these benefits.
I don't know your circumstances, but I'd act swiftly on this; even if it meant hiring an attorney. If the car manufacutrers go belly up (file bankruptcy) you could lose your money
Should i trust my husband after he cheated on me twice ?
My husband and i have been together for 4yr. What i know is that he has cheated on me twice but he said that he did not have sex with them but everybody that worked with him says different. Because the two women used to work were he worked. Should i believe him and trust him??? He says that he won't do it again.Should i trust my husband after he cheated on me twice ?
TWICE!!??
Forgive?...no way, He wouldn't have had a chance to do it twice...I would have left his lying *** the first time!Should i trust my husband after he cheated on me twice ?
You can exposed him and her on the busted and exposed video website. It is a video website for exposing cheaters, liars, fraud, scams, con artist, adultery, the missing and more. You can make your on video and put in on their website at http://www.bustedandexposed.com
He cheated twice?
Do you believe him? I guess not by the guess not just by your question. You have to go with your gut instinct. You should also ask if you willing to live with this kind of behavior. Can you look the other way? You deserve to be treated right and respected.
Remember, it is not your fault if the marriage ended. It doesn't mean it's a failure either.
No, don't believe him or trust him until your instincts and your heart tell you that he deserves that. You have a lot of doubt here, and you should have a lot of doubt. He sounds like a sneaky guy, and he'll probably continue to be a sneaky guy. (Makes me wonder if he hides other stuff - like computer time, his cell phone, etc).
Once is a mistake, twice is taking the mick. I admire that he told you, but you have to think why did he tell you? If he has cheated on you, twice, then your marriage is obviously not something he genuinely is worried about losing. Otherwise he wouldn't jeopardise it like that. Do not trust him :(
What do you consider cheating if there is no sex. If he was just close to them and someone decided to start the rumor that he cheated I must be a whore. I am always talking to guys at work and I am married.
Anyways, if you have 100% proof that he cheated you should have left him the first time!
No, You need to divorce his dumb ***. Once a cheater always a cheater. Also when you and your husband took ur vow es in front of the priest and god and everybody else at your wedding.He runied it. So you need to leave him. He will keep on cheating on you until you do leave him or he leaves you.
Of course you should believe him and then you will just sit around and wait for it to happen a third and fourth and fifth time and you can just keep 'believing him' for the rest of your life.
most people call that ';being naive';
You are setting yourself up for more pain if you allow him to walk all over you like that. Sticking around after he has cheated and LIED twice, is like saying ';You can do whatever you want to me and I'll never leave';.
No you shouldn't stay with your husband if he cheated on you twice. Not unless you start knocking about with other fellas as well. Its not fair otherwise.
Your the only one that knows if you will be able to trust him again or not but if that was me the trust would be gone forever and our marriage would be over.
If you want to go through the pain again then stay with him. I think you know deep down that he WILL DO IT AGAIN, no questions asked.
Just twice, that's nothing stay with him and he will keep doing it.....
Once is enough to dump him. Leave. Now. Have some self-respect.
That's a great idea.
Sorry, but you my friend are naive and a doormat. Leave him now!!!
TWICE!!??
Forgive?...no way, He wouldn't have had a chance to do it twice...I would have left his lying *** the first time!Should i trust my husband after he cheated on me twice ?
You can exposed him and her on the busted and exposed video website. It is a video website for exposing cheaters, liars, fraud, scams, con artist, adultery, the missing and more. You can make your on video and put in on their website at http://www.bustedandexposed.com
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He cheated twice?
Do you believe him? I guess not by the guess not just by your question. You have to go with your gut instinct. You should also ask if you willing to live with this kind of behavior. Can you look the other way? You deserve to be treated right and respected.
Remember, it is not your fault if the marriage ended. It doesn't mean it's a failure either.
No, don't believe him or trust him until your instincts and your heart tell you that he deserves that. You have a lot of doubt here, and you should have a lot of doubt. He sounds like a sneaky guy, and he'll probably continue to be a sneaky guy. (Makes me wonder if he hides other stuff - like computer time, his cell phone, etc).
Once is a mistake, twice is taking the mick. I admire that he told you, but you have to think why did he tell you? If he has cheated on you, twice, then your marriage is obviously not something he genuinely is worried about losing. Otherwise he wouldn't jeopardise it like that. Do not trust him :(
What do you consider cheating if there is no sex. If he was just close to them and someone decided to start the rumor that he cheated I must be a whore. I am always talking to guys at work and I am married.
Anyways, if you have 100% proof that he cheated you should have left him the first time!
No, You need to divorce his dumb ***. Once a cheater always a cheater. Also when you and your husband took ur vow es in front of the priest and god and everybody else at your wedding.He runied it. So you need to leave him. He will keep on cheating on you until you do leave him or he leaves you.
Of course you should believe him and then you will just sit around and wait for it to happen a third and fourth and fifth time and you can just keep 'believing him' for the rest of your life.
most people call that ';being naive';
You are setting yourself up for more pain if you allow him to walk all over you like that. Sticking around after he has cheated and LIED twice, is like saying ';You can do whatever you want to me and I'll never leave';.
No you shouldn't stay with your husband if he cheated on you twice. Not unless you start knocking about with other fellas as well. Its not fair otherwise.
Your the only one that knows if you will be able to trust him again or not but if that was me the trust would be gone forever and our marriage would be over.
If you want to go through the pain again then stay with him. I think you know deep down that he WILL DO IT AGAIN, no questions asked.
Just twice, that's nothing stay with him and he will keep doing it.....
Once is enough to dump him. Leave. Now. Have some self-respect.
That's a great idea.
Sorry, but you my friend are naive and a doormat. Leave him now!!!
How can I try not to hate my mom and her husband so much?
I really hate my parents a lot. They get mad at the tiniest thing and I really despise my mother's husband. He thinks that he can run me and he acts like he's all superior. Don't even tell me that they are trying to keep me safe or whatever because I know that they're not.How can I try not to hate my mom and her husband so much?
Hate is a strong word. Do you hate them just because they get mad at the tiniest thing sadn he thinks he is superior? Or is there some deeper issues going on. If there is then you need to go to the school counsler and tell soemone. If not then unfortunatley you have to be there until youa re 18. Either way. At soem point in your lie you will have to move on and with out hate. if you continue to hate you will be an angry person. I used to hate my mother and believe me.... it was very ahrd to not be angry. I feel alot better now that I do not hate her. It was a weight lifted off my shoulders.
God BlessHow can I try not to hate my mom and her husband so much?
I won't tell you what you don't want to hear, but it's obvious that there are issues here that only you and your parents can face. Maybe both sides need to work on some things and you could be the one to initiate this. All parents want honesty. I have 2 boys. We argue and disagree but anger, not dealt with, is dangerous. I sense a lot of resentment in your words and finding someone, a safe and responsible someone, to talk to is crucial right now. Also know that we all go through ages and stages, and what really bothers us know really becomes less of an issue later because we grow up and learn each other and learn not to take things so literally or personally. Hope things work out.
I can't say that you will stop hating your parents any time soon. I wish the answer was as simple as just talking it out because sometimes the people we love the most are the hardest to understand. The best advice I can give is this:
The only person you can control is yourself. You cannot change the way your parents talk or act. You can only change the way you act. If you are responsible and follow the household rules, it will be easier to talk to your folks. You have a lot of pressures: school, friends, a million other changes...but so do your parents. They have to work to earn enough money to keep you taken care of. They have to make sure you go where you need and eat... you get the picture. Sometimes we forget the importance of just loving each other, being kind and thoughtful.
Why don't you take the first step at repairing this relationship? Maybe after dinner, get up and help with the dishes?
I remember how angry I would get at my parents. They did not understand me. Sometimes they said and did things that were mean. When I look back as an adult, all I see is that though they were far from perfect, they always tried hard to be good parents. They did their best. J
All your life, you're going to be around people you don't like, or who don't like you, so learn how to deal with it now. First, understand that because they support you (I assume), they have certain rights over you. Someone who gives you money can tell you how to spend it. The more self-sufficient you become, the less control they have over you. Become as self-sufficient as possible, and work toward being independent. Second, detach from them emotionally. Arguing or fighting isn't detaching. Living your own life and letting them live theirs is detaching.
You are in a tough situation. Talk to any other adult you trust to help you with this. In the end, you will be a stronger person for it.
leave when you turn 18 or emancipate yourself.spots female mask
Hate is a strong word. Do you hate them just because they get mad at the tiniest thing sadn he thinks he is superior? Or is there some deeper issues going on. If there is then you need to go to the school counsler and tell soemone. If not then unfortunatley you have to be there until youa re 18. Either way. At soem point in your lie you will have to move on and with out hate. if you continue to hate you will be an angry person. I used to hate my mother and believe me.... it was very ahrd to not be angry. I feel alot better now that I do not hate her. It was a weight lifted off my shoulders.
God BlessHow can I try not to hate my mom and her husband so much?
I won't tell you what you don't want to hear, but it's obvious that there are issues here that only you and your parents can face. Maybe both sides need to work on some things and you could be the one to initiate this. All parents want honesty. I have 2 boys. We argue and disagree but anger, not dealt with, is dangerous. I sense a lot of resentment in your words and finding someone, a safe and responsible someone, to talk to is crucial right now. Also know that we all go through ages and stages, and what really bothers us know really becomes less of an issue later because we grow up and learn each other and learn not to take things so literally or personally. Hope things work out.
I can't say that you will stop hating your parents any time soon. I wish the answer was as simple as just talking it out because sometimes the people we love the most are the hardest to understand. The best advice I can give is this:
The only person you can control is yourself. You cannot change the way your parents talk or act. You can only change the way you act. If you are responsible and follow the household rules, it will be easier to talk to your folks. You have a lot of pressures: school, friends, a million other changes...but so do your parents. They have to work to earn enough money to keep you taken care of. They have to make sure you go where you need and eat... you get the picture. Sometimes we forget the importance of just loving each other, being kind and thoughtful.
Why don't you take the first step at repairing this relationship? Maybe after dinner, get up and help with the dishes?
I remember how angry I would get at my parents. They did not understand me. Sometimes they said and did things that were mean. When I look back as an adult, all I see is that though they were far from perfect, they always tried hard to be good parents. They did their best. J
All your life, you're going to be around people you don't like, or who don't like you, so learn how to deal with it now. First, understand that because they support you (I assume), they have certain rights over you. Someone who gives you money can tell you how to spend it. The more self-sufficient you become, the less control they have over you. Become as self-sufficient as possible, and work toward being independent. Second, detach from them emotionally. Arguing or fighting isn't detaching. Living your own life and letting them live theirs is detaching.
You are in a tough situation. Talk to any other adult you trust to help you with this. In the end, you will be a stronger person for it.
leave when you turn 18 or emancipate yourself.
How do My husband and I get our Photography business name out there without spending an arm and a leg!?
We have our own studio and shoot weddings, grads, glam, etc...but we have no idea on how to market our talent? where can we go that's cheap? Any creative ideas would help thanks...How do My husband and I get our Photography business name out there without spending an arm and a leg!?
You could get a booth at a local festival or wedding fair and give away a free package. Do one free wedding and you'll get tons of addresses by people entering your contest. Then you can market directly to them with some type of discount.
:)
Good luck! :)How do My husband and I get our Photography business name out there without spending an arm and a leg!?
It is called marketing and marketing cost and arm and a leg.
Marketing can come in such forms as advertising, business cards, getting known at bridal shops and places like that.
Word of mouth - offer all your clients a rebate $50.00 maybe for any referral they sed your way that books a photo session. I did this in my business and referrals from an exisitng customers are the most qualified prospects. Send artfully designed postcards to them offering this rebate....it will work. If you send postvcards the postage is cheap! good luck...
There are relatively simple things you could do to get the word out on your talent. This time of year, there are plenty of county and town fairs and art festivals where you simply pay a small fee, usually $30 depending on the size of the event, for a booth where you can set up and shoot portraits. Get all of your gear out there, shoot and do your post work and sell your prints right on the spot. Include your business card or a demo CD of your work with a weblink to your website (if you don't have one of those, get one. Their cheap.) along with the image files you want to sell to them with or without the prints you make on the spot. PS Lightroom does weblink flash galleries and you can even burn it to a CD so any computer connected to the internet can automatically be linked to your website. If you do good work, your name will get out through word of mouth, which is the best form of free advertising you could get. Offer things like discounted or no sitting fee for first time customers (limited time), and maybe even referral discounts and credits. It takes a measure of flexibility and leg work, but when I get the equipment and the time that's exactly what I plan to do. It's simple and only needed to get a base clientel formed. From there your business can grow, but from where I stand and where I live it takes a lot of work. So, get out there and meet people, offer to do their portrait for free, if they like it, give them your card. People like free.
You have my sympathy. Everyone has a camera so everyone thinks they are a 'photographer'... and you are fighting that attitude with every sale.
I worked in volume photography for several years... and that was the most frustrating job I ever had.. and the poorest paying.
Many advertising companies have been trying to answer the same question. If you figure it out get out of photography and in to advertising. The only advertising that is free is word of mouth. It is also the most effective because its earned not bought.
Do some freelance work. Word of mouth is always the best advertising!
You could get a booth at a local festival or wedding fair and give away a free package. Do one free wedding and you'll get tons of addresses by people entering your contest. Then you can market directly to them with some type of discount.
:)
Good luck! :)How do My husband and I get our Photography business name out there without spending an arm and a leg!?
It is called marketing and marketing cost and arm and a leg.
Marketing can come in such forms as advertising, business cards, getting known at bridal shops and places like that.
Word of mouth - offer all your clients a rebate $50.00 maybe for any referral they sed your way that books a photo session. I did this in my business and referrals from an exisitng customers are the most qualified prospects. Send artfully designed postcards to them offering this rebate....it will work. If you send postvcards the postage is cheap! good luck...
There are relatively simple things you could do to get the word out on your talent. This time of year, there are plenty of county and town fairs and art festivals where you simply pay a small fee, usually $30 depending on the size of the event, for a booth where you can set up and shoot portraits. Get all of your gear out there, shoot and do your post work and sell your prints right on the spot. Include your business card or a demo CD of your work with a weblink to your website (if you don't have one of those, get one. Their cheap.) along with the image files you want to sell to them with or without the prints you make on the spot. PS Lightroom does weblink flash galleries and you can even burn it to a CD so any computer connected to the internet can automatically be linked to your website. If you do good work, your name will get out through word of mouth, which is the best form of free advertising you could get. Offer things like discounted or no sitting fee for first time customers (limited time), and maybe even referral discounts and credits. It takes a measure of flexibility and leg work, but when I get the equipment and the time that's exactly what I plan to do. It's simple and only needed to get a base clientel formed. From there your business can grow, but from where I stand and where I live it takes a lot of work. So, get out there and meet people, offer to do their portrait for free, if they like it, give them your card. People like free.
You have my sympathy. Everyone has a camera so everyone thinks they are a 'photographer'... and you are fighting that attitude with every sale.
I worked in volume photography for several years... and that was the most frustrating job I ever had.. and the poorest paying.
Many advertising companies have been trying to answer the same question. If you figure it out get out of photography and in to advertising. The only advertising that is free is word of mouth. It is also the most effective because its earned not bought.
Do some freelance work. Word of mouth is always the best advertising!
What character is most important for you to choose your husband(wife) ?
Integrity.What character is most important for you to choose your husband(wife) ?
Wrong section... this is not really a computer question at all is it?
Try 'relationships' instead.What character is most important for you to choose your husband(wife) ?
Has to know LISP.
This has nothing to do with programming and design.
To answer: he has to be smarter than me, and have an education.
Wrong section... this is not really a computer question at all is it?
Try 'relationships' instead.What character is most important for you to choose your husband(wife) ?
Has to know LISP.
This has nothing to do with programming and design.
To answer: he has to be smarter than me, and have an education.
Would divorcing your husband affect in any way a us permanent resident status?
if you are a permanent resident who came to america by way of your husband's petition would divorcing him affect your permanent resident status in any way? the husband is already a us citizen and so are the childrenWould divorcing your husband affect in any way a us permanent resident status?
Yes it does. I am going through the same situation.
I am a citizen and my (soon to be ex) wife is Filipino.
The rules are simple. You MUST be married for 3 years. You can file for divorce before the three years but you can not get divorced before.
If you do, your status will change and you will have to go backWould divorcing your husband affect in any way a us permanent resident status?
If you are already a permanent resident and have already been issued a card then no, you have the right to divorce him.
How about you divorce him. After the divorce is final, call the INS and ask them.
If you have been married more than 2 years you should have no problems. My girlfriend sitting here is from the UK married to US man. She said it is a 2 year probation period than after that you get a 10 year green card.
Yes, especially you are married to a citizen. Immigration bureau is very sensitive about people who solely uses marriage to get green card. Once you become a citizen, you can divorce any time you want.
Depends on whether the premanent resident status was conditional or temporary.
Yes it does. I am going through the same situation.
I am a citizen and my (soon to be ex) wife is Filipino.
The rules are simple. You MUST be married for 3 years. You can file for divorce before the three years but you can not get divorced before.
If you do, your status will change and you will have to go backWould divorcing your husband affect in any way a us permanent resident status?
If you are already a permanent resident and have already been issued a card then no, you have the right to divorce him.
