Should she leave her husband for her girlfriend?

I have a friend that has been unhappily married for 6 six years and they have two young daughters. Her marriage sucks and recently she met a woman who she has fallen in love with (the love between the women is mutual). She's told her husband and he's being very patient in hopes that this is a phase she'll get over and return to him. Since she has children with her husband, she is more concerned about their feelings than anyone else's. Should she pursue her relationship with the woman or go back to her unhappy marriage for the sake of her kids?Should she leave her husband for her girlfriend?
deffiantly stay with the husband.. if her mother left for another women the kids would be devestated and a little embarassed and weirded out i think she should stick through it for the kidsShould she leave her husband for her girlfriend?
If the other woman has a history of breaking up marriages then she needs to steer clear. My mum left my dad for another woman and she's more unhappy now with her then she ever was with my dad (this woman had a history of breaking up marriages).





If she is unhappy in her marriage she should leave because of that not because she's met someone else.
She should do whatever makes her happy and if that being with this other woman then so be it.





You should never stay in an unhappy marriage for the kids.





Kids ain't stupid they know when there is tension in the home.





Its better for kids to be in a healthy and happy environment with 1 parent then being in an unhappy unhealthy enviroment with 2 parents.
She should be thinking of her children instead of being selfish. If she was so unhappy in her marriage then why did she have children. She needs to focus on them instead of herself. If she doesn't want to do that then the father should take FULL custody of them and let here to be with that woman.
Has the marriage only been 6 years... if so why did she get married did she already have the children? She needs to make sure she thinks about her vows and the future of her kids. What does this woman have to offer them... does she plan to marry her. What will she lose/gain in a divorce... what will happen to hubby?





Sounds like there are several questions that need answering before this one.








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Cheating in a marriage is shameful even if the other partner is ';patient';.


She should go back to her husband and beg his forgiveness. She is unhappy because she has let her eyes wonder.


You should be his friend instead of hers. She doesn't deserve a friend.
Staying married for the sake of the kids is not healthy for the kids or the parents. She needs to end the relationship with the other woman or with the husband.
Some people bond emotionally and think they are in love when in fact they are infatuated. This very well may be a case of infatuation.





After a short period of time, she may very well miss her marriage and the family unit.
If my mother left cause she was unhappy then that's her Choice as long she will come and visit me every couple days and tells me she still loves me.. but if i caught my mother leaving a man for a women then i would kick her A$$ myself.. Get right and stay right.. good luck to your friend..
Her husband is just hoping to get in on the action.





I suggest you tell your friend that cheating is wrong and then stay the heck out of it. This is a train wreck waiting to happen. Get out of the way.
I WOULD SAY MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND LET THIS FAMILY WORK OUT IT'S OWN PROBLEMS. STICKING YOUR NOSE IN JUST MAY RECOIL BACK AT YOU IN SOME SHAPE OR FORM. ARE THE FLOORS CLEAN IN YOUR HOUSE.????????????
IMO she should divorce and let the husband have full custody of the children.
Staying in an unhappy marriage is generally not good for the kids...
I don't think anyone should stay in a relationship because of children. It does more harm than good. As for her relationship with the other woman... That is her decision
That is TOTALLY her decision.
stop the lesbian crap


be a good role model for the kids


remember your vows


clean up your act
try counceling and deff stay with the husband for kids sake and her own