Wednesday, November 23, 2011

This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?

He is starting to look more and more angry at me each time she does it eventhough its not my fault. What should I do before this guy attacks me?This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
tell him you have no interest in his wife and ask her not to bother you any more. i think she is just trying to make her husband jealous at your expense. i hate big flirts. if i was her husband and saw this i would get up and leave her where ever she was.This married woman keeps flirting with me right in front of her husband?
Well for starters I would send her the message as clearly as you can. If she makes a flirtatious comment to you, do not smile at her or give her any look to encourage her. In fact if you give her somewhat of a disappointed look and then look away she may get the message. If she touches you in anyway, pull away. Show her in every way possible that you are not interested in her. If the husband sees this, then his anger should turn to his wife and not you.
Tell the lady politely in front of the husband that you are not interested in dealing with her. If you are in a relationship then you need to let the lady know also that you are involved with someone that you don't want to mess up your relationship.
Say something like ';Well, I'm flattered, but you seem to be married to a great guy right here'; or ';I know since you're with a great guy like him that you're just flirting with me';. Especially if you say it lightheartedly, this will boost his ego (he's probably beaten down by the flirting she's done over the years) as well as let her know she's not getting to you and you're not playing her game.
When she does it again, tell her flat out, in front of her husband, that kind of suggestive talk makes you feel uncomfortable. This way she will feel embarrassed and stop and the husband will know you do not agree with it. It may be hard to do, but it is to the point and it will be effective.
Walk away.. Why do you meet those people.. or else confront him.. and tell both of them.. Tell the woman in front of her husband if she is really flirting with you .'' Lady, I have a girlfriend.. please stop flirting with me.. you have a husband.. '' or just if you have to deal with her at all treat her absolutely in a professional way.. by giving her polite replies.. what kind of husband does she have anyhow.. she must want a provokation.. I would not let her have that.. she is the kind of woman who would have enjoyed it 2 centuries ago if you and her husband would have fought a duel over her.. so make it plain that you are not interested without insulting her.. so don't say she is not attractive.. the best thing is to say nothing.. and stay out of their way if you can help it.. ignore them.. both.. if he doesn 't see what his wife is doing.. and blames you.. just stay away.. that is the best way to deal with it..
what a ***** honestly! do what the first answer said.
Lose all contact with the couple for a while. Ignore their calls, don't visit with them, avoid them all together. She will get the picture and the husband will realize that you truly have no interest in his wife.
Stop hanging out with her.
When she flirts with you ignore her and talk to her husband. Don't give her any eye contact anymore.
OOOH! I bet that's a bit wierd!


If you pull her to the side and tell you that you think the way she is behaving in front of her husband is making you uncomfortable and quite honeslty embarrasing to her spouse, I would guarentee that she'd steer clear of you for a while!
Talk to him. What a beeyatch.
Stay away from her. If she heads your way, head the other way.
Ask him right in front of her, I am flattered but is she this friendly with everyone.

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