How about you divorce him. After the divorce is final, call the INS and ask them.
If you have been married more than 2 years you should have no problems. My girlfriend sitting here is from the UK married to US man. She said it is a 2 year probation period than after that you get a 10 year green card.
Yes, especially you are married to a citizen. Immigration bureau is very sensitive about people who solely uses marriage to get green card. Once you become a citizen, you can divorce any time you want.
Depends on whether the premanent resident status was conditional or temporary.
Whats it like for a wife of a Airforce MP husband?
My husband is enlisting into the Air force as a military police officer. I wanted to get some heads up by other wives/moms that have their husbands also in the same career. I wanted to know general information anything from about family time, pets, moving around, etc. Anything would help! Also if your an MP in the air force if I could have some general information about the job that would be awesome too! I just want to hear the real stories from the people actually in it, verses the air force recruiters.
Thanks!Whats it like for a wife of a Airforce MP husband?
Ok, first I am not an AF recruiter. :)
First thing, we don't call our Military Police, MPs. They are all lumped into the general category of Security Forces (SF).
While I can't give you the perspective of a wife or mom of a SF member, I can tell you about the AF in general and a bit about the SF specifically, having spent a little time temporarily assigned to them.
I would first like to welcome you to the AF family. We are the cream of the crop when it comes to treating the family well, as well as our service men and women. Your husband can expect to spend the first two months in basic training. I recommend you write him often during that time, it is wonderful to know you have the support from home (I could never tell you how important it is, just take my word for it). After he graduates basic, he will be going directly to tech school, conveniently located at Lackland (just a walk across the base). While he is in tech school, he will be given his assignment. You will need to start thinking about everything you need to do to move your house to where he will be stationed. If he has an accompanied assignment, which is likely, the AF will pay for it. If he has a remote assignment, you are best staying where you are until he gets his follow-on assignment (a remote assignment is to a place where it is unsuitable for dependents).
When your husband gets his assignment, he will have a sponsor, a person of similar rank and marrital status to help with the transition to your new base. This sponsor will be able to help you with all sorts of questions dealing with the assignment and will be invaluable in helping you adjust.
As far as pets are concerned, that is your department... They typically go with you and can be expensed as part of the move (they are a part of your family). Some overseas locations have strict guidelines dealing with the importation of pets to their country. England for instance used to have a 6 month quarentine... I am not sure about now though.
A standard assignment for accompanied is 3 years, although you can put in your ';dream sheet'; at any time. You can even request not to be assigned somewhere else, but the needs of the AF does come first. More often than not, you won't move too often... 3 years is normal.
Deployments as security forces are possible, they typically last 6 months now, with a year between the time he comes back home, and the time he deploys again (unless he volunteers). Most of the places he would be deployed at are not directly in harms way. Qatar is a prime example of that.
The SF duties are mainly law enforcement in nature or Security related, guarding airplanes is always a fun (not) time. I can always give you stories about chasing rabbits in our vehicles or handcuffing fellow SF members to the chainlink fence, but your husband will be more than happy to tell you about those times.
Again welcome, sorry it is so long winded.Whats it like for a wife of a Airforce MP husband?
You can email me and I will be happy to answer some more of your questions. Latham_md@yahoo.com
Thanks!Whats it like for a wife of a Airforce MP husband?
Ok, first I am not an AF recruiter. :)
First thing, we don't call our Military Police, MPs. They are all lumped into the general category of Security Forces (SF).
While I can't give you the perspective of a wife or mom of a SF member, I can tell you about the AF in general and a bit about the SF specifically, having spent a little time temporarily assigned to them.
I would first like to welcome you to the AF family. We are the cream of the crop when it comes to treating the family well, as well as our service men and women. Your husband can expect to spend the first two months in basic training. I recommend you write him often during that time, it is wonderful to know you have the support from home (I could never tell you how important it is, just take my word for it). After he graduates basic, he will be going directly to tech school, conveniently located at Lackland (just a walk across the base). While he is in tech school, he will be given his assignment. You will need to start thinking about everything you need to do to move your house to where he will be stationed. If he has an accompanied assignment, which is likely, the AF will pay for it. If he has a remote assignment, you are best staying where you are until he gets his follow-on assignment (a remote assignment is to a place where it is unsuitable for dependents).
When your husband gets his assignment, he will have a sponsor, a person of similar rank and marrital status to help with the transition to your new base. This sponsor will be able to help you with all sorts of questions dealing with the assignment and will be invaluable in helping you adjust.
As far as pets are concerned, that is your department... They typically go with you and can be expensed as part of the move (they are a part of your family). Some overseas locations have strict guidelines dealing with the importation of pets to their country. England for instance used to have a 6 month quarentine... I am not sure about now though.
A standard assignment for accompanied is 3 years, although you can put in your ';dream sheet'; at any time. You can even request not to be assigned somewhere else, but the needs of the AF does come first. More often than not, you won't move too often... 3 years is normal.
Deployments as security forces are possible, they typically last 6 months now, with a year between the time he comes back home, and the time he deploys again (unless he volunteers). Most of the places he would be deployed at are not directly in harms way. Qatar is a prime example of that.
The SF duties are mainly law enforcement in nature or Security related, guarding airplanes is always a fun (not) time. I can always give you stories about chasing rabbits in our vehicles or handcuffing fellow SF members to the chainlink fence, but your husband will be more than happy to tell you about those times.
Again welcome, sorry it is so long winded.Whats it like for a wife of a Airforce MP husband?
You can email me and I will be happy to answer some more of your questions. Latham_md@yahoo.com
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Does a spouse need to meet any requirements if their husband/wife is applying for PR in Canada on their behalf?
For example, if a family decides to move to Canada and the husband has found work there before arriving, does the wife also need to have a job or is it just sufficient for her to stay in the country for the required amount of time?
Thank you.Does a spouse need to meet any requirements if their husband/wife is applying for PR in Canada on their behalf?
Each adult applies for Permanent Residency individually.
The husband applies for PR as a skilled worker/professional, then, if he receives Permanent Residency. only then can he sponsor the family. Sponsored Family Class immigrants are not required to demonstrate employment, since they are sponsored.
Alternatively, the wife can submit her own skilled worker/professional PR application, but yes this requires employment.
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/i鈥?/a>
Thank you.Does a spouse need to meet any requirements if their husband/wife is applying for PR in Canada on their behalf?
Each adult applies for Permanent Residency individually.
The husband applies for PR as a skilled worker/professional, then, if he receives Permanent Residency. only then can he sponsor the family. Sponsored Family Class immigrants are not required to demonstrate employment, since they are sponsored.
Alternatively, the wife can submit her own skilled worker/professional PR application, but yes this requires employment.
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/i鈥?/a>
Any ideas for a 1st wedding anniversary gift for my husband?
I know that the ';traditional'; 1st wedding anniversary gift is paper. But what's a really good gift for a hubby that loves basketball, golfing, running, the outdoors, etc. A real ';guys guy';. I would like to do something meaningful, but also something he'd really enjoy.
If there are any guys out there, let me know what you'd like or what your wife did for you!
ThanksAny ideas for a 1st wedding anniversary gift for my husband?
Well, aside from the VERY obvious (a trip to Victoria's Secret, dressed up and waiting for him...) He'd probably enjoy a golf outing (gift card, green fee pass etc) And, believe it or not, he'd probably enjoy it if you went with him and ';caddied'; or at least drove the cart and bragged on his play! What's your budget? That's very important.Any ideas for a 1st wedding anniversary gift for my husband?
I have had the unfortunate tel pleasure of being married for over 31 years now. Presents seem to be lost when you get to these high numbers. But alas, the first is very important. Get him a gift certificate for a local sporting goods store, such as Academy, Bass Pro Shop, etc. If that is his thing, then help him with ';his thing';. Of course, that also carries with it your support of his sporting and/or athletic activities.
I wish you luck, and always remember, the wife is always correct, and if not, remember, she is still always correct. If you have trained him well do help with the dishes, the laundry, the housekeeping, taking out the garbage and child care, then you have a ';keeper';, if not, it is your fault for not making sure the training was done in the first year correctly!
There is a good idea for your a1st wedding anniversary gift. Last year, my husband brought me a special wrapped gift for me. At the first glance, i thought it would be a ordinary dressing for me. But when i unwrapped the box, i saw a colorful portrait which is made from our wedding party's photo. It really touching boz it recalled my sweet moment in my wedding party. What a wonderful gift for me. If you interest in it, you can take a look: www.im-mi.com
A *******. A damned good *******.
Ok I am not a guy but here is an idea. Get him tickets to game (paper you know) A framed photo, book ( best camping sites ? ) fishing trip.hope this helped. Good luck
some type
of autographed sports thing
trust me:)
-Paulina Belucci
i LOVE making scrapbooks, so i think you should make a scrapbook of your relationship, and you can add little things about the sports he likes. good luck!
My wife bought us tickets to a pro football game. We went together and I loved it.
Massage....mmmm...
Get him a new golf gear or a hunting rifle for outdoors
a divorce lol, nah just joking
how about a years membership to his favorite golf coursespots bloom-
If there are any guys out there, let me know what you'd like or what your wife did for you!
ThanksAny ideas for a 1st wedding anniversary gift for my husband?
Well, aside from the VERY obvious (a trip to Victoria's Secret, dressed up and waiting for him...) He'd probably enjoy a golf outing (gift card, green fee pass etc) And, believe it or not, he'd probably enjoy it if you went with him and ';caddied'; or at least drove the cart and bragged on his play! What's your budget? That's very important.Any ideas for a 1st wedding anniversary gift for my husband?
I have had the unfortunate tel pleasure of being married for over 31 years now. Presents seem to be lost when you get to these high numbers. But alas, the first is very important. Get him a gift certificate for a local sporting goods store, such as Academy, Bass Pro Shop, etc. If that is his thing, then help him with ';his thing';. Of course, that also carries with it your support of his sporting and/or athletic activities.
I wish you luck, and always remember, the wife is always correct, and if not, remember, she is still always correct. If you have trained him well do help with the dishes, the laundry, the housekeeping, taking out the garbage and child care, then you have a ';keeper';, if not, it is your fault for not making sure the training was done in the first year correctly!
There is a good idea for your a1st wedding anniversary gift. Last year, my husband brought me a special wrapped gift for me. At the first glance, i thought it would be a ordinary dressing for me. But when i unwrapped the box, i saw a colorful portrait which is made from our wedding party's photo. It really touching boz it recalled my sweet moment in my wedding party. What a wonderful gift for me. If you interest in it, you can take a look: www.im-mi.com
A *******. A damned good *******.
Ok I am not a guy but here is an idea. Get him tickets to game (paper you know) A framed photo, book ( best camping sites ? ) fishing trip.hope this helped. Good luck
some type
of autographed sports thing
trust me:)
-Paulina Belucci
i LOVE making scrapbooks, so i think you should make a scrapbook of your relationship, and you can add little things about the sports he likes. good luck!
My wife bought us tickets to a pro football game. We went together and I loved it.
Massage....mmmm...
Get him a new golf gear or a hunting rifle for outdoors
a divorce lol, nah just joking
how about a years membership to his favorite golf course
Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
So anyway after I had my second unplanned c-section I didn't want to get pregnant again. So I made my husband sign a paper saying that if I got pregnant again (with his child of course) that I would get full custody of all the kids. So my question is, would this hold up during our divorce? (I'm not pregnant, I just want to make sure. ) If it helps we live in Michigan.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
Full custody after seperation, after death, after you give birth? And it depends. You really need to consult an attorney for papers like those to hold up in court. Its really no different than having him sign a bar napkin, just a better quality paper.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
What? My opinion is that contracting for custody of unborn, unplanned children is likely against public policy and so not enforceable. Are you planning a divorce? Have you considered having your tubes tied or having him get a vasectomy? That would solve the issue in a much more final manner.
..you're not serious are you?...you made your husband sign a paper that if you get pregnant you will get full custody of the kids?!!!! Oh my God!! is that the way you intended to punish your husband? for something that BOTH of you do?! why not tight your tubes?! that's better that sign a crazy paper between two ';in love'; people.
Yes
Such a document would be absolutely worthless in a custody hearing. Custody of children is determined a basis of ';the child's best interest';. Hence private or personal agreements are void as against public policy. When you and your husband do divorce, you will enter, along with your divorce agreement, a parenting plan outlining visitation, custody and child support.
Full custody after seperation, after death, after you give birth? And it depends. You really need to consult an attorney for papers like those to hold up in court. Its really no different than having him sign a bar napkin, just a better quality paper.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
What? My opinion is that contracting for custody of unborn, unplanned children is likely against public policy and so not enforceable. Are you planning a divorce? Have you considered having your tubes tied or having him get a vasectomy? That would solve the issue in a much more final manner.
..you're not serious are you?...you made your husband sign a paper that if you get pregnant you will get full custody of the kids?!!!! Oh my God!! is that the way you intended to punish your husband? for something that BOTH of you do?! why not tight your tubes?! that's better that sign a crazy paper between two ';in love'; people.
Yes
Such a document would be absolutely worthless in a custody hearing. Custody of children is determined a basis of ';the child's best interest';. Hence private or personal agreements are void as against public policy. When you and your husband do divorce, you will enter, along with your divorce agreement, a parenting plan outlining visitation, custody and child support.
My friend just joined US Air Force officer and her husband is in deportation preceedings?
Does Military can do anything to stop my friends husband deportation?My friend just joined US Air Force officer and her husband is in deportation preceedings?
No.
The military isn't going to help someone here breaking the law. Being a member of the Armed Forces will give them no advantage. He will be deported if he is in proceedings.My friend just joined US Air Force officer and her husband is in deportation preceedings?
No, he is subject to the laws of the INA and nothing can affect the deportation. Immigration laws have no leeway sorry
No.
The military isn't going to help someone here breaking the law. Being a member of the Armed Forces will give them no advantage. He will be deported if he is in proceedings.My friend just joined US Air Force officer and her husband is in deportation preceedings?
No, he is subject to the laws of the INA and nothing can affect the deportation. Immigration laws have no leeway sorry
When will my husband receive his first Army paycheck after starting basic?
He leaves for basic training on Oct. 27th...so I'm assuming since pay days are the 1st and 15th of every month, that he will get it around the 15th of November? Is that right?When will my husband receive his first Army paycheck after starting basic?
My hubby is AF, so it may work a little differently, but I would assume you'll get something on Nov 15th, but I've heard that it can take as long as 6 weeks for pay to catch up and be direct deposited into the designated account.
You'll also want to check for BAH and other allowances. My hubby started BMT on 21 July and we're just now getting our BAH on tomorrow's paycheck.When will my husband receive his first Army paycheck after starting basic?
That should be correct. My husband left for basic last Sept. 2nd and received a paycheck on Sept. 15th for the 2nd-15th. His Bah may take a check or two to be effective and his family separation may not come in until 30 days after he is gone... and they will back pay what they owe you for the first month.
Nope, more than likely, his first pay check will be on Nov 30th.
You have to remember, the number of new recruits each month, it takes time to process all the paperwork.
But he will be paid from day one,
So when he is finally paid, he will receive all pay up till that point.
He will hopefully get it then, but I would not depend on it til the 1st of December. It really depends on how many guys are inprocessing at BCT at that time and how backed up paperwork is. Good luck tho. :)
probably not. more like 1 December. it takes 4-6 weeks minimum for the first pay to hit.
Give the pay 4 to 6 weeks to kick in.
My hubby is AF, so it may work a little differently, but I would assume you'll get something on Nov 15th, but I've heard that it can take as long as 6 weeks for pay to catch up and be direct deposited into the designated account.
You'll also want to check for BAH and other allowances. My hubby started BMT on 21 July and we're just now getting our BAH on tomorrow's paycheck.When will my husband receive his first Army paycheck after starting basic?
That should be correct. My husband left for basic last Sept. 2nd and received a paycheck on Sept. 15th for the 2nd-15th. His Bah may take a check or two to be effective and his family separation may not come in until 30 days after he is gone... and they will back pay what they owe you for the first month.
Nope, more than likely, his first pay check will be on Nov 30th.
You have to remember, the number of new recruits each month, it takes time to process all the paperwork.
But he will be paid from day one,
So when he is finally paid, he will receive all pay up till that point.
He will hopefully get it then, but I would not depend on it til the 1st of December. It really depends on how many guys are inprocessing at BCT at that time and how backed up paperwork is. Good luck tho. :)
probably not. more like 1 December. it takes 4-6 weeks minimum for the first pay to hit.
Give the pay 4 to 6 weeks to kick in.
Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
So anyway after I had my second unplanned c-section I didn't want to get pregnant again. So I made my husband sign a paper saying that if I got pregnant again (with his child of course) that I would get full custody of all the kids. So my question is, would this hold up during our divorce? (I'm not pregnant, I just want to make sure. ) If it helps we live in Michigan.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
Full custody after seperation, after death, after you give birth? And it depends. You really need to consult an attorney for papers like those to hold up in court. Its really no different than having him sign a bar napkin, just a better quality paper.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
What? My opinion is that contracting for custody of unborn, unplanned children is likely against public policy and so not enforceable. Are you planning a divorce? Have you considered having your tubes tied or having him get a vasectomy? That would solve the issue in a much more final manner.
