Is choosing a life partner(husband) by ourself is sin? Is it same like looking at someone with lust?

Mathew 5 : 28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.





Does it mean that love marriage is sin?Is choosing a life partner(husband) by ourself is sin? Is it same like looking at someone with lust?
You know in the beginning it was not like that at all , . It will hurt forever sorta like preschool did. Not that much in the heart has changed but to look is not to lust . A question asked can we learn to love , You can learn when you want to.That you can not stop in your heart.Is choosing a life partner(husband) by ourself is sin? Is it same like looking at someone with lust?
Do you not know what LUST is?





Intense or unrestrained sexual craving








What does that have to do with arranged marriages?
no if you are married and look at someone else with lust its a sin, not the person you are married to.
No it doesn't.