How can I keep my husband satisfied?

We've been together for 4 years and married for 1 year. We have 2 kids, so we really don't get to be alone as much as we used to, and I feel like we need to spice up our relationship! I feel old, and Im only 20.... what can I do so my husband won't go out and find that excitment somewhere else?How can I keep my husband satisfied?
Have the grandparents(whichever ones you TRUST) take the kids for a weekend. Then go get ';romantic';. Whatever that means to you guys.How can I keep my husband satisfied?
sorry but you can never keep someone from going somewhere else that's all in his own chacter, he's either in love or he's not, it's pretty much that easy. going out on dates ,spendin money you don't have won't do it either. the easiest way is to get your children on schedules so you have time to yourself every night at the same time to do anything you desire, even if it's him.
Keeping your husband satisfied will require more than just ';spicing'; up the bedroom. By all means, have sex frequently (we all know they love this and it only strengthens your bond together) but I have found that men are simple creatures.





Give him ';his'; time, whether he likes to play basketball with his friends on Fridays or whatever.





Don't nag him. It's very easy for us women to get into a nagging mode. But you can catch more bees with honey than vinegar (remember that).





Tell him you love him. Regularly. Women aren't the only ones who like to hear this. Support him. Tell him you are proud of him. Acknowledge his achievements.





Cook for him. Men love to eat (well, we all do).





Pick and choose your battles. Is it really worth fighting over the wet towels he leaves on the bathroom floor after every shower?





Just think about being the type of person that you would want to come home to everyday. Sex is great, but it's not everything. Your man will appreciate it when he can come home from a long day at work and just sit on the couch and relax without being bothered for a few minutes, knowing you love and support him. Make your home a happy home, one that he can't wait to get to every night.
You need to keep dressing sexy and acting flirty. Kids put a damper on the whole thing, and I just don't know why everyone feels they need them. Okay, so they are there. So, you can make this fun actually. Create code words with your husband, that only the two of you will know the meaning...like, ';we should discuss that statement that came in the mail'; (discuss= oral) (statement=sex) (mail=other room NOW!). I just made that up, but get my jist? You can make it fun and naughty, and actually say stuff in front of the kids, without them having the slightest clue, but you guys will understand your ';secret'; language. It's worth a shot!
At least you are thinking of ways to keep your marriage together, good on you, you deserve to succeed. Advice try to make time for each other,even if it is only 2 or 3 hours a day, tell each other how mutch you mean to the other. Good luck..
Keep yourself looking good physically, spontaneously get naked in front on him often, and make him feel like his body is to die for. Do things to him that you would only do to him, making him feel like a king and you are his slave, love slave that is.
take a night for your selves, see if someone can keep the kids for a night then get a nice hotel room and have a good romantic time.
You can't keep ANYONE satisfied my dear! Try talking and see how he feels? Get a relative over to babysit, go on a romantic weekend to Paris!
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Try this website, it might be helpful.
Get a sitter and make dates with your husband.





Please read the book...the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr Laura Schlessinger. That will give you pointers as well.
ask him or wait till he comes home from work and have nothing on but a thong and a cold beer.
ask him what he wants he will know better