..you're not serious are you?...you made your husband sign a paper that if you get pregnant you will get full custody of the kids?!!!! Oh my God!! is that the way you intended to punish your husband? for something that BOTH of you do?! why not tight your tubes?! that's better that sign a crazy paper between two ';in love'; people.
Yes
Such a document would be absolutely worthless in a custody hearing. Custody of children is determined a basis of ';the child's best interest';. Hence private or personal agreements are void as against public policy. When you and your husband do divorce, you will enter, along with your divorce agreement, a parenting plan outlining visitation, custody and child support.
Full custody after seperation, after death, after you give birth? And it depends. You really need to consult an attorney for papers like those to hold up in court. Its really no different than having him sign a bar napkin, just a better quality paper.Is something my husband signed going to hold up in court?
What? My opinion is that contracting for custody of unborn, unplanned children is likely against public policy and so not enforceable. Are you planning a divorce? Have you considered having your tubes tied or having him get a vasectomy? That would solve the issue in a much more final manner.
..you're not serious are you?...you made your husband sign a paper that if you get pregnant you will get full custody of the kids?!!!! Oh my God!! is that the way you intended to punish your husband? for something that BOTH of you do?! why not tight your tubes?! that's better that sign a crazy paper between two ';in love'; people.
Yes
Such a document would be absolutely worthless in a custody hearing. Custody of children is determined a basis of ';the child's best interest';. Hence private or personal agreements are void as against public policy. When you and your husband do divorce, you will enter, along with your divorce agreement, a parenting plan outlining visitation, custody and child support.
How would my husband go about filing for split custody when the mother agrees to it ?
Ok well my husbands ex has agreed to split custody to my step daugher anyways I was just wondering if he had to go to court or they both could just sign the motion and get it notorized ( i cant spell ) and I was wonderinh how Mediation worked ?How would my husband go about filing for split custody when the mother agrees to it ?
Getting a signed and notarized document is good as long as you file it with the court in the state (or city) where you live. If you don't (as I found out) its just a piece of paper with pretty signatures on it.
Getting a signed and notarized document is good as long as you file it with the court in the state (or city) where you live. If you don't (as I found out) its just a piece of paper with pretty signatures on it.
If Hillary's a feminist, why did she employ private investigators to dig up dirt on women her husband abused?
Don't feminists stick up for, and support, other women? I'm having a hard time understanding why Hillary would seek to destroy the reputations of those poor victims.If Hillary's a feminist, why did she employ private investigators to dig up dirt on women her husband abused?
For the same reason that YOUR wife would check out any female that YOU were caught being improper with. DUH!
Inquiring minds want to know!!!!If Hillary's a feminist, why did she employ private investigators to dig up dirt on women her husband abused?
Just why do you think he 'abused' them? They had a part in it too, they were not children. Just how do you know she dug up dirt anyway. Someone else spilled the beans about Monica.
I'm tired of this topic being brought up in relation to Hillary. JFK makes Bill look like a monk.
This is the best you can do?
If she hadn't had them investigated, you'd claim she was too spineless to stand up to her husband. If she's left him, you'd say she was immoral for divorcing her spouse.
If she were a man, you'd vote for her.
Hillary is only out for herself. She's a feminist when it's in her favor.
Because she's a vindictive, jealous feminist.
Because she wants to discredit them. Her and Bill must look good if she wants to become president.
She's a feminist when it benefits HER. She'll be whatever it takes to benefit HERSELF. With Hillary, it's all about Hillary.
Get out of the 50s.
Feminists are a dinosaur group that doesn't exisit anymore.
About the only real group that has any cohesivness is the black group.
Isn't it obvious? She wants to be president. Do you really think she would have any chance at being president if she had divorsed Bill for being Bill and was running by herself?
Hillary is anything the voters want her to be as long as they vote for her.
FEMINISTS JUST FEMININISTS EAT FEMINISTS WHY FEMINISTS AND CHICKEN WINGS AND DONKEY SEX
WOMEN TOO PETTY LETSFACE IT
WOMEN..DEY WAS NOT ';ABUSED'; LETS GET THIS STRAIGHT BILL WAS A HOTTIE BACK IN DA DAY I KNOW ID WANT SOMEONE TO STICK A CIGAR IN DERE
Hillary is focused on winning the Presidency. She knew that to do so she had to discredit and silence anyone who accused Bill ( or Hillary) of criminal or unethical behaviour.
The way she chose to do this was to try to dig up dirt on any of their opponents or anyone who knew something which could hurt the Clintons and use it to blackmail them.
Hillary cares much more about her power than she does feminism.
Because she is a feminist who will abuse and trash any other woman who stands in the way of her man and her.
She's not a feminist. She just plays one on TV.
Hilary doesn't stick up for or support anything other than herself. She is a hilriest, the only thing in this whole world that she loves or gives a damn about is herself. She doesn't care about her party, her country , or any of us, just her ego and her place in the history books.
Feminists stick up for women - they don't stick up for awful women trying to make money by seducing her husband and recording and keeping details of the affair.
I'd hardly call her a hardcore feminist, as you're implying. More like a woman who supports woman's rights.spots bloom-
For the same reason that YOUR wife would check out any female that YOU were caught being improper with. DUH!
Inquiring minds want to know!!!!If Hillary's a feminist, why did she employ private investigators to dig up dirt on women her husband abused?
Just why do you think he 'abused' them? They had a part in it too, they were not children. Just how do you know she dug up dirt anyway. Someone else spilled the beans about Monica.
I'm tired of this topic being brought up in relation to Hillary. JFK makes Bill look like a monk.
This is the best you can do?
If she hadn't had them investigated, you'd claim she was too spineless to stand up to her husband. If she's left him, you'd say she was immoral for divorcing her spouse.
If she were a man, you'd vote for her.
Hillary is only out for herself. She's a feminist when it's in her favor.
Because she's a vindictive, jealous feminist.
Because she wants to discredit them. Her and Bill must look good if she wants to become president.
She's a feminist when it benefits HER. She'll be whatever it takes to benefit HERSELF. With Hillary, it's all about Hillary.
Get out of the 50s.
Feminists are a dinosaur group that doesn't exisit anymore.
About the only real group that has any cohesivness is the black group.
Isn't it obvious? She wants to be president. Do you really think she would have any chance at being president if she had divorsed Bill for being Bill and was running by herself?
Hillary is anything the voters want her to be as long as they vote for her.
FEMINISTS JUST FEMININISTS EAT FEMINISTS WHY FEMINISTS AND CHICKEN WINGS AND DONKEY SEX
WOMEN TOO PETTY LETSFACE IT
WOMEN..DEY WAS NOT ';ABUSED'; LETS GET THIS STRAIGHT BILL WAS A HOTTIE BACK IN DA DAY I KNOW ID WANT SOMEONE TO STICK A CIGAR IN DERE
Hillary is focused on winning the Presidency. She knew that to do so she had to discredit and silence anyone who accused Bill ( or Hillary) of criminal or unethical behaviour.
The way she chose to do this was to try to dig up dirt on any of their opponents or anyone who knew something which could hurt the Clintons and use it to blackmail them.
Hillary cares much more about her power than she does feminism.
Because she is a feminist who will abuse and trash any other woman who stands in the way of her man and her.
She's not a feminist. She just plays one on TV.
Hilary doesn't stick up for or support anything other than herself. She is a hilriest, the only thing in this whole world that she loves or gives a damn about is herself. She doesn't care about her party, her country , or any of us, just her ego and her place in the history books.
Feminists stick up for women - they don't stick up for awful women trying to make money by seducing her husband and recording and keeping details of the affair.
I'd hardly call her a hardcore feminist, as you're implying. More like a woman who supports woman's rights.
If both my husband and I go to Heaven one day, will we continue our marriage there for all eternity?
Will my husband and I be happily ever after - forever?If both my husband and I go to Heaven one day, will we continue our marriage there for all eternity?
Nope. The Bible is very clear on that matter. Heaven is completely unlike any Earthly situation. Your life there will bear very little resemblance to your life here.
And think about it... if there were marriage in Heaven, wouldn't that leave a lot of people out? What about folks on Earth who for some reason never get married? Would they be single forever in Heaven?
This biblical teaching of no marriage in Heaven shows is that there is no exclusivity of the nuclear, Earthly family in Heaven, and that Heaven is unlike anything we experience on Earth. We will ALL be God's children and all equal.If both my husband and I go to Heaven one day, will we continue our marriage there for all eternity?
The quote from Matthew 22 is misunderstood to be that there is no 'marriage' in heaven.
Marriage in heaven is different than marriage as it is understood on Earth. On Earth, it is possible to be 'married' to someone one does not love, to be 'bound' by a human legal contract instead of by the 'spirit' of institution itself. Such 'marriages' do not exist in Heaven for such an arrangement would not make a person happy, and thus nullify what heaven means to that person. If you are unhappy in Heaven, as the saying goes, it isn't Heaven.
Heaven might be considered the place where the highest form of happiness, that a being can achieve in existence, is made possible. For two people in love, such a form would not take the shape of being 'bound' to one another by a quaint ceremony but by simply 'being' of each other. In other words, their very existence (think Romeo and Juliet) makes them so bound, and thus no ceremony can either bequeath it or remove it (a marriage on Earth can be dissolved/nullified.) Such a 'bound' arrrangement is how angels are paired/created, and as such is how relationships are so defined in the afterlife.
If your a follower of Christ, He said none would be
married in Heaven, all would be children of God,
but Im sure you would be best friends.
Hey, here's the bright side, no more laundry
and stuff like that!!!
No expectually if you have to ask this question. You could have if you sought after God and heaven ';first'; and his righteousness and obtained heaven for yourself. No one seeks God, that is why everyone has to be separated and be like the angels in heaven. The children of the world can not be married in heaven, but if you find the Lords ways the children of God can be married in heaven. Luke 20:34-35. Children of the world are children of the devil. For children of God are not children of the world. THEY have to be like the angels. I am SORRY you did not find the way with your marriage. You will be like brother and sister in heaven....and on side note you might never see each other again, so learn to fear the Lord and put this world behind you. And on a happy note you will not even know because Gods glory will be great in heaven and you will have other joy in there.
We are given NEW life's in heaven, you might see your brother or you might not. You will not know who he is. THERE ARE MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN HEAVEN. I am sure with eternity we will talk to everyone once.
This is not a question of if but of when.. God assures the salvation of all..You will be together in heaven along with everyone you know now or have ever known..There will be no such thing as marriage.. Marriage is man's invention and was never intended to be either here or in heaven..God has no secrets about such things and He has given the world the answers to all our questions in the Conversations with God books available at your library and major book stores. His truths are especially important for everyone in the difficult times that lay ahead..Get a copy soon and be a part of the changing of our world..Don't wait too long to learn the truth.. You really need it NOW.. God bless.
Well the vows you took say ';Till death do us part.'; Many people have many different oppinions of this. Some believe they will be granted another chance with another person if so desired. For instance, if you are married young and for some unseen reason, your spouse dies before you grow old, you are ok to marry again. In the old testament bible there were provisions for widowed women to be taken care of by the husband's brothers.
There are also some religions that believe that when you die, your body will be transformed into its originally planned state. Adam before Eve or angelic. As Adam was, he was alone, angels don't have babies and so on. There is a passage that states we will return, no more given in marriage, which is believed to back up this belief system.
There are many that wait untill death or die soon after their spouse has passed. It is said they die from a broken heart and the separation is too much for them. Many believe they are reunited in death as they were in life.
Jesus didn't want us to stress or argue over these questions and answers but draw on this...
For the ones that seek out God's Kingdom and His righteousness, let them inherit the Kingdom. The moral of all this is the good approved by God will inherit everlasting life, a reward. The bad will not. It is even said to not divorce an unbeliever as you may be a part in their salvation.
What gives you comfort is your personal relationship with God and your own personal beliefs. I wish I could find that person that I wanted to die with. Sounds like you have a very deep love for him. ((hugs))
No, the Bible states that in the Kingdom there is neither marriage nor the giving of marriage. It isn't necessary as it will be the utmost of perfection.
You know what, we will never know until it is time to go. There can be a possibility, but then again, maybe no. It all depends on God and what he decides to do. But I believe that if u really want to be happily ever after, it will happen =). Always be optimistic!
no
Matthew 22:30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
BUT..it will better than earthly marriage.
The Bible says that everyone who was married on Earth will no longer be married in heaven, they will all just be like angels in heaven. Imagine the complications of someone who was widowed and married twice.
No-
Matthew 22:30
For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven.
No. Marriage is an earthly institution, not heavenly. You stated the limits of your marriage when you married - ';until death do us part';.
hell no , no nookey allowed in heaven only sitting and singing praises to god theory
Heaven is for ';swingers';!
No you will be as the angels. Christians are all the bride of Christ. There is no gender in spirit as there is in flesh.
The LDS church strongly teaches so.
Nope. The Bible is very clear on that matter. Heaven is completely unlike any Earthly situation. Your life there will bear very little resemblance to your life here.
And think about it... if there were marriage in Heaven, wouldn't that leave a lot of people out? What about folks on Earth who for some reason never get married? Would they be single forever in Heaven?
This biblical teaching of no marriage in Heaven shows is that there is no exclusivity of the nuclear, Earthly family in Heaven, and that Heaven is unlike anything we experience on Earth. We will ALL be God's children and all equal.If both my husband and I go to Heaven one day, will we continue our marriage there for all eternity?
The quote from Matthew 22 is misunderstood to be that there is no 'marriage' in heaven.
Marriage in heaven is different than marriage as it is understood on Earth. On Earth, it is possible to be 'married' to someone one does not love, to be 'bound' by a human legal contract instead of by the 'spirit' of institution itself. Such 'marriages' do not exist in Heaven for such an arrangement would not make a person happy, and thus nullify what heaven means to that person. If you are unhappy in Heaven, as the saying goes, it isn't Heaven.
Heaven might be considered the place where the highest form of happiness, that a being can achieve in existence, is made possible. For two people in love, such a form would not take the shape of being 'bound' to one another by a quaint ceremony but by simply 'being' of each other. In other words, their very existence (think Romeo and Juliet) makes them so bound, and thus no ceremony can either bequeath it or remove it (a marriage on Earth can be dissolved/nullified.) Such a 'bound' arrrangement is how angels are paired/created, and as such is how relationships are so defined in the afterlife.
If your a follower of Christ, He said none would be
married in Heaven, all would be children of God,
but Im sure you would be best friends.
Hey, here's the bright side, no more laundry
and stuff like that!!!
No expectually if you have to ask this question. You could have if you sought after God and heaven ';first'; and his righteousness and obtained heaven for yourself. No one seeks God, that is why everyone has to be separated and be like the angels in heaven. The children of the world can not be married in heaven, but if you find the Lords ways the children of God can be married in heaven. Luke 20:34-35. Children of the world are children of the devil. For children of God are not children of the world. THEY have to be like the angels. I am SORRY you did not find the way with your marriage. You will be like brother and sister in heaven....and on side note you might never see each other again, so learn to fear the Lord and put this world behind you. And on a happy note you will not even know because Gods glory will be great in heaven and you will have other joy in there.
We are given NEW life's in heaven, you might see your brother or you might not. You will not know who he is. THERE ARE MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN HEAVEN. I am sure with eternity we will talk to everyone once.
This is not a question of if but of when.. God assures the salvation of all..You will be together in heaven along with everyone you know now or have ever known..There will be no such thing as marriage.. Marriage is man's invention and was never intended to be either here or in heaven..God has no secrets about such things and He has given the world the answers to all our questions in the Conversations with God books available at your library and major book stores. His truths are especially important for everyone in the difficult times that lay ahead..Get a copy soon and be a part of the changing of our world..Don't wait too long to learn the truth.. You really need it NOW.. God bless.
Well the vows you took say ';Till death do us part.'; Many people have many different oppinions of this. Some believe they will be granted another chance with another person if so desired. For instance, if you are married young and for some unseen reason, your spouse dies before you grow old, you are ok to marry again. In the old testament bible there were provisions for widowed women to be taken care of by the husband's brothers.
There are also some religions that believe that when you die, your body will be transformed into its originally planned state. Adam before Eve or angelic. As Adam was, he was alone, angels don't have babies and so on. There is a passage that states we will return, no more given in marriage, which is believed to back up this belief system.
There are many that wait untill death or die soon after their spouse has passed. It is said they die from a broken heart and the separation is too much for them. Many believe they are reunited in death as they were in life.
Jesus didn't want us to stress or argue over these questions and answers but draw on this...
For the ones that seek out God's Kingdom and His righteousness, let them inherit the Kingdom. The moral of all this is the good approved by God will inherit everlasting life, a reward. The bad will not. It is even said to not divorce an unbeliever as you may be a part in their salvation.
What gives you comfort is your personal relationship with God and your own personal beliefs. I wish I could find that person that I wanted to die with. Sounds like you have a very deep love for him. ((hugs))
No, the Bible states that in the Kingdom there is neither marriage nor the giving of marriage. It isn't necessary as it will be the utmost of perfection.
You know what, we will never know until it is time to go. There can be a possibility, but then again, maybe no. It all depends on God and what he decides to do. But I believe that if u really want to be happily ever after, it will happen =). Always be optimistic!
no
Matthew 22:30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
BUT..it will better than earthly marriage.
