How can I stop my husband drinking?

I don't like who he is when he drinks. What can I do?How can I stop my husband drinking?
sex him to death............ then, cut it off. Tell him it can resume if he puts the bottle down. --- You'd rather him drink, huh?How can I stop my husband drinking?
Suppose it depends if it is a stress thing, or if it's just when he drinks in general?


If it's just ';normal'; drinking, then maybe video him - if he can see this different person he becomes when he's drunk then he might be embarrassed %26amp; change.


If his personality changes when drunk due to stress however, maybe sit him down %26amp; have a heart to heart about how you both feel? Tell him you are worried about how he acts when drunk.





He needs to let his hair down though once in a while, you chose to marry him for better or worse, so maybe sometimes you will just have to put up with it?
Unfortunately, you cannot. He has to do it.





You can however think about joining AlAnon.





This is a group for partners of alcoholics and are amazing. The people there will understand EXACTLY what you are going through, as if they are psychic. Do yourself a huge favour for 2009 and find a local group.





YOU need support. To do it all by yourself will make it 100 times as difficult.





The very best of luck to you.





PS - Remember that your husband has a 'Cunning, Baffling and very very Powerful' illness. He is emotionally/mentally and physically ill.
Not sure how big the drinking problem? I was married for 30 years my x turned to the bottle and it was her life! If there is a real problem get him to go to AA and go with him, get him a sponsor and keep in touch with them. Listen to what AA teaches you. Go to Alonan (sp) meetings to help you. If he gets a handle on his drinking, you got your love back. If not, get out of dodge. After married 30 years now I am single and happy, she still has a drinking problem that is everyones fault!
Talk to him when he hasn't been drinking, if that doesn't work then there is nothing that you can do until he is ready. Don't let him make you suffer, because he will bring you down with him if it is serious enough.


You can not make him stop.
Only thing you can do is ask him to join AA. If not and if he behaves in a aggressive manner when he is drunk you will have to leave him. Sorry but that is the truth. If he beats you or verbally abuses you it will only be detrimental to you.
You can't, he's your husband not a child's toy. You have no control.
Nothing, it is down to him.
Threaten to leave him for your own good


dont keep alcohol in the house