How would an unfaithful husband feel?

My husband has cheated me and committed infidelity with another lady recently. He moves out He avoids calling us directly or sms . At the most he uses email or simply talks empty word with his son over the yahoo messenger from time to time . If so happen i talk to him, he puts out a very impatient and angry tone as if I have done sth very wrong. I am not even asking anything about that lady .How would an unfaithful husband feel?
some men would feel remorse, or guilt, but my ex felt nothing but anger at me, blaming me for the divorce. he never expressed remorse. he may be impatient because he isn't sure about the other woman. what he should feel and what he does feel are two different things. my ex never felt any remorse, and never wanted to talk, or say anything after he moved out, because he was with her.How would an unfaithful husband feel?
She's no 'lady', there is no point in talking to or trying to reason with a home wrecker or him. I am in the process of having a woman deported who had an affair with my husband and I am so done with him. You can be faithful, loving and sexy and the best mother to his child but if he's lowlife like my husband he will cheat. I bet she regrets it now, going back to her 3'rd world country. For 24 yrs I devoted my life to him and our special needs son and she had the gall to blame me for their affair. What does HE feel? he's sorry he's busted that's all.
He has a guilty conscience about what he has done. Don't try and talk to him about anything. Let him contact you. He made up his mind to leave and do his thing, so let him. If he contacts your son, that is great, but don't make a big deal about it. You need to make up your mind if you are going to work it out WHEN he decides to come home. You need to have a plan to move on with your life if he does come home, or even if he doesn't. Don't worry about him, just worry about you and your children.
why would ur question be about how he feels. his feeling is extreme guilt it is easier for him to make u feel like u have done something wrong than to except his wrong. i do think he should have a relationship with his son and hope it continues to try even though the guilt is eating him alive. now when u talk to him u should focus on how and when he will see his son. and u are dong right by not trying to talk about the lady because he is obviously not ready to give any explanation but i think he will soon talk to u and i am sure be apologetic just give him time not that he deserves anything but a big punch in the eye but someone who can actually feel that guilty about what he did must have some kind of heart.
He has moved on and it is sad to say he has did it in a child like manner and he will reap that...he has no words and honestly having a blast..(so he thinks) and he is being selfish and only thinking of himself in this entire thing so talk with your son and let him know don't expect certain things in lamens terms so that he may understand..be honest we cause more damage by so called protecting..don't tell him EVERYTHING..but don't leave him hanging he will really catch on quickly
He knows he was wrong cheating on you and every time he talks to you he realizes what he did and what he is missing now so it makes him angry. You just happen to be there when it happens. So don't blame yourself it's all on your husband. He will just figure out how to deal with it!
You better believe the skamky bit(h he is with has a big problem with him seeing you and his son in person that's why the instant messaging it's very impersonal. As far as empty words go he is embarrassed what can he say to his son.
He's a loser and has proven it time and time again





For one cheating on you instead of leaving you the proper way





As well now he is not evening wanting to be with his son





What a jerk
Rather than admit he has done something wrong he is behaving as if you are the 'bad guy'. Move on.
He is a selfish jerk who does not care about other people. He's probably a sociopath. Uses people. Youre best to leave and let him flounder on his own. Dont be a doormat.
He's guilty and he's angry he got caught so he's taking it out on you. It's a familiar story sadly.
an unfaithful husband or wife doesn't feel anything. that's what makes them unfaithful.
He is done with you and he is with her. Go get a divorce hes a looser.
I don't understand the nature of your question.
I understand the question.





Many people (male or female) try to shield themselves from their guilt or grief, (but in his case guilt) by inventing anger and resentment. Of course such anger and resentment would never hold up under close scrutiny – eg if you were to start talking about it he would have trouble getting his argument across – and those arguments he did express you would probably be able to pick holes in. He short-circuits the poor logic by skipping over it in his mind – (as we all have done at one time or another) – and that is why a lot of people prefer “silent anger” – because a lot of their grievances are actually poorly contrived and, once again, to air them would undoubtedly result in a good dressing down.





What can he possibly say to his son of substance? Is he going to talk of commitment in relationships? Honour? Gentlemanly discourses on friendship, honesty, hard work, courage under fire? He is probably feeling guilty, weak and needing (of something he is presently trying to find with another woman), But can you realy see him having the emotional mettle at the present to talk authoritatively and warmly to his son? So he fills the void – the empty air – with meaningless messages.





It is unavoidable that you are probably feeling some guilt in all this . We all have a hand (big or small) in the demise of any relationship (friends, families, lovers) - no one is perfect and you should not dwell on your own mistakes - as much as it seems you are honourably not dwelling too much on his. Be as good to yourself. There is nothing that will make you feel better. Only time – and the stronger you are through all this, and the more courageous, and the more patient and less venomous – the better you will come out the other side (eventually).





I am truly sorry…