The Bible says that everyone who was married on Earth will no longer be married in heaven, they will all just be like angels in heaven. Imagine the complications of someone who was widowed and married twice.
No-
Matthew 22:30
For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven.
No. Marriage is an earthly institution, not heavenly. You stated the limits of your marriage when you married - ';until death do us part';.
hell no , no nookey allowed in heaven only sitting and singing praises to god theory
Heaven is for ';swingers';!
No you will be as the angels. Christians are all the bride of Christ. There is no gender in spirit as there is in flesh.
The LDS church strongly teaches so.
Where can my husband and I plan our first anniversary trip.?
We are in Dallas, Texas. The trip is for about 3 days in late april. and I both enjoy a little bit of out and a little of in. Not fussy about that aspect. Any suggestions?Where can my husband and I plan our first anniversary trip.?
How about New Orleans? It's not too far and has some great culture and eating to keep you occupied for a long weekend. And as a bonus, you'd be supporting their economy.
You could also fly to San Juan, Puerto Rico and enjoy some time on the beach (while still using the US Dollar, which is taking a beating vs. other currencies).
A bit further, but NYC can be very romantic -- carriage rides in Central Park, climbing the Empire State Building, seeing a Broadway show, dinner in Greenwich Village, etc.
Happy travels!Where can my husband and I plan our first anniversary trip.?
San Antonio has a lot to see and do and isn't far. My friends went there from Florida and loved it. http://www.visitsanantonio.com/index.asp鈥?/a>
How about New Orleans? It's not too far and has some great culture and eating to keep you occupied for a long weekend. And as a bonus, you'd be supporting their economy.
You could also fly to San Juan, Puerto Rico and enjoy some time on the beach (while still using the US Dollar, which is taking a beating vs. other currencies).
A bit further, but NYC can be very romantic -- carriage rides in Central Park, climbing the Empire State Building, seeing a Broadway show, dinner in Greenwich Village, etc.
Happy travels!Where can my husband and I plan our first anniversary trip.?
San Antonio has a lot to see and do and isn't far. My friends went there from Florida and loved it. http://www.visitsanantonio.com/index.asp鈥?/a>
Next month, my husband & I are hosting a BBQ & Potluck and I am wanting some ideas on what 2 do for fun?
There will be kids that range from 6 months to 17 yrs, And of course us adults, Also, besides hamburgers and hot dogs, what else would be good to cook? And should I worry about side dishes, considering everyone( I hope) will be bringing something to eat . And what is a good time to have people come over ? And is it rude to have our pets running lose? We have cats and a puppy ( small size breed) who is very friendly, yet likes to bark. A lot.Next month, my husband %26amp; I are hosting a BBQ %26amp; Potluck and I am wanting some ideas on what 2 do for fun?
If you have the space you could rent a blow up jump house for the kids, we rented one that held 8-10 kids at a time (they come in all sizes) and as far as the older kids go you could maybe get some board games or something like that.
Food, you have to slow roast a picnic ham and i wouldn't worry too much about sides
Time, the earlier the better 10-11am-5-6pm get em in get em out.
Pets, its not rude to leave them out but the minute they get out of hand they should go (you dont want to make your guest uncomfortable)Next month, my husband %26amp; I are hosting a BBQ %26amp; Potluck and I am wanting some ideas on what 2 do for fun?
have a big pot of baked beans and as for pet`s ,hey is your house.Have a bowl of fruit for vegetarians and start right before dark so everyone can acclimate themselves to surroundings. Good luck and have fun
If you have the space you could rent a blow up jump house for the kids, we rented one that held 8-10 kids at a time (they come in all sizes) and as far as the older kids go you could maybe get some board games or something like that.
Food, you have to slow roast a picnic ham and i wouldn't worry too much about sides
Time, the earlier the better 10-11am-5-6pm get em in get em out.
Pets, its not rude to leave them out but the minute they get out of hand they should go (you dont want to make your guest uncomfortable)Next month, my husband %26amp; I are hosting a BBQ %26amp; Potluck and I am wanting some ideas on what 2 do for fun?
have a big pot of baked beans and as for pet`s ,hey is your house.Have a bowl of fruit for vegetarians and start right before dark so everyone can acclimate themselves to surroundings. Good luck and have fun
What is the greatest need to having long relationship between husband and wife?
Determination.... If you both are not only determined to go until death do you part, and are determined to love one another, determined to communicate and determined to be faithful, your marriage will have a better chance at surviving. NOW, that doesn't mean it will. Both parties have to do their part in the marriage and resist anything that would threaten the marriage. (Determined LOL)
So in my opinion, determination. :-)What is the greatest need to having long relationship between husband and wife?
Love, trust, communication....I don't think you can have a good relationship without any of these things!!What is the greatest need to having long relationship between husband and wife?
Never belittle each other, have little fights from time to time but not terrible ones after long periods of lull. They are equal to world wars.
Respect, love, trust, open communication and the ability to compromise.
Love, communication, and a time out. Time out helps to avoid arguements. You both can calm down and have fun together.
LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been married for 16 years to the same man. Its hard sometimes but you just gotta remember how much you love each other
Love, humor, respect, etc..
companionship, someone to share your LIFE with
respect for the other person
In Order:
TRUST
LUST
RESPECT
LAUGHS
So in my opinion, determination. :-)What is the greatest need to having long relationship between husband and wife?
Love, trust, communication....I don't think you can have a good relationship without any of these things!!What is the greatest need to having long relationship between husband and wife?
Never belittle each other, have little fights from time to time but not terrible ones after long periods of lull. They are equal to world wars.
Respect, love, trust, open communication and the ability to compromise.
Love, communication, and a time out. Time out helps to avoid arguements. You both can calm down and have fun together.
LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been married for 16 years to the same man. Its hard sometimes but you just gotta remember how much you love each other
Love, humor, respect, etc..
companionship, someone to share your LIFE with
respect for the other person
In Order:
TRUST
LUST
RESPECT
LAUGHS
Would your BF/husband ask you to have sex with others so they can watch to save a relationship ?
I have seen adds wanting this to happen but
not sure why.Would your BF/husband ask you to have sex with others so they can watch to save a relationship ?
No, he would not. And no, I would not. And if he ever asked me to do that, there would be nothing left of the relationship to save.Would your BF/husband ask you to have sex with others so they can watch to save a relationship ?
i would say no. first of all if they love them they would respect my decision. if not then it's over.
hell no ! i would not degrade someone that way !
not sure why.Would your BF/husband ask you to have sex with others so they can watch to save a relationship ?
No, he would not. And no, I would not. And if he ever asked me to do that, there would be nothing left of the relationship to save.Would your BF/husband ask you to have sex with others so they can watch to save a relationship ?
i would say no. first of all if they love them they would respect my decision. if not then it's over.
hell no ! i would not degrade someone that way !
Why does my husband play Dark ages of Camelot for hours and hours at a time, every day?
Is this something I should be concerned about? I am not into computer games at all. I feel like there is something secretive and creepy about this addiction. Is there? Or is this okay? He has been doing this for about five months now.Why does my husband play Dark ages of Camelot for hours and hours at a time, every day?
He is just overplaying it.
All MMORPG's like dark ages of camelot require a decent amount of gametime to be good.
I say try to keep him playing less, overplaying can just get him more involved in the game.Why does my husband play Dark ages of Camelot for hours and hours at a time, every day?
well yes it can harm his health and suffer bad brain problems and can have a high number to his glasses causing surgeryies and operations you should tell him to take a break or take him out somewhere for a little while
make me best answer please i need the points!
he is maby becoming a video game addict or just a nerd so try helping him with his problem
well hes surely addicted to it i guess..spots bloom-
He is just overplaying it.
All MMORPG's like dark ages of camelot require a decent amount of gametime to be good.
I say try to keep him playing less, overplaying can just get him more involved in the game.Why does my husband play Dark ages of Camelot for hours and hours at a time, every day?
well yes it can harm his health and suffer bad brain problems and can have a high number to his glasses causing surgeryies and operations you should tell him to take a break or take him out somewhere for a little while
make me best answer please i need the points!
he is maby becoming a video game addict or just a nerd so try helping him with his problem
well hes surely addicted to it i guess..
How to get husband exercised without letting church know?
my husband has been experiencing demonic posessions during sleep. I have seen a demon standing over me and I was paralised by it. once he was kickig me when I slept. He makes a growling sound that is not natural snores, more demonic.
I know he needs exercised, but he is a pastor and if it got out, people would think we were strange. how to get a confidential exorcism in SoCal area ASAP please.How to get husband exercised without letting church know?
Try a simple test.
Go to a Catholic Church and get some holy water from the holy water font from the tap on the side. Use an empty water bottle and perhaps mark a cross on it to remind you it is blessed so you don't accidently drink it. It might not be safe to drink. You might before bed at night sprinkle the bedroom with holy water asking God to bless everywhere in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
If your husband is possessed, he should react to the room being blessed.
The downside: he may have to sleep in the guest room or on the couch.
The answer that suggests asking help from the parish priest where you live or from the diocese in your area makes sense also.
This link gives an old magazine article interview with an exorcist.
http://www.speroforum.com/site/article.a鈥?/a>
MistodayHow to get husband exercised without letting church know?
Call the Los Angeles ArchDiocese and ask for an exorcist. Of course they'll have to check out his mental stability and determine wether it's actual demons or simply mental illness. After reading your posts girl, I have to say ';good luck'; with that.
LOL I am just sitting here chuckling about Jayden's Mommy having to call a Catholic priest, LOL LOL LOL.
If you havent contacted that other woman, send me a message ASAP
You HAVE to go to the Catholic church. As the wife of a holy man, you must know (think) of the power of being holy. A normal person can not do it. If you want to be discrete go to another city's catholic clergy. Just message me.
LOL @ Rev that is where my mind basically was too
Take long walks together at night.
Or did you mean he need exorcising? and if that is the case.. I thought the Church was the first place to contact? hmm shows what I know.
Have a good one!
Cinn =)
Sleep paralysis.
Look into it.
Reverend rules.
I know of one way to get your husband more exercise, if you are really interested in helping.
Sneak an elliptical trainer in through the backdoor.
As for exorcism, you're nuts.
You don't need an exocist. They are just quacks any ways.
Consult a medical doctor or psychiatrist, as I agree with you on one point: You need help.
This question cannot be real. I refuse to believe the question on the grounds of its absolute absurdity.
Some things only come by prayer
AND,
fasting.
I would like to ask not wishing to be offensive. Is He saved, are you saved?
exercised or exorcised? Only one is real
For exercise, try a treadmill or stairmaster.
Buy a treadmill and keep it in the basement.
Don't worry. People already think you're strange.
Make sure his rotoped is not visible from the pews
Get him a gym membership in another town
do 3 push ups every 3 months
Email me plz. I can and WILL help! I also live in SoCal.
See a doctor ASAP please...
Wii fit
Troll.
Try talking to him while he is sleeping
It's the kid doing it.... Haven't you ever seen The Omen?
you are so cute when you are stupid
I know he needs exercised, but he is a pastor and if it got out, people would think we were strange. how to get a confidential exorcism in SoCal area ASAP please.How to get husband exercised without letting church know?
Try a simple test.
Go to a Catholic Church and get some holy water from the holy water font from the tap on the side. Use an empty water bottle and perhaps mark a cross on it to remind you it is blessed so you don't accidently drink it. It might not be safe to drink. You might before bed at night sprinkle the bedroom with holy water asking God to bless everywhere in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
If your husband is possessed, he should react to the room being blessed.
The downside: he may have to sleep in the guest room or on the couch.
The answer that suggests asking help from the parish priest where you live or from the diocese in your area makes sense also.
This link gives an old magazine article interview with an exorcist.
http://www.speroforum.com/site/article.a鈥?/a>
MistodayHow to get husband exercised without letting church know?
Call the Los Angeles ArchDiocese and ask for an exorcist. Of course they'll have to check out his mental stability and determine wether it's actual demons or simply mental illness. After reading your posts girl, I have to say ';good luck'; with that.
LOL I am just sitting here chuckling about Jayden's Mommy having to call a Catholic priest, LOL LOL LOL.
If you havent contacted that other woman, send me a message ASAP
You HAVE to go to the Catholic church. As the wife of a holy man, you must know (think) of the power of being holy. A normal person can not do it. If you want to be discrete go to another city's catholic clergy. Just message me.
LOL @ Rev that is where my mind basically was too
Take long walks together at night.
Or did you mean he need exorcising? and if that is the case.. I thought the Church was the first place to contact? hmm shows what I know.
Have a good one!
Cinn =)
Sleep paralysis.
Look into it.
Reverend rules.
I know of one way to get your husband more exercise, if you are really interested in helping.
Sneak an elliptical trainer in through the backdoor.
As for exorcism, you're nuts.
You don't need an exocist. They are just quacks any ways.
Consult a medical doctor or psychiatrist, as I agree with you on one point: You need help.
This question cannot be real. I refuse to believe the question on the grounds of its absolute absurdity.
Some things only come by prayer
AND,
fasting.
I would like to ask not wishing to be offensive. Is He saved, are you saved?
exercised or exorcised? Only one is real
For exercise, try a treadmill or stairmaster.
Buy a treadmill and keep it in the basement.
Don't worry. People already think you're strange.
Make sure his rotoped is not visible from the pews
Get him a gym membership in another town
do 3 push ups every 3 months
Email me plz. I can and WILL help! I also live in SoCal.
See a doctor ASAP please...
Wii fit
Troll.
Try talking to him while he is sleeping
It's the kid doing it.... Haven't you ever seen The Omen?
you are so cute when you are stupid
How to support husband when grandmother dies?
my husbands grandmother is dying and I really don't know how to support him. I have only had 2 people I was close with die, and that was long ago as a child.
Besides basic support and being there to hold, what should I be doing to help him cope?How to support husband when grandmother dies?
Be there. Don't make him explain his feelings: he will when he's ready. be there for him but don't over do it. Remember that if you smother him, you may get your feelings hurt. Give him some space but know where he is. How to support husband when grandmother dies?
Oh my. This is a bad time. I'm so sorry. It's almost like a blessing %26amp; a curse at the same time to know when someone is dying ahead of time. Assisting someone with passing is very difficult %26amp; I'm assuming that's what is going on? When my husband's mom was dying I had to just learn by trial %26amp; error. The biggest thing to me would be to not EVER get upset with him during this process no matter what he says or does. Always ask him if he wants to talk. Don't assume that he does or doesn't. Just tell him you are there for anything at all he needs to say %26amp; then leave it to him. Men don't communicate like we do. If there's anything he needs to start preparing for like funeral arrangements or cremation you might want to offer taking over. There were so many people that needed to be called during that time. You could just offer to make a list of all family members that want to be contacted when she passes. I'm probably not making much sense but tell him that you would like to be involved. If you're not comfortable assisting her with dying (don't know if he's the only one helping her) then you could just tell him to give you anything at all that he doesn't want to deal with. I remember spending hours looking for songs that would be appropriate for the Wake so he didn't have to.
I'm really sorry. You'll be okay. Just support him anyway at all that you can.
Allow him to grieve. Grieving is hard because it really hurts - it's the worst pain you can go through.
The book ';The Courage to Grieve'; by Judy Nesbaum (I believe I got the last name correct, but I know the title is right) is very helpful. It describes what to expect and helps you work through grief.
I'm sorry for you both.
Whenever he stops you and starts expressing feelings about it, stop what you are doing and listen, otherwise, don't force him to talk about it and don't just start talking about it. Most guys I know express their feelings when they are comfortable.
I agree with the advice you have already gotten but I found an additional way to help. When my husband's mother died, he wanted sex. He is not good with words but this was a way for me to comfort him. I am saying that you should seduce him but be aware of any of his clues.
You just be there for him when he needs you to be...Do not bring grandma up, if he does just listen it the best thing anyone can do....Understand that everyone grieves differently, he may just want to be left alone, don't push him to talk about her.
Be there for him and most of all, just be yourself. He's your husband and ultimately, all he wants is you by his side. That is the best support you can give.
Just be a listener...and if he doesn't want to talk about it, don't try to force him to. Just be available...sounds like you are doing all you can do.
Dont talk, just listen. Ask him to tell you stories about her. Keep her memory alive.
remind him what a beautiful life she had.........other than that, shut your mouth and listen
Grieving is the price humans pay for love.
Besides basic support and being there to hold, what should I be doing to help him cope?How to support husband when grandmother dies?
Be there. Don't make him explain his feelings: he will when he's ready. be there for him but don't over do it. Remember that if you smother him, you may get your feelings hurt. Give him some space but know where he is. How to support husband when grandmother dies?
Oh my. This is a bad time. I'm so sorry. It's almost like a blessing %26amp; a curse at the same time to know when someone is dying ahead of time. Assisting someone with passing is very difficult %26amp; I'm assuming that's what is going on? When my husband's mom was dying I had to just learn by trial %26amp; error. The biggest thing to me would be to not EVER get upset with him during this process no matter what he says or does. Always ask him if he wants to talk. Don't assume that he does or doesn't. Just tell him you are there for anything at all he needs to say %26amp; then leave it to him. Men don't communicate like we do. If there's anything he needs to start preparing for like funeral arrangements or cremation you might want to offer taking over. There were so many people that needed to be called during that time. You could just offer to make a list of all family members that want to be contacted when she passes. I'm probably not making much sense but tell him that you would like to be involved. If you're not comfortable assisting her with dying (don't know if he's the only one helping her) then you could just tell him to give you anything at all that he doesn't want to deal with. I remember spending hours looking for songs that would be appropriate for the Wake so he didn't have to.
