What item of women's clothing would you object to your husband (as a crossdresser) wearing?

For my wife, she does'nt like me wearing high heeled shoes, saying 'they are too womanly'...although she used to say that about bras but seems okay about it now. I like shoes the best, but obviously want to respect her wishes.





What lines would you stop at? My wife is very very cool and I do all the typical man things, just happen to like dressing as a woman.What item of women's clothing would you object to your husband (as a crossdresser) wearing?
One of the other posters said it very well, but I'd like to offer a slightly different take on the same basic message. Most crossdressers seem to want to emulate women. Understandably, some women don't react well to the idea of their mate simulating the female gender. Also, I have heard from girlfriends of crossdressers that they never really know how far their boyfriends will want to go with presenting themselves as females. Could there be a sex change down the road? I have met a few women who are indifferent to the issue; however, I would surmise that these women would probably be ok with a female partner under the right circumstances. I'm not being critical here - just trying to state facts as I perceive them.





I have two friends who are a couple and the guy regularly wears female clothes. He tells me that he has a ';split gender identity'; and enjoys aspects of both the male and female gender. He does not masquerade as a female: he wears no make-up, no wig or breast forms. On the other hand, he is not a ';guy in a dress.'; He wears dresses, blouses and skirts that are stylish and fit him well. He shaves his legs and wears pretty lingerie. I find him fascinating because he is perfectly comfortable being who he is - a straight biological male who expresses his feminine attributes by wearing feminine clothing. He works as an accountant in an office environment and wears dresses and skirts on the job. He tends to ';blend in'; because he is at ease and that attitude seems to be contagious. His girlfriend (my friend) is feminine in her own right and enjoys her partner's masculine and feminine attributes. He is a typical guy in many respects, yet he is much more sensitive to her feelings on certain matters than any other guy she's known. His partial femininity doesn't threaten her because he obviously enjoys being her mate and is comfortable with presenting himself as a biological male, rather than a guy straining to be a woman.What item of women's clothing would you object to your husband (as a crossdresser) wearing?
My husbands a manly man and won't even hold my handbag for me when were out so I doubt I'll have to deal with this.


But if it was the case I'd quite enjoy helping him dress and buying clothes for him, applying make-up etc, I'd let him try what he fancied, we could have a seperate wardrobe - I'm excited imagining it but it would never ever happen.


Enjoy x
Maternity clothes.
Shoes...
Okay, you're serious, aren't you?





First, consider your wife's needs. Unless she is a lesbian she needs to be held and loved by a man. She needs a sense of security with her love. She needs to love a man she can respect and honor. She needs you as a man...





You know women have more freedom with what they wear. Women can wear pants, or just about any men's clothes without upsetting our social norms. Why? Well, when a woman wears men's clothes she doesn't pretend to be a man. She doesn't use a deep voice, grow hair on her face, or insist on using male pronouns. Instead, she stays feminine. If she wears men's clothing she remains a woman.





I would be fine with a man who wore lingerie, skirts, a dress, etc.. as long as he keeps his masculine personality. When he creates a female alter-ego and gives ';her'; a name like Rachel Louise, well, that's upsetting. It means, I don't have my man. I don't have my needs met any longer.





If you want to meet your wife's needs for a man you can't pretend to be a woman. I pretty sure I'm right about this. If you were my husband, I would want you to work out - build your male physique. I would love the feel of soft lingerie against your lean hard-body... That's kinky but sexy. But I will NOT make love to a man with false breasts, make-up, wigs, and all that fake junk to make you pretend you're a woman.