Why do women always blame the other woman and not their husband/boyfriend?

I understand that if the girl your man is cheating on you with knew you were together as to why you would blame her. But why blame the girl when they know nothing of the sort? I know a girl who was 17 and was dating a 30year old who came to find out he was married 6months into the relationship and his wife blamed her. Why would the woman blame the girl and not her husband?Why do women always blame the other woman and not their husband/boyfriend?
Only stupid women do this because to them, losing that dick in their lives would be the worst thing that could happen to them, so they are willing to overlook their husbands' part in the betrayal. Intelligent women on the other hand kick the cheating husbands to the curb because they realise that no man is better than a lousy one.Why do women always blame the other woman and not their husband/boyfriend?
Because most women need somewhere to place the blame and they feel it was the other woman's fault, when its not. Talk to your man. He is the one that has the burden to make it known he is taken, and he is the one with the responsibility to say NO.


No one can make your man do anything he doesn't want to do. If an affair happened, it was because your man WANTED it to happened and willingly participated. Blame your MAN!!
It takes two and it 'should' be the responsibility of every woman/man to make sure the one they are involved with is not married to another. Some people do not care that they are messing around with married people. And they should be shot/blamed. However, the cheating spouse should take on the brunt of blame for cheating.
I wouldn't say she blames the other woman completely, it just that when your standing face to face with another woman who's been able to attract your man enough for him to stray and forget about you/home for even a moment, she gets angry....all thats going through her mind is you obviously have something that she doesn't that would make him break all the promises he made, which in turn makes you the target.
The woman thinks her husband is a wonderful man who can do no wrong so it must be her...shes a whore who manipulated him and she must have really worked hard because he's so good to her and loyal and honest well, it just can't be his fault.
I don't get that either, after all your husband is the one that was there when you made those vows....he should know better!!! I'm not saying that the girl don't need a good *** whooping too, but just do it after you kick your husbands first, right? (lol)
I have never understood this either. She is not the one cheating on you. I guess it is easier to blame her than to face the real problem.
Love blinds you this way. Its easier to blame a stranger, than the person you are with because you want so badly to believe that they didn't **** on your feelings.





Who wants to believe their SO is hurting them?
Obviously, you don't want to blame the one you love...





Both parties at fault but I would say the married one more at fault. Especially in cases where the other woman didn't know he was married! It happens.





Harriet
is it because


1. a woman's worst enemy is always another woman (be it mil or sil)


2. opposites attract


3. women dont vibe well
dont hate the player hate the game.














but no seriously i' ve noticed that too. whats up with that?