I'm really sorry. You'll be okay. Just support him anyway at all that you can.
Allow him to grieve. Grieving is hard because it really hurts - it's the worst pain you can go through.
The book ';The Courage to Grieve'; by Judy Nesbaum (I believe I got the last name correct, but I know the title is right) is very helpful. It describes what to expect and helps you work through grief.
I'm sorry for you both.
Whenever he stops you and starts expressing feelings about it, stop what you are doing and listen, otherwise, don't force him to talk about it and don't just start talking about it. Most guys I know express their feelings when they are comfortable.
I agree with the advice you have already gotten but I found an additional way to help. When my husband's mother died, he wanted sex. He is not good with words but this was a way for me to comfort him. I am saying that you should seduce him but be aware of any of his clues.
You just be there for him when he needs you to be...Do not bring grandma up, if he does just listen it the best thing anyone can do....Understand that everyone grieves differently, he may just want to be left alone, don't push him to talk about her.
Be there for him and most of all, just be yourself. He's your husband and ultimately, all he wants is you by his side. That is the best support you can give.
Just be a listener...and if he doesn't want to talk about it, don't try to force him to. Just be available...sounds like you are doing all you can do.
Dont talk, just listen. Ask him to tell you stories about her. Keep her memory alive.
remind him what a beautiful life she had.........other than that, shut your mouth and listen
Grieving is the price humans pay for love.
How must my husband and I split FMLA for parental leave?
My husband and I both work for the same company. The company has 10000 employees and we do not work for the same division. We are both eligible for FMLA and I understand we can't both have 12 weeks for parental bonding leave. My work also designates the first 6 weeks post partum as sick leave because they consider that period a period of recovery from childbirth. I think I should be able to take the 6 weeks as medical leave and then split 12 weeks of bonding leave with my husband (and I would personally not take more than 12 weeks total). Does that sound right? Secondly, Our FMLA year is 12 months long and I am due near the end of the year. Can I take 10 weeks of FMLA in 2007 and then take 6 more weeks of FMLA parental leave in 2008? In other words, is my ';bonding leave'; limited even though I have available FMLA weeks?How must my husband and I split FMLA for parental leave?
According toTitle 29, US Code of Federal Regulations, Part 825.208(a), it is the employer's right AND responsibility to designate time off as FMLA time. Also, per 29 CFR 825.208(c), the employer can designate other employer-provided paid time off to run concurrently with FMLA. Further, neither the FMLA itself nor the implementing regulations delineate time off for the birth of a child under the FMLA as being partially for bonding and partially for childbirth recovery. That is something peculiar to your company, and as such, they get to determine how they want to implement/enforce it. Essentially, under the FMLA, you get 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave for the birth of your child, for you and your husband to share, period.
However, since your employer uses a calendar year as the leave year, you could take 12 weeks off in 2007 for the birth of a child, and your husband could take a full 12 weeks off in 2008. Or, you could both take 6 weeks this year, and another 6 weeks next year, etc. (you have up to 12 months from the birth of the child to use the FMLA for ';birth of a child';).
The FMLA is an extremely convoluted law to enforce, with a lot of twists and turns and ';it depends'; sorts of answers. I recommend that you contact the Department of Labor's Wage and Hour Division, the federal agency that enforces the FMLA, and ask them. They have a toll-free number (1-866-4US-WAGE) and trained investigators who can ask the proper follow-up questions based on the give-and-take, etc., of your previous responses, and make sure you are well-armed with the facts that pertain to your particular situation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!How must my husband and I split FMLA for parental leave?
FMLA laws are extremely complicated and have recently been reamended. In short, you are entitled to 12 weeks leave per year (12 mos.) If you and your husband take it at the same time it would be split whether it's 6 and 6 or 11 and 1. There are no rules how to split the 12 week leave between spouses as long as it doesn't exceed the 12 weeks. You write or it appears you are saying your company offers a 6 week benefit leave for post partum? If this is a completely separate benefit you can certainly take the leave in the manner you wish to do as written. If it is not a separate benefit unfortunately you will not be able to take the leave in the manner you wrote.
i am undertsnading what your saying but the best person to answer this is your human resource personal to they can see what weeks you have eligible, i know in some companies they give more weeks off for every year you work with the company. so hr would be your best solution to the problem.
FMLA is very complicated. Does your company have a handbook that addresses all these items they told you? I dont understand about your FMLA year being 12 months long, I thought it started when you started your leave. Try doing a search on FMLA.gov
According toTitle 29, US Code of Federal Regulations, Part 825.208(a), it is the employer's right AND responsibility to designate time off as FMLA time. Also, per 29 CFR 825.208(c), the employer can designate other employer-provided paid time off to run concurrently with FMLA. Further, neither the FMLA itself nor the implementing regulations delineate time off for the birth of a child under the FMLA as being partially for bonding and partially for childbirth recovery. That is something peculiar to your company, and as such, they get to determine how they want to implement/enforce it. Essentially, under the FMLA, you get 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave for the birth of your child, for you and your husband to share, period.
However, since your employer uses a calendar year as the leave year, you could take 12 weeks off in 2007 for the birth of a child, and your husband could take a full 12 weeks off in 2008. Or, you could both take 6 weeks this year, and another 6 weeks next year, etc. (you have up to 12 months from the birth of the child to use the FMLA for ';birth of a child';).
The FMLA is an extremely convoluted law to enforce, with a lot of twists and turns and ';it depends'; sorts of answers. I recommend that you contact the Department of Labor's Wage and Hour Division, the federal agency that enforces the FMLA, and ask them. They have a toll-free number (1-866-4US-WAGE) and trained investigators who can ask the proper follow-up questions based on the give-and-take, etc., of your previous responses, and make sure you are well-armed with the facts that pertain to your particular situation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!How must my husband and I split FMLA for parental leave?
FMLA laws are extremely complicated and have recently been reamended. In short, you are entitled to 12 weeks leave per year (12 mos.) If you and your husband take it at the same time it would be split whether it's 6 and 6 or 11 and 1. There are no rules how to split the 12 week leave between spouses as long as it doesn't exceed the 12 weeks. You write or it appears you are saying your company offers a 6 week benefit leave for post partum? If this is a completely separate benefit you can certainly take the leave in the manner you wish to do as written. If it is not a separate benefit unfortunately you will not be able to take the leave in the manner you wrote.
i am undertsnading what your saying but the best person to answer this is your human resource personal to they can see what weeks you have eligible, i know in some companies they give more weeks off for every year you work with the company. so hr would be your best solution to the problem.
FMLA is very complicated. Does your company have a handbook that addresses all these items they told you? I dont understand about your FMLA year being 12 months long, I thought it started when you started your leave. Try doing a search on FMLA.gov
What specific behavior on the part of Mrs. McCain causes some to state she is ';afraid'; of her husband?
I'm haven't seen anything that would lead me to believe this. She chooses to accompany her husband on the campaign trail.
Which specific things in her body language or comments cause some to state she is ';afraid'; of him?What specific behavior on the part of Mrs. McCain causes some to state she is ';afraid'; of her husband?
Ha! Ha! I heard this,they are reaching. you think she is feeling the darts of satan sons pointed at her and her Husband. I have never heard such hate. We all need to be praying for our Country. God Bless you!What specific behavior on the part of Mrs. McCain causes some to state she is ';afraid'; of her husband?
I am not sure of the specific behavior but is known in Washington for having a terrible temper problem. Maybe that is the issue.
You know, if one suffers years of torture like he did though, I guess you might be a little cranky too.
I don't like the guy but I have never heard anyone say she is afraid of him (though I don't doubt you).
She seems very ill at ease on the campaign trail but that seems like her personality and more a reflection of her than him. I would not be at ease on the campaign trail either so to me it makes sense. She is not running and is not into politics and to get thrust all of a sudden into that life seems (start of the election) seems like it would take its toll.
I don't see it. But, it was hillarious watching Bill behind Hillary on her ';Big Win'; speach the other night. He looks like he would rather be any place but with her. And I would say if anyone should be afraid of their spouse it is Bill.
The Pony's answer made me laugh and laugh! But i do respectfully disagree.
Islam.
As to Mrs. McCain, I do not believe for even one second she is afraid of her husband.
No she is not afraid that woman is taller, bigger and has more money then McCain. $100 million + she has.
She's not exactly a helpless house wife being abused who can't escape.
IDK if she is afraid of McCain but I DO KNOW that America is afraid of that angry-looking Michelle Obama who is never proud %26amp; always looks like she has PMS ( Punish My Spouse )
Could be it is the same torment Nancy Reagan went thorough in the final days of President Reagan's Administration. She never knew what he was going to say--it always made her very tense.
She's not afraid of him. Now Obama on the other hand looks like Michelle could fling him across the room .
She may just be watching out for michelle to bust in the room with her guns drawn.
Are you on that white stuff again?Mrs. McCain is not afraid of her husband.
I haven't seen any picture of her next to him, and I don't think I have missed a grate deal.
maybe because he called her the c-word in front of a bunch of reporters and staff members?
She seems fine to me...but is McCain against the pharmaceutical companies? If so I admire that opinion of his...
well she did have an addiction to pain killers...maybe she dosed up to avoid having to deal with him.
She doesnt show much passion or love for him...but he is an old troll, I am not really surprised.
Oh people just jump on that because they see McCain's temper and then say he is a wife beater cause he has a bad temper.
She probably knows him too well
Instead of admitting he is emotionally out of control, she said he is ';passionate';. When asked if he has acted that way with her she said ';oh, no, noooo';. She said she has never seen his act that way. Now if I am going to be passionate I am going to choose to have stronger feelings for my family than anyone. So her answer is a cover-up. She said they both lied about their ages to each other %26amp; she thought this was cute. She said she told him she was 4yrs. older %26amp; he said he was 4 yrs. younger until they got their marriage lisense %26amp; the truth came out. Now anyone who has a pre-nup but doesn't know a person's age is a fool. I can see people do all kinds of things but these are the people our country will be counting on to make intelligent decisions. They are on an interview %26amp; everything she said is low class or phoney. She is overly concerned with her apperence cause he was a man from the past living in the level of survial. The physical lowest level. You have to rise higher to get to the level of the intelligent mind. So anything she says hurts him cause she isn't too bright...She has high blood pressure %26amp; had a stoke. They are so wealthy that she has had good care but you can probaby pick up somehow the thoughts she is going through. High Blood Pressure is a refection of a person who feel pressured in her life. Most of us would feel relaxed with just some money so she has other issues that most people don't have. She was in her early 20's when she met him %26amp; he was in his 40's %26amp; we think Tom Cruise is nuts. I don't care he is an actor not runnig for president. Actually the Cruise age gap is not nearly as wide.
It's the way she flinches every time he raises his hand.
She made him sign a pre-nup. He can't touch any of her hundreds of millions.
Does that say ';trust'; to you???
Which specific things in her body language or comments cause some to state she is ';afraid'; of him?What specific behavior on the part of Mrs. McCain causes some to state she is ';afraid'; of her husband?
Ha! Ha! I heard this,they are reaching. you think she is feeling the darts of satan sons pointed at her and her Husband. I have never heard such hate. We all need to be praying for our Country. God Bless you!What specific behavior on the part of Mrs. McCain causes some to state she is ';afraid'; of her husband?
I am not sure of the specific behavior but is known in Washington for having a terrible temper problem. Maybe that is the issue.
You know, if one suffers years of torture like he did though, I guess you might be a little cranky too.
I don't like the guy but I have never heard anyone say she is afraid of him (though I don't doubt you).
She seems very ill at ease on the campaign trail but that seems like her personality and more a reflection of her than him. I would not be at ease on the campaign trail either so to me it makes sense. She is not running and is not into politics and to get thrust all of a sudden into that life seems (start of the election) seems like it would take its toll.
I don't see it. But, it was hillarious watching Bill behind Hillary on her ';Big Win'; speach the other night. He looks like he would rather be any place but with her. And I would say if anyone should be afraid of their spouse it is Bill.
The Pony's answer made me laugh and laugh! But i do respectfully disagree.
Islam.
As to Mrs. McCain, I do not believe for even one second she is afraid of her husband.
No she is not afraid that woman is taller, bigger and has more money then McCain. $100 million + she has.
She's not exactly a helpless house wife being abused who can't escape.
IDK if she is afraid of McCain but I DO KNOW that America is afraid of that angry-looking Michelle Obama who is never proud %26amp; always looks like she has PMS ( Punish My Spouse )
Could be it is the same torment Nancy Reagan went thorough in the final days of President Reagan's Administration. She never knew what he was going to say--it always made her very tense.
She's not afraid of him. Now Obama on the other hand looks like Michelle could fling him across the room .
She may just be watching out for michelle to bust in the room with her guns drawn.
Are you on that white stuff again?Mrs. McCain is not afraid of her husband.
I haven't seen any picture of her next to him, and I don't think I have missed a grate deal.
maybe because he called her the c-word in front of a bunch of reporters and staff members?
She seems fine to me...but is McCain against the pharmaceutical companies? If so I admire that opinion of his...
well she did have an addiction to pain killers...maybe she dosed up to avoid having to deal with him.
She doesnt show much passion or love for him...but he is an old troll, I am not really surprised.
Oh people just jump on that because they see McCain's temper and then say he is a wife beater cause he has a bad temper.
She probably knows him too well
Instead of admitting he is emotionally out of control, she said he is ';passionate';. When asked if he has acted that way with her she said ';oh, no, noooo';. She said she has never seen his act that way. Now if I am going to be passionate I am going to choose to have stronger feelings for my family than anyone. So her answer is a cover-up. She said they both lied about their ages to each other %26amp; she thought this was cute. She said she told him she was 4yrs. older %26amp; he said he was 4 yrs. younger until they got their marriage lisense %26amp; the truth came out. Now anyone who has a pre-nup but doesn't know a person's age is a fool. I can see people do all kinds of things but these are the people our country will be counting on to make intelligent decisions. They are on an interview %26amp; everything she said is low class or phoney. She is overly concerned with her apperence cause he was a man from the past living in the level of survial. The physical lowest level. You have to rise higher to get to the level of the intelligent mind. So anything she says hurts him cause she isn't too bright...She has high blood pressure %26amp; had a stoke. They are so wealthy that she has had good care but you can probaby pick up somehow the thoughts she is going through. High Blood Pressure is a refection of a person who feel pressured in her life. Most of us would feel relaxed with just some money so she has other issues that most people don't have. She was in her early 20's when she met him %26amp; he was in his 40's %26amp; we think Tom Cruise is nuts. I don't care he is an actor not runnig for president. Actually the Cruise age gap is not nearly as wide.
It's the way she flinches every time he raises his hand.
She made him sign a pre-nup. He can't touch any of her hundreds of millions.
Does that say ';trust'; to you???
How is your husband/partner a great Dad?
I'm looking for positive responses. There are many questions that are so negative - Why does he do this? What do you wish he would do? - I'm looking for answers that will make me smile.
What does he do for you and the children that makes you say he's a good (or great) dad? What do/could you do to show that you appreciate him?How is your husband/partner a great Dad?
I think my partner is great as I am pregnant with our 2nd child and having a rough time at the moment - so not only does he do a 6 am - till 7 pm work day Mon to Fri - but he comes home, cooks, cleans, washes up, looks after our 3 yr old, does the washing and ironing, and now more recently (as I am suffering from hyperemisis - extereme sickness) will even clean my sick buckets out and rub my back when i'm throwing up!!!!
He is a great dad - as he talks to our son on the phone whenever he can during the day, he makes a point of reading him his bedtime story and always choses to stay home with our son rather than go out with his matesHow is your husband/partner a great Dad?
oh sorry you wanted positive answers.mine does nothing except sit and drink beer on the weekends. im lucky he gets off the couch to go to the bathroom
I know you're looking for answers from women but here's the ';dad's perspective';.
1. Let her sleep in while he makes breakfast for everyone. Sometimes breakfast in bed.
2. Takes the kids out to the mall, park... when she says she' tired and needs a break.
3. Encourage her to go out with friends once in a while.
4. Setup a ';puppet'; theatre for the kids and make the laugh.
5. Organize a day at the beach, or the museum...
6. Never forget that she's the reason you have kids in the first place.
7. Never forget anniversaries, birthdays... (you don' have to have kids for this one!)
I appreciate the same things. All in all it boils down to being able to spend time alone wit eachother and the family. It's about balancing life for everyone (including eachother).
Sometimes I just like to relax and watch TV or play video games (I'm 33 and we have a 3.5 year old and another on the way).
