How did your boyfriend/husband act after he hit you?

This has never happened to me but i was wondering about how they act towards you after they have done it.How did your boyfriend/husband act after he hit you?
My boyfriend has never hit me, and I know he never would.





However, if he did he wouldn't have time to show his reaction as I would already be out the door!





I know you said this has never happened to you, and I really hope that is the truth. If you are being hit by a boyfriend/husband then you need to get out! It never stops. No matter what they say or how many times they apologize they will continue to hit you. It's a never-ending cycle until the victim takes themselves out of the situation. So please, if this is really what is happening to you, know that you deserve better and get away from this person right away. If this is happening to a friend or family member then do everything you can to help that person. Tell them what I have told you and assure them that you will be there to support them every step of the way. Then, follow through on that promise!





Although I鈥檝e never been hit by a spouse, I have been abused by my father and step-father. I know all the lines. The promises it won鈥檛 happen anymore. The excuses and being told it was my fault I was hit. I鈥檝e heard it all countless times and nothing ever changed. They still did the same behavior as the time before and I continued to be hurt. It only ended when they were out of my life. Abuse is abuse no matter how you sugar coat it. There is never an excuse or good reason to physically or emotionally hurt someone and it should NEVER be tolerated. Whether it鈥檚 a parent, step-parent, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife or anyone in your life, it鈥檚 never ever ok!





The abusers reaction after hurting someone is not important. The important thing is the person being abused gets themselves out (or the children being abused) no matter what!





Please don't take offense to me bringing up the possibility of this being your situation. I just wanted to make sure to cover all angles, just in case. I apologize if this insulted you in any way.





I hope this helped in some how.


BritHow did your boyfriend/husband act after he hit you?
I don't know, because it hasn't happened.





If it did, I imagine he would be stunned, because I would be dialing 911. NO MATTER WHAT. You might tell yourself it wasn't that hard, it's minor, etc. But it is not. It is a huge deal, and you are in danger. Call the cops, call a friend, anyone who will come to get you out of there.





Good luck; if this is happening to you, please give yourself the respect you deserve and remove yourself from the situation and report it.



My boyfriend hasn't hit me. And he never will that's for sure.





My best friend however, got hit by her boyfriend, and he was very upset afterwards, he felt really bad, and basically like a total idiot.





She started crying, cause he really hurt her, and he felt really bad..





Never again did he hit her.. Dont take that.. your a strong women, stand up no hitting allowed.
Changing your question a little to suit...forgive me.





My partner (female) hits me almost daily....mainly elbowing me in face.





After a while I got really upset and told her if she ever hit me again I would hit her back.





She laughed and said that if I ever hit her, the police would arrest me....as bruises would show on her (whereas when she hits me, it is never hard enough to leave marks to prove abuse).





I still get hit almost daily.





She usually then tells me she loves me.





When I start talking to her, she then tells me to shut up because she cannot hear the tv.
they will be all apologetic... oh i SWEAR i'll never do it again (blah blah blah).... they say YOU made him do it...they buy roses and presents %26amp; SWEAR they didn't do it on purpose....that they LOVE you more than anything!!! these are the most dangerous predators and it only gets worse... the abuse and leaving!!! I'm sorry I know you SAY it has not happened to YOU (really???) but please - if you are in a dangerous situation - PLEASE GET OUT NOW!!! NO MAN SHOULD EVER HIT A WOMAN or CHILD!!!
Once my boyfriend and I were arguing and that bastard hit me in my face...


Your question: How did he act AFTER he hit me...? Hmm good question.


He acted SCARED as hell when I pulled out my 40 caliber and pointed dead at him. From then on...I would say I'm his Peruvian Queen...gets no better.
As soon as he did his eyes got huge and immediatly started saying how sorry he was and how he couldn't believe he did that. But then he got mad when I wouldn't accept his apology.


The next few times we just continued fighting after he hit me.


I was stupid and let it happen 4 times. But he's long gone now.
First they're angry at you for making them mad enough to hit you and then they are apologetic and cry or whine and say they will never do it again. Leave and don't give them another chance to do it again!
never happen to me before


I don't think he has enough balls to hit me


i would expect if it did happen


he would feel guilty



My boyfriend has never hit me and if he did he wouldn't get the chance to have a reaction because he would be dead.
like nothing happened
That is crazy behaviour
he's never hit me. if yours did, then i suggest you get the hell out and don't listen to him.
THE TRADITIONAL LONELY FACE.... WITH SORRY FOR WHAT I HAVE DONE.
I know my dad would bring my mom a gift or flowers the following day.
My ex said he was sorry, it would never happen again...also acting like nothing had happened.
A man has never hit me so I wouldn't know. All I know is that he wouldn't have time to react to it......
very bad, abused
i dont think hed have time to react


urrbody knows not to mess with me


rofl i dont tolerate any kind of abuse
not mine but they act all sweet until their next temper tantrum
Today my huband threw a full water bottle at my head... he siad I brought it on because I was ';mouthing off';.
Why.....thats so weird. Your weird. Don't ask questions about people's personal life. its so upsetting. i'm crying now. ur so intruding and invasive.