Marc
My husband is a great dad. Our work schedules are different from each other right now, I have to leave the house in the morning at 8 am to go to work, I see our oldest off to school about 7:15, then get the babies up for breakfast. My husband works from 4 to midnight, but he still gets up every morning to take care of the little guys when I have to leave. He spends the day with them, plays with them, bathes them, feeds them, all that. I love to see him with our boys, they all love each other very much.
everyone has two sides ,one that evrybody feel confortable with ,and one they complaint about .my point is , no one is perfect .my husband is very care about my children health and education ,something i apprecieted so much.he always check their teacher to make sure is everything is ok at school ,he also help them with their homeworks.when they are sick he bring them to the hospital .i have nothing to complain about his attention for his family especialy his children ,in fact i don;t need more from himbecause he really help me with the children
per our divorce decree, I appreciate my child's father taking him when he is suppose to
have a happy sunny day
When our daughter was first born, I had to have a c-section, so I couldnt move around too good, he got up with her and fed her when she got up, changed her diaper and helped me alot. Now she is 16 1/2 months old and I am the only one working right now so he stays home with her and takes care of her all day, but when he is working as soon as he comes through that door he wants our daughter and she wants him too. But I cook dinner and clean when I get home, and if she ends up waking up in the middle of the night he gets her, and sometimes he lets me sleep in on the weekends, but most of the time she comes in there and wakes me up.
he came home from work this morning and fed the baby for me so i could eat some breakfast and brush my teeth and still get out of the house on time. (he has to work the night crew this week)
he always seems to know when i've hit my limit with him and right before i blow up at him he redeems himself and cleans the house and does the dishes and cooks me dinner. sometimes it makes me mad b/c he took the wind out of my sails, but who can stay mad with a clean house, dinner and clean kitchen??
he gives great hugs and kisses me and tells me how much he loves me...often.
he is willing to go on deployment (he's a marine) for everyone else in the country and still make us feel like we are the most important people in his life.
sure, we get at each other on occasion...but we love each other and we make it work. it's easy to forget that stuff adn take it for granted. i'm lucky b/c i don't have 365 days a year with him, i have less days and so i appreciate them more:)
take care and i hope you smile:)
Wow..my husband took night feedings with both my girls when they were babies. He also helped with bathing and feeding (about half the time). Now they are older but he drives them places and takes them shopping. He actually does more then I do LOL
I am a firm believer that once both parents are home, no matter who has the job..both are responsible for equal parenting. One thing I CANT stand if when a father thinks he is doing his wife a favor by taking care of the kids.
i have been married for 21 years .we have eight fantastic children .my husband is so caring and hard working .he will go with out for the kids .but when he gets in from work and I'm tired he just go in the kitchen put dinner on no questions asked.as many of my friends envy me as he treats me with respect and so loving just sending little texts saying i luv you xx.we may not have the big house big TV but we got the big happy loving family and we all wouldn't change it .
My Hubby stays home with our new born while I go to work. I give him 100% credit because I know how hard that can be and for a man its even harder. He is a great dad and He knows I appreciate hI'm, when im making his dinner every night LOL!!!!
This is a great thread I'm writing this comment last, it is good to see men being men and looking after Mothers and Children and that is why most of you get my rating thumb up!!!
I'm a great dad successive girlfriends have when I look after their children told me, and I think kids are great but much as I would like to have children I have none, not even those I don't know about since I decided that the line of epilepsy that runs through my ancestry and has blighted my life had to stop!
So because, unlike many others who demand their right to have children as if they are some kind of possession, I thought of the rights of the child above and beyond my own!
So I think that makes me a great dad, children have always respected me when I have taken the father role because they see I respect them!
They know that I don't hit them, I don't rant, complain, and scream at them, I get down to their level and respect them as equals and so I get the same back! In times of dispute or when discipline is required I discuss their behaviour with them, discus as in two way dialogue, I don't rebuke them for being bad I discuss what it is about the behaviour I believe to be bad while letting them know that it is not them I am uncomfortable about but the behaviour. I believe that if you tell a child they are good the behaviour is bad it is a less confrontational and negative experience for all and the lessons are retained more readily and in a positive environment.
I am a great dad but sadly no children but the good news is that I haven't had any effect on the population! I'll never be married tho' since you Ladies all want children so it gets kinda lonely! ahhhhhhhhh!
My husband helps to take care of OUR kids. He doesn't mind changing diapers, even if his dad calls him a wuss for it. He keeps them so I can go out once a week by myself, in fact he INSISTS that I go out alone once a week. He plays with the kids, he helps with their baths, he puts them to bed at least once a week and reads stories to them. He tells the kids he loves them and gives them hugs every day.
My husband is a great Husband and Dad because no matter how bad of a day he has had at work, he comes home with a smile and free time for me and the kids.
Your husband is a great dad when he care about the children and he is responsible for teaching them the right things and is able to sustain a family.
What does he do for you and the children that makes you say he's a good (or great) dad? What do/could you do to show that you appreciate him?How is your husband/partner a great Dad?
I think my partner is great as I am pregnant with our 2nd child and having a rough time at the moment - so not only does he do a 6 am - till 7 pm work day Mon to Fri - but he comes home, cooks, cleans, washes up, looks after our 3 yr old, does the washing and ironing, and now more recently (as I am suffering from hyperemisis - extereme sickness) will even clean my sick buckets out and rub my back when i'm throwing up!!!!
He is a great dad - as he talks to our son on the phone whenever he can during the day, he makes a point of reading him his bedtime story and always choses to stay home with our son rather than go out with his matesHow is your husband/partner a great Dad?
oh sorry you wanted positive answers.mine does nothing except sit and drink beer on the weekends. im lucky he gets off the couch to go to the bathroom
I know you're looking for answers from women but here's the ';dad's perspective';.
1. Let her sleep in while he makes breakfast for everyone. Sometimes breakfast in bed.
2. Takes the kids out to the mall, park... when she says she' tired and needs a break.
3. Encourage her to go out with friends once in a while.
4. Setup a ';puppet'; theatre for the kids and make the laugh.
5. Organize a day at the beach, or the museum...
6. Never forget that she's the reason you have kids in the first place.
7. Never forget anniversaries, birthdays... (you don' have to have kids for this one!)
I appreciate the same things. All in all it boils down to being able to spend time alone wit eachother and the family. It's about balancing life for everyone (including eachother).
Sometimes I just like to relax and watch TV or play video games (I'm 33 and we have a 3.5 year old and another on the way).
Marc
My husband is a great dad. Our work schedules are different from each other right now, I have to leave the house in the morning at 8 am to go to work, I see our oldest off to school about 7:15, then get the babies up for breakfast. My husband works from 4 to midnight, but he still gets up every morning to take care of the little guys when I have to leave. He spends the day with them, plays with them, bathes them, feeds them, all that. I love to see him with our boys, they all love each other very much.
everyone has two sides ,one that evrybody feel confortable with ,and one they complaint about .my point is , no one is perfect .my husband is very care about my children health and education ,something i apprecieted so much.he always check their teacher to make sure is everything is ok at school ,he also help them with their homeworks.when they are sick he bring them to the hospital .i have nothing to complain about his attention for his family especialy his children ,in fact i don;t need more from himbecause he really help me with the children
per our divorce decree, I appreciate my child's father taking him when he is suppose to
have a happy sunny day
When our daughter was first born, I had to have a c-section, so I couldnt move around too good, he got up with her and fed her when she got up, changed her diaper and helped me alot. Now she is 16 1/2 months old and I am the only one working right now so he stays home with her and takes care of her all day, but when he is working as soon as he comes through that door he wants our daughter and she wants him too. But I cook dinner and clean when I get home, and if she ends up waking up in the middle of the night he gets her, and sometimes he lets me sleep in on the weekends, but most of the time she comes in there and wakes me up.
he came home from work this morning and fed the baby for me so i could eat some breakfast and brush my teeth and still get out of the house on time. (he has to work the night crew this week)
he always seems to know when i've hit my limit with him and right before i blow up at him he redeems himself and cleans the house and does the dishes and cooks me dinner. sometimes it makes me mad b/c he took the wind out of my sails, but who can stay mad with a clean house, dinner and clean kitchen??
he gives great hugs and kisses me and tells me how much he loves me...often.
he is willing to go on deployment (he's a marine) for everyone else in the country and still make us feel like we are the most important people in his life.
sure, we get at each other on occasion...but we love each other and we make it work. it's easy to forget that stuff adn take it for granted. i'm lucky b/c i don't have 365 days a year with him, i have less days and so i appreciate them more:)
take care and i hope you smile:)
Wow..my husband took night feedings with both my girls when they were babies. He also helped with bathing and feeding (about half the time). Now they are older but he drives them places and takes them shopping. He actually does more then I do LOL
I am a firm believer that once both parents are home, no matter who has the job..both are responsible for equal parenting. One thing I CANT stand if when a father thinks he is doing his wife a favor by taking care of the kids.
i have been married for 21 years .we have eight fantastic children .my husband is so caring and hard working .he will go with out for the kids .but when he gets in from work and I'm tired he just go in the kitchen put dinner on no questions asked.as many of my friends envy me as he treats me with respect and so loving just sending little texts saying i luv you xx.we may not have the big house big TV but we got the big happy loving family and we all wouldn't change it .
My Hubby stays home with our new born while I go to work. I give him 100% credit because I know how hard that can be and for a man its even harder. He is a great dad and He knows I appreciate hI'm, when im making his dinner every night LOL!!!!
This is a great thread I'm writing this comment last, it is good to see men being men and looking after Mothers and Children and that is why most of you get my rating thumb up!!!
I'm a great dad successive girlfriends have when I look after their children told me, and I think kids are great but much as I would like to have children I have none, not even those I don't know about since I decided that the line of epilepsy that runs through my ancestry and has blighted my life had to stop!
So because, unlike many others who demand their right to have children as if they are some kind of possession, I thought of the rights of the child above and beyond my own!
So I think that makes me a great dad, children have always respected me when I have taken the father role because they see I respect them!
They know that I don't hit them, I don't rant, complain, and scream at them, I get down to their level and respect them as equals and so I get the same back! In times of dispute or when discipline is required I discuss their behaviour with them, discus as in two way dialogue, I don't rebuke them for being bad I discuss what it is about the behaviour I believe to be bad while letting them know that it is not them I am uncomfortable about but the behaviour. I believe that if you tell a child they are good the behaviour is bad it is a less confrontational and negative experience for all and the lessons are retained more readily and in a positive environment.
I am a great dad but sadly no children but the good news is that I haven't had any effect on the population! I'll never be married tho' since you Ladies all want children so it gets kinda lonely! ahhhhhhhhh!
My husband helps to take care of OUR kids. He doesn't mind changing diapers, even if his dad calls him a wuss for it. He keeps them so I can go out once a week by myself, in fact he INSISTS that I go out alone once a week. He plays with the kids, he helps with their baths, he puts them to bed at least once a week and reads stories to them. He tells the kids he loves them and gives them hugs every day.
My husband is a great Husband and Dad because no matter how bad of a day he has had at work, he comes home with a smile and free time for me and the kids.
Your husband is a great dad when he care about the children and he is responsible for teaching them the right things and is able to sustain a family.
Everyone knows my husband & I are having a girl in March.What cute saying can I put on our holiday card?
What is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
Classic meatloaf, mashed potatoes with brown gravy and green beans. That's his favorite.What is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
steak and sweet potatoes on the gril
white chili
cheeseburger pie
stuffed shellsWhat is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
My BF loves so many of my dishes, but the one he raved most about was my fried chicken with sauted spinach, mashed potatoes %26amp; country gravy.
Steak, okra,tomatoes, and corn, with white rice.
Chili
Roast beef, baked macaroni and cheese, collard greens.
goat meat.
fish curries
Chicken Cordon Bleu
He loves this Roman styled Chicken along with a roman summer salad. Little Something I picked up off the Food Network
pizza.fried chicken.
chicken tacos, homemeade tortilla shells, with pico de gallo, %26amp; tons of cheese!
Tostadas with homemade shells.
Humble Pie and a cigarette
Stir fried thai glass noodles with veggies and prawns.
It covers up for the fact that I have no idea how to make simple things, like chicken, potatoes, etc. lol!
sheppards pie .
I am not married but my Boyfriend loves for me to cook Chicken Fried Steak, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans and Homemade Cream Gravy!!!!!!
Here is a good recipe for chicken lovers. You can use either boneless chicken or chicken pieces. Using boneless chicken breasts: Wash breasts with cold water. Coat with some brand of ';4 cheese instant potatoes';. Place on slightly oiled cookie sheet. Bake in preheated 400 degree oven for about 30 minutes. The last five minutes coat chicken with a good spaghetti sauce (Ragu, etc) and top with shredded white cheese mixture. Continue baking until cheese melts. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and serve with any side dish. If you are using ';bone-in'; chicken pieces. Bake for at least 50 minutes at 400 degrees. Makes great buffalo wings toping the wings with medium salsa.
My husband loves enchiladas!!
steak and sweet potatoes on the gril
white chili
cheeseburger pie
stuffed shellsWhat is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
My BF loves so many of my dishes, but the one he raved most about was my fried chicken with sauted spinach, mashed potatoes %26amp; country gravy.
Steak, okra,tomatoes, and corn, with white rice.
Chili
Roast beef, baked macaroni and cheese, collard greens.
goat meat.
fish curries
Chicken Cordon Bleu
He loves this Roman styled Chicken along with a roman summer salad. Little Something I picked up off the Food Network
pizza.fried chicken.
chicken tacos, homemeade tortilla shells, with pico de gallo, %26amp; tons of cheese!
Tostadas with homemade shells.
Humble Pie and a cigarette
Stir fried thai glass noodles with veggies and prawns.
It covers up for the fact that I have no idea how to make simple things, like chicken, potatoes, etc. lol!
sheppards pie .
I am not married but my Boyfriend loves for me to cook Chicken Fried Steak, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans and Homemade Cream Gravy!!!!!!
Here is a good recipe for chicken lovers. You can use either boneless chicken or chicken pieces. Using boneless chicken breasts: Wash breasts with cold water. Coat with some brand of ';4 cheese instant potatoes';. Place on slightly oiled cookie sheet. Bake in preheated 400 degree oven for about 30 minutes. The last five minutes coat chicken with a good spaghetti sauce (Ragu, etc) and top with shredded white cheese mixture. Continue baking until cheese melts. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and serve with any side dish. If you are using ';bone-in'; chicken pieces. Bake for at least 50 minutes at 400 degrees. Makes great buffalo wings toping the wings with medium salsa.
My husband loves enchiladas!!
What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
We are taking out Pit Bull to a certified trainer. The trainer is HOT! Blonde, nice bod, works out, perfect everything. The dog hasn't progressed at all. We are paying over 1100 only because he can't stop drooling over her. I told him I don't want the dog going back. While we were at the last meeting he said he would go to the next meeting by himself! OMG what do I do?What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
the dog wont progress unless you keep training it at home. practise what you learn at training
if you don't trust your husband that's a different problem altogetherWhat signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
Train the dog yourself. Also, no matter how much money you spend on dog training, it will not work unless it is practiced daily with dog. The more practice the dog gets the better it is able to learn what is expected.
Confront him about it..If he's into the dog trainer and he's not doing anything with her..w/e..you know just let it go..you can tell yourself all day that he's the love of your life and that you NEVER look at another guy..I used to tell myself the same thing..but the honest to God truth is that we all (even if we love some1 with all of our heart and soul) look at some1 else from time to time and fantasize. As long as he's not doing anything..let it go..but if the dog doesn't progress in a week or w/e..tell him that yall need to find some1 else to train your dog cause that woman obviously doesn't know what she's doing..lol..BUT..I just wanna give you a piece of advice if you're worried about him cheating..If a man is going to cheat on you..he's gonna do it..it doesn't matter what you say or do..that's just the bottom line..I hope this helped!! Take care!!
Grow a spine and stop acting like you need other people's advice on how to handle your marriage.
Call the trainer, tell her you are dropping the session as your dog is not progressing. Find another trainer and actually continue the training at home - lack of progress in the dog means neither you or your husband are keeping up with what you have learned.
As for hubby - that's up to you.
I think your problem isn't with your dog! I think you posted your question in the wrong category! Good Luck looks like you need it!!
She sounds like a genious to me. She IS a trainer. She trains MEN... to give her lots of money for the pure pleasure of just looking at her. For all you know she has never successfully trained a dog in her life. Beautiful women can get away with murder.
Your husband is buying a very expensive lapdance for your dog. and he gets to watch.
Pull the plug.
Grow up and take control.
We can't help you with your husband...if he's stepping out - you need to talk to him.
Good luck
wrong section.
Chill! If she is a hot blond, What would she want with a married man whose dog is not a good advertisement for her teaching? I agree about changing trainers. There is no reason why you should not be seeing results. How long have you been going? There are many ways to train a dog. Some work better than others. It seems to me $1100. is excessive. especially with no results. How long have you been taking him to the trainer? Not all systems work.
sounds like it's time to raise alittle hell towards the ole hubby! he's enjoying his training sessions too much! it's me or the dog trainer, baby. if he pics the dog trainer, sorry, you and your pitbull will be ok. just let that be a lesson to you. next time you pic out a dog trainer, make sure he's to your liking!!!!!
uh this sounds like something that should be under relationships:S only thing I can really say is gain confidence take control and uh train the dog yourself.
leave him
the dog wont progress unless you keep training it at home. practise what you learn at training
if you don't trust your husband that's a different problem altogetherWhat signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
Train the dog yourself. Also, no matter how much money you spend on dog training, it will not work unless it is practiced daily with dog. The more practice the dog gets the better it is able to learn what is expected.
Confront him about it..If he's into the dog trainer and he's not doing anything with her..w/e..you know just let it go..you can tell yourself all day that he's the love of your life and that you NEVER look at another guy..I used to tell myself the same thing..but the honest to God truth is that we all (even if we love some1 with all of our heart and soul) look at some1 else from time to time and fantasize. As long as he's not doing anything..let it go..but if the dog doesn't progress in a week or w/e..tell him that yall need to find some1 else to train your dog cause that woman obviously doesn't know what she's doing..lol..BUT..I just wanna give you a piece of advice if you're worried about him cheating..If a man is going to cheat on you..he's gonna do it..it doesn't matter what you say or do..that's just the bottom line..I hope this helped!! Take care!!
Grow a spine and stop acting like you need other people's advice on how to handle your marriage.
Call the trainer, tell her you are dropping the session as your dog is not progressing. Find another trainer and actually continue the training at home - lack of progress in the dog means neither you or your husband are keeping up with what you have learned.
As for hubby - that's up to you.
I think your problem isn't with your dog! I think you posted your question in the wrong category! Good Luck looks like you need it!!
She sounds like a genious to me. She IS a trainer. She trains MEN... to give her lots of money for the pure pleasure of just looking at her. For all you know she has never successfully trained a dog in her life. Beautiful women can get away with murder.
Your husband is buying a very expensive lapdance for your dog. and he gets to watch.
Pull the plug.
Grow up and take control.
We can't help you with your husband...if he's stepping out - you need to talk to him.
Good luck
wrong section.
Chill! If she is a hot blond, What would she want with a married man whose dog is not a good advertisement for her teaching? I agree about changing trainers. There is no reason why you should not be seeing results. How long have you been going? There are many ways to train a dog. Some work better than others. It seems to me $1100. is excessive. especially with no results. How long have you been taking him to the trainer? Not all systems work.
sounds like it's time to raise alittle hell towards the ole hubby! he's enjoying his training sessions too much! it's me or the dog trainer, baby. if he pics the dog trainer, sorry, you and your pitbull will be ok. just let that be a lesson to you. next time you pic out a dog trainer, make sure he's to your liking!!!!!
uh this sounds like something that should be under relationships:S only thing I can really say is gain confidence take control and uh train the dog yourself.
leave him
I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
The date is Sat. 10/27/07 and I really need hall places, bar rentals, etc. We would like to have it around he Worcester, MA area.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Worcester, MA?
I was gonna say the Brassrail in Toronto.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Massachusetts is nortorious for the witch burning trials back in the 1600's, so I'm sure that there are lots of locations that would make for a spooky party theme. You might want to look up historical places that are also easily rented for an evening of supernatural fun. Plan a paranormal scavanger hunt starting at another location and ending up at your party location. Get lots of dry ice to make ';fog';. Create your own haunted house, invite a local celebrity psychic to do tours or plan a tour of a local cemetary. Depending on your budget, set up ';booths'; where you have a fortune teller, a tarot reader, an aura interpreter and someone that can tell good ghost stories. If you're on a tight budget, rent a location that has a past, look up the history and have everyone come in costume that honors that place's previous owners etc. And, serve lots of good food!
A BARN! YOU CAN FIX UP AN OLD BARN FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING....ESPECIALLY FOR A HALLOWEEN PARTY/BIRTHDAY.
http://cg.channel.aol.com/halloween-part鈥?/a>
http://www.eventective.com/meeting_weddi鈥?/a>
http://www.thegreatevent.com/content/loc鈥?/a>
http://www.wedj.com/wedj.nsf/stateSearch鈥?/a>
rent one of those old spooky mansions.
Worcester, MA?
I was gonna say the Brassrail in Toronto.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Massachusetts is nortorious for the witch burning trials back in the 1600's, so I'm sure that there are lots of locations that would make for a spooky party theme. You might want to look up historical places that are also easily rented for an evening of supernatural fun. Plan a paranormal scavanger hunt starting at another location and ending up at your party location. Get lots of dry ice to make ';fog';. Create your own haunted house, invite a local celebrity psychic to do tours or plan a tour of a local cemetary. Depending on your budget, set up ';booths'; where you have a fortune teller, a tarot reader, an aura interpreter and someone that can tell good ghost stories. If you're on a tight budget, rent a location that has a past, look up the history and have everyone come in costume that honors that place's previous owners etc. And, serve lots of good food!
A BARN! YOU CAN FIX UP AN OLD BARN FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING....ESPECIALLY FOR A HALLOWEEN PARTY/BIRTHDAY.
http://cg.channel.aol.com/halloween-part鈥?/a>
http://www.eventective.com/meeting_weddi鈥?/a>
http://www.thegreatevent.com/content/loc鈥?/a>
http://www.wedj.com/wedj.nsf/stateSearch鈥?/a>
rent one of those old spooky mansions.
Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
She also doesn't like other men but doesn't mind other woman.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
Because cats are evil. I recommend getting a dog.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
that's really funny!! my husband would agree with the best answer!
Did you socialize your cat when she was a kitten. If not that would explain why she only likes you and your husband. I have a cat that hides when ever when have company. When she was a baby we were anti-social, so she doesn't like people coming over. I would suggest buying cat treats, then have your most patient friend sit down and try to coax your kitty to take the treat. After she is comfortable with this friend have other try to give her treats. Pretty soon she will associate company with treats, and she will love it when you have guests.
My muted calico is so shy that altho I'vehad her since August 2000, my best friend has seen her only twice--once thru a window, %26amp; once down a hall from about 20 feet away. She hides whenever there is someone else in the house %26amp; only shows herself to her ';brother'; %26amp; me.
Because she is a cat. Cats just act strange sometimes, I know mine does.
calico cats are like this i find,and they sulk lots to
calico cats are generally man or woman oriented not both. And they ussually have alot of attitude.
I have a Calico and she is a bit flaky, but lovable. She is skittish around other people, but entirely comfortable with me and my spouse. She is very mouthy too and wants things done her way. When our alarm clock goes off, she gets on our dresser and starts throwing things off of it or rips up the rug to wake us up to feed her. She also like to challenge the dogs by getting really close and staring at them. They freak out and she walks away with triumph. Maybe it's just the breed.
Because cats are evil. I recommend getting a dog.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
that's really funny!! my husband would agree with the best answer!
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Did you socialize your cat when she was a kitten. If not that would explain why she only likes you and your husband. I have a cat that hides when ever when have company. When she was a baby we were anti-social, so she doesn't like people coming over. I would suggest buying cat treats, then have your most patient friend sit down and try to coax your kitty to take the treat. After she is comfortable with this friend have other try to give her treats. Pretty soon she will associate company with treats, and she will love it when you have guests.
My muted calico is so shy that altho I'vehad her since August 2000, my best friend has seen her only twice--once thru a window, %26amp; once down a hall from about 20 feet away. She hides whenever there is someone else in the house %26amp; only shows herself to her ';brother'; %26amp; me.
Because she is a cat. Cats just act strange sometimes, I know mine does.
calico cats are like this i find,and they sulk lots to
calico cats are generally man or woman oriented not both. And they ussually have alot of attitude.
I have a Calico and she is a bit flaky, but lovable. She is skittish around other people, but entirely comfortable with me and my spouse. She is very mouthy too and wants things done her way. When our alarm clock goes off, she gets on our dresser and starts throwing things off of it or rips up the rug to wake us up to feed her. She also like to challenge the dogs by getting really close and staring at them. They freak out and she walks away with triumph. Maybe it's just the breed.
What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
How many keystroke should a good piano have? What is a good height for a yamaha piano? What should we be looking out for in a piano? At the moment we have yamaha in mind and my husband thinks it is easier to sell out later because of the brand's name. We have 3 girls age 14, 13 and 7years old that would like to play piano.
We can't afford an expansive one, we are looking at $2000-$2500 AUS$.What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Sure, Yamaha is fine. It's not the only good one available, shop a bit. But you really should look at the want ads or CraigsList and even check piano stores for a used model. You should be able to find one that's ';good as new'; and you'll save money. But before you go shopping ask yourself why your husband wants the Yamaha 鈥?you say because the brand name will be easy to sell in future. Yet you say you have three girls who want to play. Sounds like maybe he has less faith in the longevity of their interests than you do. Who is it that really wants them to play piano?? I find it odd that all three kids would have a burning desire to play piano ... but I've been wrong before. All I'm really saying is that you give us some clues that this expensive purchase may not be a real solid decision. Time to evaluate more than the cost of 88 keys on a box, eh?What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Well a used piano is probabbly smart, there are several brands though that are good check out these
Schimmel -
Petrof
Kawai
Sauter
ect.
But maybe your kids would like to play with headphones on or when you sleep or anything, maybe turn the volume down and things... so! there is a possibility of a digital Piano! because digital pianos dont have to be tuned and are execellent for begginers.
Yamha makes them
and KAwai makes them The Kawai CA series are a good choice and the Yamha CLP 370 and up is also worth a look, check them out and if you dont like the idea of digital piano try to look for used pianos
I would only add the higher the upright, the better the tone quality (longer strings, less crossover on the frame), the less often it goes out of tune, the higher the resale value.
If you are buying second hand from an independent seller, it is well worth the additional expense to have an independently chosen technician look at it and give you his assessment.
Best, Petr B.
Don't just go for yamaha because they're the top brand, a used piano is probably smarter, a yamaha upright is about 1000 pounds in england, I bought my used chalen piano for much cheaper and it's great, for 300 pounds :)
surely yamaha is the best as u're a beginner, and at ur price. and there's a vast range of them, just go to the shop and ask for them
an upright piano would be nice.... I suggest that you go to their store %26amp; see if some of their pianos suit your taste %26amp; your budget...
^_^ good luck^_^
We can't afford an expansive one, we are looking at $2000-$2500 AUS$.What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Sure, Yamaha is fine. It's not the only good one available, shop a bit. But you really should look at the want ads or CraigsList and even check piano stores for a used model. You should be able to find one that's ';good as new'; and you'll save money. But before you go shopping ask yourself why your husband wants the Yamaha 鈥?you say because the brand name will be easy to sell in future. Yet you say you have three girls who want to play. Sounds like maybe he has less faith in the longevity of their interests than you do. Who is it that really wants them to play piano?? I find it odd that all three kids would have a burning desire to play piano ... but I've been wrong before. All I'm really saying is that you give us some clues that this expensive purchase may not be a real solid decision. Time to evaluate more than the cost of 88 keys on a box, eh?What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Well a used piano is probabbly smart, there are several brands though that are good check out these
Schimmel -
Petrof
Kawai
Sauter
ect.
But maybe your kids would like to play with headphones on or when you sleep or anything, maybe turn the volume down and things... so! there is a possibility of a digital Piano! because digital pianos dont have to be tuned and are execellent for begginers.
Yamha makes them
and KAwai makes them The Kawai CA series are a good choice and the Yamha CLP 370 and up is also worth a look, check them out and if you dont like the idea of digital piano try to look for used pianos
I would only add the higher the upright, the better the tone quality (longer strings, less crossover on the frame), the less often it goes out of tune, the higher the resale value.
If you are buying second hand from an independent seller, it is well worth the additional expense to have an independently chosen technician look at it and give you his assessment.
Best, Petr B.
Don't just go for yamaha because they're the top brand, a used piano is probably smarter, a yamaha upright is about 1000 pounds in england, I bought my used chalen piano for much cheaper and it's great, for 300 pounds :)
surely yamaha is the best as u're a beginner, and at ur price. and there's a vast range of them, just go to the shop and ask for them
an upright piano would be nice.... I suggest that you go to their store %26amp; see if some of their pianos suit your taste %26amp; your budget...
^_^ good luck^_^
Everyone knows my husband & I are having a girl in March.What cute saying can I put on our holiday card?
What is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
Classic meatloaf, mashed potatoes with brown gravy and green beans. That's his favorite.What is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
steak and sweet potatoes on the gril
white chili
cheeseburger pie
stuffed shellsWhat is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
My BF loves so many of my dishes, but the one he raved most about was my fried chicken with sauted spinach, mashed potatoes %26amp; country gravy.
Steak, okra,tomatoes, and corn, with white rice.
Chili
Roast beef, baked macaroni and cheese, collard greens.
goat meat.
fish curries
Chicken Cordon Bleu
He loves this Roman styled Chicken along with a roman summer salad. Little Something I picked up off the Food Network
pizza.fried chicken.
chicken tacos, homemeade tortilla shells, with pico de gallo, %26amp; tons of cheese!
Tostadas with homemade shells.
Humble Pie and a cigarette
Stir fried thai glass noodles with veggies and prawns.
It covers up for the fact that I have no idea how to make simple things, like chicken, potatoes, etc. lol!
sheppards pie .
I am not married but my Boyfriend loves for me to cook Chicken Fried Steak, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans and Homemade Cream Gravy!!!!!!
Here is a good recipe for chicken lovers. You can use either boneless chicken or chicken pieces. Using boneless chicken breasts: Wash breasts with cold water. Coat with some brand of ';4 cheese instant potatoes';. Place on slightly oiled cookie sheet. Bake in preheated 400 degree oven for about 30 minutes. The last five minutes coat chicken with a good spaghetti sauce (Ragu, etc) and top with shredded white cheese mixture. Continue baking until cheese melts. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and serve with any side dish. If you are using ';bone-in'; chicken pieces. Bake for at least 50 minutes at 400 degrees. Makes great buffalo wings toping the wings with medium salsa.
My husband loves enchiladas!!
steak and sweet potatoes on the gril
white chili
cheeseburger pie
stuffed shellsWhat is your husband's favorite meal that you make?
My BF loves so many of my dishes, but the one he raved most about was my fried chicken with sauted spinach, mashed potatoes %26amp; country gravy.
Steak, okra,tomatoes, and corn, with white rice.
Chili
Roast beef, baked macaroni and cheese, collard greens.
goat meat.
fish curries
Chicken Cordon Bleu
He loves this Roman styled Chicken along with a roman summer salad. Little Something I picked up off the Food Network
pizza.fried chicken.
chicken tacos, homemeade tortilla shells, with pico de gallo, %26amp; tons of cheese!
Tostadas with homemade shells.
Humble Pie and a cigarette
Stir fried thai glass noodles with veggies and prawns.
It covers up for the fact that I have no idea how to make simple things, like chicken, potatoes, etc. lol!
sheppards pie .
I am not married but my Boyfriend loves for me to cook Chicken Fried Steak, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans and Homemade Cream Gravy!!!!!!
Here is a good recipe for chicken lovers. You can use either boneless chicken or chicken pieces. Using boneless chicken breasts: Wash breasts with cold water. Coat with some brand of ';4 cheese instant potatoes';. Place on slightly oiled cookie sheet. Bake in preheated 400 degree oven for about 30 minutes. The last five minutes coat chicken with a good spaghetti sauce (Ragu, etc) and top with shredded white cheese mixture. Continue baking until cheese melts. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and serve with any side dish. If you are using ';bone-in'; chicken pieces. Bake for at least 50 minutes at 400 degrees. Makes great buffalo wings toping the wings with medium salsa.
My husband loves enchiladas!!
What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
We are taking out Pit Bull to a certified trainer. The trainer is HOT! Blonde, nice bod, works out, perfect everything. The dog hasn't progressed at all. We are paying over 1100 only because he can't stop drooling over her. I told him I don't want the dog going back. While we were at the last meeting he said he would go to the next meeting by himself! OMG what do I do?What signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
leave himWhat signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
Grow up and take control.
We can't help you with your husband...if he's stepping out - you need to talk to him.
Good luck
Train the dog yourself. Also, no matter how much money you spend on dog training, it will not work unless it is practiced daily with dog. The more practice the dog gets the better it is able to learn what is expected.
Chill! If she is a hot blond, What would she want with a married man whose dog is not a good advertisement for her teaching? I agree about changing trainers. There is no reason why you should not be seeing results. How long have you been going? There are many ways to train a dog. Some work better than others. It seems to me $1100. is excessive. especially with no results. How long have you been taking him to the trainer? Not all systems work.
Grow a spine and stop acting like you need other people's advice on how to handle your marriage.
Call the trainer, tell her you are dropping the session as your dog is not progressing. Find another trainer and actually continue the training at home - lack of progress in the dog means neither you or your husband are keeping up with what you have learned.
As for hubby - that's up to you.
sounds like it's time to raise alittle hell towards the ole hubby! he's enjoying his training sessions too much! it's me or the dog trainer, baby. if he pics the dog trainer, sorry, you and your pitbull will be ok. just let that be a lesson to you. next time you pic out a dog trainer, make sure he's to your liking!!!!!
uh this sounds like something that should be under relationships:S only thing I can really say is gain confidence take control and uh train the dog yourself.
I think your problem isn't with your dog! I think you posted your question in the wrong category! Good Luck looks like you need it!!
Confront him about it..If he's into the dog trainer and he's not doing anything with her..w/e..you know just let it go..you can tell yourself all day that he's the love of your life and that you NEVER look at another guy..I used to tell myself the same thing..but the honest to God truth is that we all (even if we love some1 with all of our heart and soul) look at some1 else from time to time and fantasize. As long as he's not doing anything..let it go..but if the dog doesn't progress in a week or w/e..tell him that yall need to find some1 else to train your dog cause that woman obviously doesn't know what she's doing..lol..BUT..I just wanna give you a piece of advice if you're worried about him cheating..If a man is going to cheat on you..he's gonna do it..it doesn't matter what you say or do..that's just the bottom line..I hope this helped!! Take care!!
She sounds like a genious to me. She IS a trainer. She trains MEN... to give her lots of money for the pure pleasure of just looking at her. For all you know she has never successfully trained a dog in her life. Beautiful women can get away with murder.
Your husband is buying a very expensive lapdance for your dog. and he gets to watch.
Pull the plug.
the dog wont progress unless you keep training it at home. practise what you learn at training
if you don't trust your husband that's a different problem altogether
wrong section.
leave himWhat signs do I look out for, I think my husband wants the dog trainer?
Grow up and take control.
We can't help you with your husband...if he's stepping out - you need to talk to him.
Good luck
Train the dog yourself. Also, no matter how much money you spend on dog training, it will not work unless it is practiced daily with dog. The more practice the dog gets the better it is able to learn what is expected.
Chill! If she is a hot blond, What would she want with a married man whose dog is not a good advertisement for her teaching? I agree about changing trainers. There is no reason why you should not be seeing results. How long have you been going? There are many ways to train a dog. Some work better than others. It seems to me $1100. is excessive. especially with no results. How long have you been taking him to the trainer? Not all systems work.
Grow a spine and stop acting like you need other people's advice on how to handle your marriage.
Call the trainer, tell her you are dropping the session as your dog is not progressing. Find another trainer and actually continue the training at home - lack of progress in the dog means neither you or your husband are keeping up with what you have learned.
As for hubby - that's up to you.
sounds like it's time to raise alittle hell towards the ole hubby! he's enjoying his training sessions too much! it's me or the dog trainer, baby. if he pics the dog trainer, sorry, you and your pitbull will be ok. just let that be a lesson to you. next time you pic out a dog trainer, make sure he's to your liking!!!!!
uh this sounds like something that should be under relationships:S only thing I can really say is gain confidence take control and uh train the dog yourself.
I think your problem isn't with your dog! I think you posted your question in the wrong category! Good Luck looks like you need it!!
Confront him about it..If he's into the dog trainer and he's not doing anything with her..w/e..you know just let it go..you can tell yourself all day that he's the love of your life and that you NEVER look at another guy..I used to tell myself the same thing..but the honest to God truth is that we all (even if we love some1 with all of our heart and soul) look at some1 else from time to time and fantasize. As long as he's not doing anything..let it go..but if the dog doesn't progress in a week or w/e..tell him that yall need to find some1 else to train your dog cause that woman obviously doesn't know what she's doing..lol..BUT..I just wanna give you a piece of advice if you're worried about him cheating..If a man is going to cheat on you..he's gonna do it..it doesn't matter what you say or do..that's just the bottom line..I hope this helped!! Take care!!
She sounds like a genious to me. She IS a trainer. She trains MEN... to give her lots of money for the pure pleasure of just looking at her. For all you know she has never successfully trained a dog in her life. Beautiful women can get away with murder.
Your husband is buying a very expensive lapdance for your dog. and he gets to watch.
Pull the plug.
the dog wont progress unless you keep training it at home. practise what you learn at training
if you don't trust your husband that's a different problem altogether
wrong section.
I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
The date is Sat. 10/27/07 and I really need hall places, bar rentals, etc. We would like to have it around he Worcester, MA area.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Worcester, MA?
I was gonna say the Brassrail in Toronto.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Massachusetts is nortorious for the witch burning trials back in the 1600's, so I'm sure that there are lots of locations that would make for a spooky party theme. You might want to look up historical places that are also easily rented for an evening of supernatural fun. Plan a paranormal scavanger hunt starting at another location and ending up at your party location. Get lots of dry ice to make ';fog';. Create your own haunted house, invite a local celebrity psychic to do tours or plan a tour of a local cemetary. Depending on your budget, set up ';booths'; where you have a fortune teller, a tarot reader, an aura interpreter and someone that can tell good ghost stories. If you're on a tight budget, rent a location that has a past, look up the history and have everyone come in costume that honors that place's previous owners etc. And, serve lots of good food!
A BARN! YOU CAN FIX UP AN OLD BARN FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING....ESPECIALLY FOR A HALLOWEEN PARTY/BIRTHDAY.
http://cg.channel.aol.com/halloween-part鈥?/a>
http://www.eventective.com/meeting_weddi鈥?/a>
http://www.thegreatevent.com/content/loc鈥?/a>
http://www.wedj.com/wedj.nsf/stateSearch鈥?/a>
rent one of those old spooky mansions.
Worcester, MA?
I was gonna say the Brassrail in Toronto.I want to throw a 30th birthday party for my husband/halloween party this year. Any location rental ideas?
Massachusetts is nortorious for the witch burning trials back in the 1600's, so I'm sure that there are lots of locations that would make for a spooky party theme. You might want to look up historical places that are also easily rented for an evening of supernatural fun. Plan a paranormal scavanger hunt starting at another location and ending up at your party location. Get lots of dry ice to make ';fog';. Create your own haunted house, invite a local celebrity psychic to do tours or plan a tour of a local cemetary. Depending on your budget, set up ';booths'; where you have a fortune teller, a tarot reader, an aura interpreter and someone that can tell good ghost stories. If you're on a tight budget, rent a location that has a past, look up the history and have everyone come in costume that honors that place's previous owners etc. And, serve lots of good food!
A BARN! YOU CAN FIX UP AN OLD BARN FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING....ESPECIALLY FOR A HALLOWEEN PARTY/BIRTHDAY.
http://cg.channel.aol.com/halloween-part鈥?/a>
http://www.eventective.com/meeting_weddi鈥?/a>
http://www.thegreatevent.com/content/loc鈥?/a>
http://www.wedj.com/wedj.nsf/stateSearch鈥?/a>
rent one of those old spooky mansions.
Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
She also doesn't like other men but doesn't mind other woman.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
Because cats are evil. I recommend getting a dog.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
that's really funny!! my husband would agree with the best answer!
Did you socialize your cat when she was a kitten. If not that would explain why she only likes you and your husband. I have a cat that hides when ever when have company. When she was a baby we were anti-social, so she doesn't like people coming over. I would suggest buying cat treats, then have your most patient friend sit down and try to coax your kitty to take the treat. After she is comfortable with this friend have other try to give her treats. Pretty soon she will associate company with treats, and she will love it when you have guests.
My muted calico is so shy that altho I'vehad her since August 2000, my best friend has seen her only twice--once thru a window, %26amp; once down a hall from about 20 feet away. She hides whenever there is someone else in the house %26amp; only shows herself to her ';brother'; %26amp; me.
Because she is a cat. Cats just act strange sometimes, I know mine does.
calico cats are like this i find,and they sulk lots to
calico cats are generally man or woman oriented not both. And they ussually have alot of attitude.
I have a Calico and she is a bit flaky, but lovable. She is skittish around other people, but entirely comfortable with me and my spouse. She is very mouthy too and wants things done her way. When our alarm clock goes off, she gets on our dresser and starts throwing things off of it or rips up the rug to wake us up to feed her. She also like to challenge the dogs by getting really close and staring at them. They freak out and she walks away with triumph. Maybe it's just the breed.
Because cats are evil. I recommend getting a dog.Why does my calico cat have an attitude and why does she only like being held by my husband and I?
that's really funny!! my husband would agree with the best answer!
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Did you socialize your cat when she was a kitten. If not that would explain why she only likes you and your husband. I have a cat that hides when ever when have company. When she was a baby we were anti-social, so she doesn't like people coming over. I would suggest buying cat treats, then have your most patient friend sit down and try to coax your kitty to take the treat. After she is comfortable with this friend have other try to give her treats. Pretty soon she will associate company with treats, and she will love it when you have guests.
My muted calico is so shy that altho I'vehad her since August 2000, my best friend has seen her only twice--once thru a window, %26amp; once down a hall from about 20 feet away. She hides whenever there is someone else in the house %26amp; only shows herself to her ';brother'; %26amp; me.
Because she is a cat. Cats just act strange sometimes, I know mine does.
calico cats are like this i find,and they sulk lots to
calico cats are generally man or woman oriented not both. And they ussually have alot of attitude.
I have a Calico and she is a bit flaky, but lovable. She is skittish around other people, but entirely comfortable with me and my spouse. She is very mouthy too and wants things done her way. When our alarm clock goes off, she gets on our dresser and starts throwing things off of it or rips up the rug to wake us up to feed her. She also like to challenge the dogs by getting really close and staring at them. They freak out and she walks away with triumph. Maybe it's just the breed.
What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
How many keystroke should a good piano have? What is a good height for a yamaha piano? What should we be looking out for in a piano? At the moment we have yamaha in mind and my husband thinks it is easier to sell out later because of the brand's name. We have 3 girls age 14, 13 and 7years old that would like to play piano.
We can't afford an expansive one, we are looking at $2000-$2500 AUS$.What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Sure, Yamaha is fine. It's not the only good one available, shop a bit. But you really should look at the want ads or CraigsList and even check piano stores for a used model. You should be able to find one that's ';good as new'; and you'll save money. But before you go shopping ask yourself why your husband wants the Yamaha 鈥?you say because the brand name will be easy to sell in future. Yet you say you have three girls who want to play. Sounds like maybe he has less faith in the longevity of their interests than you do. Who is it that really wants them to play piano?? I find it odd that all three kids would have a burning desire to play piano ... but I've been wrong before. All I'm really saying is that you give us some clues that this expensive purchase may not be a real solid decision. Time to evaluate more than the cost of 88 keys on a box, eh?What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Well a used piano is probabbly smart, there are several brands though that are good check out these
Schimmel -
Petrof
Kawai
Sauter
ect.
But maybe your kids would like to play with headphones on or when you sleep or anything, maybe turn the volume down and things... so! there is a possibility of a digital Piano! because digital pianos dont have to be tuned and are execellent for begginers.
Yamha makes them
and KAwai makes them The Kawai CA series are a good choice and the Yamha CLP 370 and up is also worth a look, check them out and if you dont like the idea of digital piano try to look for used pianos
I would only add the higher the upright, the better the tone quality (longer strings, less crossover on the frame), the less often it goes out of tune, the higher the resale value.
If you are buying second hand from an independent seller, it is well worth the additional expense to have an independently chosen technician look at it and give you his assessment.
Best, Petr B.
Don't just go for yamaha because they're the top brand, a used piano is probably smarter, a yamaha upright is about 1000 pounds in england, I bought my used chalen piano for much cheaper and it's great, for 300 pounds :)
surely yamaha is the best as u're a beginner, and at ur price. and there's a vast range of them, just go to the shop and ask for them
an upright piano would be nice.... I suggest that you go to their store %26amp; see if some of their pianos suit your taste %26amp; your budget...
^_^ good luck^_^
We can't afford an expansive one, we are looking at $2000-$2500 AUS$.What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Sure, Yamaha is fine. It's not the only good one available, shop a bit. But you really should look at the want ads or CraigsList and even check piano stores for a used model. You should be able to find one that's ';good as new'; and you'll save money. But before you go shopping ask yourself why your husband wants the Yamaha 鈥?you say because the brand name will be easy to sell in future. Yet you say you have three girls who want to play. Sounds like maybe he has less faith in the longevity of their interests than you do. Who is it that really wants them to play piano?? I find it odd that all three kids would have a burning desire to play piano ... but I've been wrong before. All I'm really saying is that you give us some clues that this expensive purchase may not be a real solid decision. Time to evaluate more than the cost of 88 keys on a box, eh?What is the best piano to buy for beginner? My husband wants Yamaha upright? How many type of yamaha are there?
Well a used piano is probabbly smart, there are several brands though that are good check out these
Schimmel -
Petrof
Kawai
Sauter
ect.
But maybe your kids would like to play with headphones on or when you sleep or anything, maybe turn the volume down and things... so! there is a possibility of a digital Piano! because digital pianos dont have to be tuned and are execellent for begginers.
Yamha makes them
and KAwai makes them The Kawai CA series are a good choice and the Yamha CLP 370 and up is also worth a look, check them out and if you dont like the idea of digital piano try to look for used pianos
I would only add the higher the upright, the better the tone quality (longer strings, less crossover on the frame), the less often it goes out of tune, the higher the resale value.
If you are buying second hand from an independent seller, it is well worth the additional expense to have an independently chosen technician look at it and give you his assessment.
Best, Petr B.
Don't just go for yamaha because they're the top brand, a used piano is probably smarter, a yamaha upright is about 1000 pounds in england, I bought my used chalen piano for much cheaper and it's great, for 300 pounds :)
surely yamaha is the best as u're a beginner, and at ur price. and there's a vast range of them, just go to the shop and ask for them
an upright piano would be nice.... I suggest that you go to their store %26amp; see if some of their pianos suit your taste %26amp; your budget...
^_^ good luck^_^
How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
Ladies or getleman can answer, be nice.How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
Poor and happy, all the way!!
Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? Even if you're rich, you're still UNHAPPY?!?! Yeah, no thanks! That would be asinine!How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
RICH but unhappy in bed but who cares about that when i can go shopping any time i want. I can make my own self happy in bed with the best toys money can buy. Being poor but happy in bed doesn't last because after awhile you will start arguing over money and slowly but surely the once happiness in bed turns into bitterness.
Honestly, I would rather be with a rich man and unhappy in bed.
I'll explain; I could teach a man tricks to make me happy in bed and still shop, own real estate, be an entrepenuer, feed the hungry or do what ever makes me happy. Not to say that I needed him to have money at all...
I would not want to be poor and forget about all the bills and existing problems only when we are having incredible sex. After the sex how are we going to eat? Better yet how are we going to wash our asses when the hot water gets cut off because we are soo poor.
The rich guy that treated the woman bad still paid child support after the relationship was over. In the end she was able to move on and be happy with someone new and still had income from the last rich guy that treated her like crap. Child Support isn't cheap. That money came in handy.
Thats the bad thinking that society puts on females, ';money can't buy you happiness'; It can't buy happiness literaly but, it can allow you to expand ideas and other ventures. Thats another story...
Since money is only an energy that is attracted when we feel good then is evident that i would rather be happy first and love.
the EQUATION goes:
BE DO HAVE.
about being poor and rich, there are people out there that they are SO RICH that they ONLY one thing they got is money.
Poor but happy. My 1st husband made good money but he ended up cheating and treating me like crap. We took nice vacations, etc. but I divorced him and lived off of $8.00 an hour.
I ended up falling in love with a poor man. He had huge child support payments but as long as we were together it didn't matter. By the way, my 'poor' husband's kids are now over 18, we own our business and are doing quite well. So give me a poor man who makes me happy in (and out of) bed, anytime.
I would say in love and be poor the less I had the happier I was you learn to appreciate each other and the things in life that you take for granted
HOW ABOUT happy period. It is not anyone elses job to ';make'; you anything. It is YOUR responsibility to make YOURSELF happy.
Poor and happy.
poor and happy
The first of course. I make good money soo poor is not an option for me
Both! But love trumps money, in my book anyway.spots bloom-
Poor and happy, all the way!!
Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? Even if you're rich, you're still UNHAPPY?!?! Yeah, no thanks! That would be asinine!How Do you preffer to Live Poor but happy with husband whomakes youhappy in the bed or Rich but Unhappy in bed?
RICH but unhappy in bed but who cares about that when i can go shopping any time i want. I can make my own self happy in bed with the best toys money can buy. Being poor but happy in bed doesn't last because after awhile you will start arguing over money and slowly but surely the once happiness in bed turns into bitterness.
Honestly, I would rather be with a rich man and unhappy in bed.
I'll explain; I could teach a man tricks to make me happy in bed and still shop, own real estate, be an entrepenuer, feed the hungry or do what ever makes me happy. Not to say that I needed him to have money at all...
I would not want to be poor and forget about all the bills and existing problems only when we are having incredible sex. After the sex how are we going to eat? Better yet how are we going to wash our asses when the hot water gets cut off because we are soo poor.
The rich guy that treated the woman bad still paid child support after the relationship was over. In the end she was able to move on and be happy with someone new and still had income from the last rich guy that treated her like crap. Child Support isn't cheap. That money came in handy.
Thats the bad thinking that society puts on females, ';money can't buy you happiness'; It can't buy happiness literaly but, it can allow you to expand ideas and other ventures. Thats another story...
Since money is only an energy that is attracted when we feel good then is evident that i would rather be happy first and love.
the EQUATION goes:
BE DO HAVE.
about being poor and rich, there are people out there that they are SO RICH that they ONLY one thing they got is money.
Poor but happy. My 1st husband made good money but he ended up cheating and treating me like crap. We took nice vacations, etc. but I divorced him and lived off of $8.00 an hour.
I ended up falling in love with a poor man. He had huge child support payments but as long as we were together it didn't matter. By the way, my 'poor' husband's kids are now over 18, we own our business and are doing quite well. So give me a poor man who makes me happy in (and out of) bed, anytime.
I would say in love and be poor the less I had the happier I was you learn to appreciate each other and the things in life that you take for granted
HOW ABOUT happy period. It is not anyone elses job to ';make'; you anything. It is YOUR responsibility to make YOURSELF happy.
Poor and happy.
poor and happy
The first of course. I make good money soo poor is not an option for me
Both! But love trumps money, in my book anyway.
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